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Help, I've ruined my relationship.
Q. HI there. I am in desperate need of advice; I have had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend who I consider my best friend, and my lover, for two and a half years; but now it has gone really astray. In the past 2 years I've suffered from pa...
A. 31 December 2008: Good news hon and you are welcome from the bottom of my heart! You are using good common sense in how you are handling this situation. You let him know how you feel and accepted the blame of your part in the failing relationship.
By working ... (read in full...)
He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"
Q. This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Perhaps hon you are a bit obsessed with the thought of Fred. If the other guy is more of the kind of man you want you may want to try letting Fred walk. Marriage is important to alot of folks and sometimes finding the right person seems impossible. ... (read in full...)
He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"
Q. This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Pack your bags and find the door. This cad has no real respect for you. He doesn't even want any of the same things in a realationship that you do.
You need to think about the child. You say you care for HIM more than anything. Does this mean you... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the advice
Q. just like to say a big thank you to all the aunts and uncles who have given me good advice,bad advice,labelled me even accused me in the years i have written my problems.as 2008 draws to a close and its been a horrible year in ever aspect of my ...
A. 31 December 2008: Your ex made his choice and moved on. You took another route and in turn moved on with someone new! Your choice may be the best of the two. It has given you a chance at a NEW BEGINNING and the real chance of finding happiness with someone who can ... (read in full...)
Am I missing the big picture?
Q. OK- I need a little more advice. I have been dating this lady for 3 months. just don’t see enough of each other. We used to see each other a few days out of the week. But now it is maybe once a week or longer. I try calling to say hello and ...
A. 30 December 2008: It seems as though she can't control her own feelings. She has a definate alcohol problem and may be using drugs as well. When you ask yourself if this is the kind of woman you really want in a relationship, you answer is the best clue in your BIG ... (read in full...)
What should I say to the doctor about my depression?
Q. Tommorow I am going to the doctors to try and get medication for my depression. The reason I need these meds is because I'm losing all motivation to do anything, I mean, I've almost quit my job, and I've almost started smoking again! And I'm close ...
A. 30 December 2008: So true bibsy! Sometimes it can happen that way. The young lady here must keep her options open and follow thru with her treatment, however her input will be an ongoing part of her treatment. By learning how to speak up and express her problems, ... (read in full...)
What should I say to the doctor about my depression?
Q. Tommorow I am going to the doctors to try and get medication for my depression. The reason I need these meds is because I'm losing all motivation to do anything, I mean, I've almost quit my job, and I've almost started smoking again! And I'm close ...
A. 30 December 2008: Tell him exactally how you feel. He will ask you questions I am sure. It helps him in his diagnosis. Don't hold back on anything. If you fee suidicidal tell him that too. This can all have an impact on the type of medication he will prescribe for ... (read in full...)
He will not introduce me to his family.
Q. I have been having a relationship with a man for 8 years. We do not live together although I would like to and asked him if he would buy a house with me. He replied that he will not buy a house with a woman again. I went ahead alone. I have tw...
A. 30 December 2008: Sometimes it just takes a little bit of care from someone else to give you the last bit of courage needed to get up and make the move. You are welcome for anything that I could have done. I wish you the best and I am sure you are going to be just ... (read in full...)
Bisexual husband?
Q. Hi all Let me give you a short background first...married 13 years with 2 kids. I am bi myself,came out about 6 years ago. When I came out he was there as I said it outloud to both of us, and we came to an understanding I would not explore or e...
A. 30 December 2008: To start with when you engage someone else into your marital relationship you are aksing for trouble! Another woman could easily have taken your husband completely awayf from you. Being bi yourself and knowing how hard comming out was, how can you ... (read in full...)
He will not introduce me to his family.
Q. I have been having a relationship with a man for 8 years. We do not live together although I would like to and asked him if he would buy a house with me. He replied that he will not buy a house with a woman again. I went ahead alone. I have tw...
A. 30 December 2008: Prhaps he cares about you and the children but he certainly isn't in a serous realtionship with you. You are the one who is having this illusion of the relationship you want and are struggling so sadly to get. I am sorry that you are having to go ... (read in full...)
Is it too much money for a present?
Q. hey guys do you think that spending £350 on a birthday present for your boyfriend is too much... ive been with him for a year now... he really wants a tv so i said i would buy it for him... he feels obligated but doesnt really insist that i doont ...
A. 29 December 2008: He wants it but feels a bit guilty I am sure that you would actually do this for him. I think that umless you are engaged and he is going to give you something really nice and pretty equal in expense it's best to limit the present to something less ... (read in full...)
Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?
Q. My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n ...
A. 29 December 2008: My heart leaps with joy and PRIDE for your DECISION! ATTA GIRL! You showed a great deal of courage here and YOU SHOULD FEEL PROUD OF YOURSELF!
Don't let his words bother you. You will never regret giving up being mistreated, manipulated ... (read in full...)
If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend?
Q. If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend? I'm not talking sexy negligee or lingerie, I'm talking flannel matching top and bottom pajamas. Don't get me wrong, sh...
A. 29 December 2008: I think it's not just a matter of sex appeal. It possible that she is just wearing something comfy and relaxing. If the two of you aren't into a potential man/woman relationship then she isn't too worried about being all dressed up. You even admit ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son?
Q. Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son? Even if they aren't married any more, but my dad has a son with her which makes him my half brothers half brother???...
A. 29 December 2008: Unless I am reading this wrong, it makes him your half brother also. IF the man is your real Father and he was married to this woman who gave birth to his son. \
If that is correct, you shouldn't even think about it! PERIOD!
You are going t... (read in full...)
Was this attempted rape?
Q. My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...
A. 29 December 2008: Sorry hon but from the sounds of things you were getting in over your head. You continued to pleasure him even after you said no. You are giving him mixed signals. Things were getting a bit carried away and he was misintrepeting what you wanted. ... (read in full...)
Help, I've ruined my relationship.
Q. HI there. I am in desperate need of advice; I have had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend who I consider my best friend, and my lover, for two and a half years; but now it has gone really astray. In the past 2 years I've suffered from pa...
A. 29 December 2008: MY computer has gone Kukooo! Keyboard sticks and now it doesn't post my name *LOL* Thank Goodness I signed it or I would never have been heard. *rolling my eyes In case you missed it I am the 3rd post. According to what this young lady has told ... (read in full...)
I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy?
Q. hi, I'm 2 months pregnant, I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy? I'm a 34e now so what does everyone think they will be? plz help I want to be prepared xxx...
A. 29 December 2008: It depends on alot of things. Heriditary genes can make a big difference, however this isn't the only thing, just like gaining weight.
My sister got pretty good sized C-cup from a little more than AA then poof! Like fried eggs.
My Mom got a ... (read in full...)
Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?
Q. My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n ...
A. 28 December 2008: HON PLEASE LISTEN! DON'T give him a picture of YOU At all. DITCH him. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU! HE IS MANIPULATING AND HE IS DESTROYING YOUR SELF RESPECT AND SELF ESTEEM.
Any self respecting young man would never ask you to do this and if you do YO... (read in full...)
Finding inner peace without God..advise please!
Q. It is a spiritual question, and I hope I can get some opinion. I'm not a religious person on this point, but I wish to reach out for some spiritual answers and help. It is difficult ,as I can't pray to a God I don;t believe in on this point. I ...
A. 28 December 2008: God comes in many forms. But HE IS STILL GOD Hon. What we feel in our hearts and souls about life. The choices we make are all given to us by some higher form. Choosing to believe or not is your given right.
We all worship the God of our choic... (read in full...)
Is my new husband cheating or am I just paranoid?
Q. I have only been married for eight weeks, and for the last five weeks i have been going out of my mind with worry, my husband works away from home, and we only see each other every three to four weeks for a day or two at a time, however, i received ...
A. 28 December 2008: You are welcome hon and I am glad you know what is going on. Now you can begin to move on with your life and begin to heal. I know right now you may not feel like it but I hope you can Put on your favorite party dress and fix yourself up, go out on ... (read in full...)
What is causing this white discharge?
Q. This is quite a personal question. I hope you can help me out with the problem. Some mornings when I get up and go to the bathroom, my underwear has white stuff (like a big blob of it) on it. I don't know what it is. Any ideas? ...
A. 28 December 2008: If it has a thick white clumpy or pasty consistancy and causes itching, it is most likely a yeast infection.
If thick and white with no itching present this is what is termed Normal discharge and it noticable in the beginning and end of your cyc... (read in full...)
I cheated on my husband with his best friend...
Q. I am a very young girl and I am married and just recently had a baby... Well I have wondered for a while what it would be like to be with another man because my husband is the only one I have only ever been with... so last night I cheated on him and ...
A. 28 December 2008: Hon you have crossed a boundry that should have NEVER been crossed. You should have done the investigating while you were single. Now you are a Mother and a wife. You are letting your son and husband both down. What you may not realize at this ... (read in full...)
Titanic mentality?
Q. As the efforts to tell us how the universe was formed and the machinery to discover the Higgs boson breaks down. A blind man sucessfully navigates an obsticle course with no aids, sensing by some means where the obsticles lie. Could it be we do...
A. 28 December 2008: Perhaps I should have phrased it as alone time and bored. You are so right NEVER ALONE! GOD IS WITH YOU ALWAYS EVEN UNTIL THE END.
Thanks for the video I almost never got it to work from my end cause my computer acts like a ditz when it want... (read in full...)
Titanic mentality?
Q. As the efforts to tell us how the universe was formed and the machinery to discover the Higgs boson breaks down. A blind man sucessfully navigates an obsticle course with no aids, sensing by some means where the obsticles lie. Could it be we do...
A. 27 December 2008: You are welcome.I suppose that you got what you needed here. A little conversation for an otherwise lonely time. I hope the respone gave you insight. I acutally wrote this but I also know it for a fact. I didn't even make it up for good reading. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my daughter who is afraid of small spaces?
Q. My daughter (who's 4) is scared of small spaces. She wont even go in an elevator unless (we live in apartment) I hold her the whole time. My son (he's 8) thinks its funny to lock her the closet (you cant open from the inside). It takes like an hour ...
A. 27 December 2008: Correction. I was diagnosed in '92 with Bi-Polar..and sorry this computer times out and sometimes puts my post in twice.
When I get to HEAVEN.......then I WILL BE PERFECT
Thanks for reading my advice and the best to you all....
Always,... (read in full...)
Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?
Q. My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n ...
A. 27 December 2008: NO! Honey you are too young to even think about this kind of action. I have a 13 1/2 year old granddaughter and she would put him in his place! He is manipulating you. Don't give in to his scare tactics. You AREN'T that DESPERATE FOR LOVE I DO HOPE! ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my daughter who is afraid of small spaces?
Q. My daughter (who's 4) is scared of small spaces. She wont even go in an elevator unless (we live in apartment) I hold her the whole time. My son (he's 8) thinks its funny to lock her the closet (you cant open from the inside). It takes like an hour ...
A. 27 December 2008: Hon I can feel your pain here. I was raising two little boys with ADHD and learning disablilites.
Boyfriends children who I retrieved from the family children services. One was the more kinder and gentle. The other was more aggressive and angr... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my daughter who is afraid of small spaces?
Q. My daughter (who's 4) is scared of small spaces. She wont even go in an elevator unless (we live in apartment) I hold her the whole time. My son (he's 8) thinks its funny to lock her the closet (you cant open from the inside). It takes like an hour ...
A. 27 December 2008: Hon I can feel your pain here. I was raising two little boys with ADHD and learning disablilites.
Boyfriends children who I retrieved from the family children services. One was the more kinder and gentle. The other was more aggressive and angr... (read in full...)
Big age difference! End it?
Q. Im dating someone whos 19 years older then me...and i dont know if i should finish it because of the age gap. Help? ...
A. 27 December 2008: At your age hon you definately should. This person could be using you. Since you didn't give much information I can't elaborate but since you are so young the habits and needs of someone that much older is most likely very different. He is most ... (read in full...)
Why is he giving me such mixed messages??
Q. I'm really confused atm. Me and this guy i met at a college party went on a date last week and had a really good time. we kissed and cuddled loads and just generally acted like a couple i.e. holding hands. The thing is he hasnt actully asked me out ...
A. 27 December 2008: He probably isn't sure what he wants either! Back off and let him come to you. Try not texting him for a few days. See if he continues to text you. Keep your feelings about him under wraps;. The more you talk about him the more likely he is to stay ... (read in full...)
After my son was born 2 years ago, I get sick after intercourse!
Q. As strange as this may sounds after intercourse i often feel sick. Now this started after my son was born and i thought that it might go away but however it didnt. What i am wondering is what can be done about this if anything just keep in mind i am ...
A. 27 December 2008: This could be phsycosematic or it could be medical. Get a doctor's opinion and don't waste a moment of your precious child's life wondering. Whatever is wrong you are already suffering because of it. Your son most likely is too and it's only bound ... (read in full...)
Titanic mentality?
Q. As the efforts to tell us how the universe was formed and the machinery to discover the Higgs boson breaks down. A blind man sucessfully navigates an obsticle course with no aids, sensing by some means where the obsticles lie. Could it be we do...
A. 27 December 2008: Wonders if you knew that the words Titanic Mentality were actually derived from the Sinking of the Ship? The artifacts, written articles and fascination with the TITANIC gave way to a new term *Titanic Mentality.
Even more was the Titanic ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 27 December 2008: Oh HON! Please stop this before you really get hurt! Having sex isn't all it's made out to be. At your age you should be enjoying your YOUTH, don't let it slip away from you. I was married at 16 due to some pretty rotten circumstances.I was almost ... (read in full...)
What could be wrong with me
Q. Hello, I hope you can help. I need to know how common is my situation and how to get help. I'm in my late 40 -es, and a few years ago I became impotent. I'm married more than 20 years ago, and I do love my wife. She is attractive, and we get alon...
A. 27 December 2008: Find a Doctor who will work with you until you find out what is going on. They should be able to help you on ideas about what to do. Seeing a therapist might help. I know that sometimes the connection from the heart to your sensual parts is ... (read in full...)
Titanic mentality?
Q. As the efforts to tell us how the universe was formed and the machinery to discover the Higgs boson breaks down. A blind man sucessfully navigates an obsticle course with no aids, sensing by some means where the obsticles lie. Could it be we do...
A. 26 December 2008: No one knows more than he who is wise beyond his own wisdom. Knowlege is a powerful thing. One that has great knowledge knows what he knows and he engulfs himself with the knowledge of others. This makes him a smart man indeed. (Or Woman)
Titan... (read in full...)
I have a pain on the left side of my breast, doctors don't know why, any idea?
Q. I have a pain on the left side of my breast, I had an ultrasound and a mammagram done this year. They found nothing wrong. So, does anyone know why I have this pain? ...
A. 26 December 2008: You are welcome and I pray that things will be fine with you. My best to you in the comming NEW YEAR!
Blessing,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Why can't he just be with me and be happy
Q. Okay so I meet this man and and from that moment on we were together, literally, i moved in with him and we were an automatic couple. he had noticed me for 4 months and had wanted to be with me so he says but i never noticed him till he actually ...
A. 26 December 2008: Beware that you don't let your heart tell you lies. What kind of statement do you think it was when he saiid "I didn't have any reason to cheat on her"? Hon I hate to be the bearer of bad news BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO CHEAT EVER!
CHEATING IS WRON... (read in full...)
Is he silently pushing me away??????????
Q. My bf of 4yrs was offended by me talking about our future. I want to marry him, and I told him. Ever since then we went 8 days with no contact or talking. Then I finally cracked and called him. He is very distant on the phone with me. I did ask ...
A. 26 December 2008: It seems he does have definate issues. I can certainly see why he feels stressed or depressed about the events in his life over the past few months, that is understandable. I DON'T however UNDERSTAND why he won't tell his parents that you are back ... (read in full...)
Is my new husband cheating or am I just paranoid?
Q. I have only been married for eight weeks, and for the last five weeks i have been going out of my mind with worry, my husband works away from home, and we only see each other every three to four weeks for a day or two at a time, however, i received ...
A. 26 December 2008: From the sounds of things something could be wrong. Your imagination at this point is probably going to get the better of you. Of course my imagination is wondering why after two years he has never introduced you to his family and now you are ... (read in full...)
Is he silently pushing me away??????????
Q. My bf of 4yrs was offended by me talking about our future. I want to marry him, and I told him. Ever since then we went 8 days with no contact or talking. Then I finally cracked and called him. He is very distant on the phone with me. I did ask ...
A. 26 December 2008: Men don't like being rushed. It scares them even if they know for sure what they want. After 4 years you would think it's been time enough that he SHOULD know but still it's maybe TOO SOON for him! Confusing, huh?
You need to back off and stop cal... (read in full...)
Living with bi-polar disorder
Q. Hello all I am bi-polar was diagnosed about 4 years ago. I am married with 4 great kids. Having this mental disorder has really ruined things. I have done things that looking back on I can't believe I did and really feel that I was in a haze to ...
A. 26 December 2008: Being Bi_Ploar is frightful to say the least. This condition can be more prevelant in some and less in others. There are many signs and symptoms of the Disorder. Usually thru usage of certain drugs ussedto treat Bi_POLAR along with therapy it can ... (read in full...)
Apart for 12 years, still a great relationship but now he has baggage, do I wait for him?
Q. Hello all, I need help determining what I should do about this man. We were together about 12 years ago when we were both in our teens. The relationship then was fun, passionate, spontaneous, and all other things that kept a smile on my face. Its ...
A. 24 December 2008: It know how confusing it can be but you have to keep your senses here. HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! At this point he isn't giving up the girlfriend because he feels some obligation and possibly cares for her too. He feels a connection with you because of ... (read in full...)
Confused! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Ok I'm kind of new at this and haven't ever really asked anyones opinion before, but I'm just at a loss... I have been single for sometime now and I meet these guys that seem to be so great and start out good but then after about a week or two it ...
A. 24 December 2008: Perhaps he enjoys the closeness of the friendship. He may not be ready to move it to another level by becomming an item. If there is no sex, sleeping in the bed with you gives him comfort. If there is a nothingness when you aren't together perhaps ... (read in full...)
I have a pain on the left side of my breast, doctors don't know why, any idea?
Q. I have a pain on the left side of my breast, I had an ultrasound and a mammagram done this year. They found nothing wrong. So, does anyone know why I have this pain? ...
A. 20 December 2008: There are so many things that can cause pain in the breast. If your Doctor's having concluded the problem thru diagonosis you should consult another Doctor. Mastaglia the term used for pain in the breast. Causes of the breast pain are not well ... (read in full...)
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