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I saw my boss on a dating app... and swiped yes! OMG!

Q.   Shit I didn't realise it was her until after I swiped Yes. Normally at work my boss is this conservative lady with thick glasses but she was this totally hot chick on this dating app. I mean I have never seen her even wearing a sleeveless top in the ...

A.   2 August 2018: Say nothing, do nothing. ... (read in full...)

Are my parents right to punish me with a prison type punishment ?

Q.   IS IT RIGHT THAT MY PARENTS HAVE PUT ME IN PRISON ? AND ARE THEY BEING MEAN FOR NOT LETTING ME GO OUT INTO OUR GARDEN ? I got caught shoplifting, my parents said they don't want to see me go to jail, so are punishing me severely, they h...

A.   29 July 2018: what you are getting from your parents is tough love and to be honest, as a parent myself a very fitting one. Can you imaging what it would be like in a real prison if you were to be a sticky fingered adult? Two weeks of home detention in a safe ... (read in full...)

Why are some women adamantly against their husband/boyfriends looking at porn?

Q.   I'm just a bit curious. It seems that to some women the worst sin a man can commit is looking at porn and I don't get it. They are just images on a screen of women he most likely will never meet or ever have a chance with. The chances of ...

A.   29 July 2018: well my answer is two fold. First, I find it insulting in the sense that , as partners, women are just not enough for their man. What you desire is not what you have so we feel inadequate. Especially as we age, now thats just a real kick in the ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel really close to someone when you hold their hand?

Q.   Is it a normal to feel really close to someone when holding there hand ? it was the first time that I held anyone's hand and it made me feel so special and wanted by someone especially because it was like a first date and I was getting to know him ...

A.   27 July 2018: Depends on who's hand it is but in your situation absolutely. That visual moment of having someone you fancy stretch out their arm to take your hand is a rush too. Holding hands represents togetherness and thats a nice feeling. No one knows how to ... (read in full...)

I feel the need to have a child but I want it to be my lover's not my husband's

Q.   DO NOT JUDGE I am female, 34 years..i am married to a man-boy kinda of husband (45 years) who has no clue how to raise children..we have mine and the first one is his...his past time is drinking....but he come through with finances......

A.   27 July 2018: 'DO NOT JUDGE' my advice would be not to be so aggressively rude when asking strangers, who give there time freely, for help. Your situation at the moment is a mess, why on earth bring child into the mix. If you think like a man, as you say, grow... (read in full...)

We have slept together on several occasions but now he says he sees us as friends?

Q.   I’d been seeing someone for about 3 months, still obviously early days but I really liked him and I made quite a big step by sleeping with him (due to bad experiences). Anyway about 2 weeks ago he got ill and has been recovering since, he’s okay but ...

A.   26 July 2018: Find another 'friend' would be my advice. Cut ties and forget him and it. You have feelings so its only natural to want to win him over. Not getting what you wish will only cause heartache and possibly become a very uncomfortable situation. I think ... (read in full...)

I'm sitting here alone and pregnant, can I get any advice?

Q.   I dated this guy for almost six months during the time I got pregnant.Issues between me and his mom became apparent when she and her daughter begin writting shady comments on my fb page I finally confront both of them and his mom end up call me a ...

A.   18 July 2018: Oh honey be grateful he is now someone else problem to deal with. The writing is on the wall as to what type of future you would have had to endure from both him and his nut job family. You may not yet be able to see the forrest through the trees ... (read in full...)

How do I move on and am I to blame?

Q.   I'm just in despair right now. I absolutely love this site and it's helped me in times of need for so long now, so here goes. I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We lived together for two years in his family house (his famil...

A.   16 July 2018: People react in ways that leave us in disbelief. In his case from frustration and hurt no doubt. Being told to fuck off is cruel but I suspect a knee jerk reaction. You may not ever get the closure you are seeking from him but you can express ... (read in full...)

Everyone tells us moving in together after 2 months of dating is too soon!

Q.   What's the consensus for knowing when you're ready to move in with someone? My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a little over 2 months, but we see each other every day (we work at the same company), spend hours/weekends at a time togeth...

A.   16 July 2018: If it feels right for the both of YOU, not everyone else, then why not? I think the same way for when I hear people say its too soon after breaking up with someone to find someone else. Again why not when you know the score and happy to proceed on ... (read in full...)

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