Do women like for a man to shave his pubes?
Q. Do most women or any like it for a man to shave is pubes? or is that weird? i have asked a girl that and she said if women do men should too. but do you think men should shave their pubes? ...
A. 19 February 2009: i love a little happy trail or snail trail. it's kinda sexy. but if a guy does not have one it does not bother me.
you should ask her what she likes, as she is the only one who will see it. also only do what your comfortable with.... (read in full...)
How to get a vibrator?
Q. I have a question. Can somebody tell me how to get a vibrator? Because it is boring fingering myself, and i dont want to use my sisters' one. ...
A. 19 February 2009: DON'T use your sister's one! that's so wrong. if you can't order one due to not having a debit card then maybe buy something similar, such as an electric toothbrush. or talk to your sister and see if she can get you one. but don't use hers.... (read in full...)
I was horrified to find out that dying your hair whilst pregnant causes birth defects, is this true?
Q. I'm 20 weeks pregnant and just this last Monday I dyed my hair. I was horrified to find out that it causes birth defects. What are the chances that my baby may be deformed?...
A. 19 February 2009: it's something to do with whatever is in the dyes. i think highlights may be ok. but best check with a doctor or even a stylist. ... (read in full...)
Do women like for a man to shave his pubes?
Q. Do most women or any like it for a man to shave is pubes? or is that weird? i have asked a girl that and she said if women do men should too. but do you think men should shave their pubes? ...
A. 19 February 2009: god no!
a bare man is not attractive... (read in full...)
Should I help him or do men usually do that themselves?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. We want to begin to get intimate. When we are ready to have sex for the first time (I'm a virgin and he's not)should I help him put his penis in me or does the man generally do that. Any tips ...
A. 18 February 2009: they usually slip them in on their own. but sometimes if he has a little trouble you can guide him in. also he will probably enjoy you touching him as he enters you. but as it's your first time i'm sure he will take charge. so don't worry about it. ... (read in full...)
All of a sudden I can't pleasre her anymore?
Q. Ok, My girlfriend and I were having sex and then all of a sudden things i was doing stopped pleasuring her. even things that used to work before that point. what the hell happened?...
A. 18 February 2009: this may sound harsh...but maybe she was faking it before and has got bored of not being pleasured? don't worry if this is the case, it's not your fault. she should of told you what she likes and show you where she likes to be touched,etc. faking is ... (read in full...)
I think he's cheating, but I'm not sure!
Q. Im having trouble in a relationship and Idk if he's cheating or if I should leave him,his 24 and I 18and he also has a child.we only see each other 3 times a month, he doesn't have a cell phone so I can't get into contact with him, I can only speak ...
A. 18 February 2009: sorry to say this, but it sounds to me like he is just using you. you say he does not have a cell phone, but i find that hard to believe! i don't know anyone who does not have a cell. it sounds like he only wants to reach you when he wants. selfish ... (read in full...)
What's going on in his head? I need advice
Q. I started dating my first boyfriend a month ago.I am just turning 18 and he is about to turn 19. He spoils me,and takes me out to nice restaraunts,and I lost my virginity to him acouple weeks ago. eveybody thinks he is my prince charming including ...
A. 18 February 2009: hmm sounds like a very similar situation i had with an ex. everything was great, he told me he was falling for me, blah blah...then he came down with a cold and he didn't contact me for a few days. i never really understood it, but i thought maybe ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mother that I've been using her vibrator?
Q. Okay so I have a major problem. It's the second time that I've had the guilty feeling this bad. But it's for really stupid things. I've done really really worse things and I've never given it a second thought and it just bugs me that I'm bothered by ...
A. 18 February 2009: don't tell her! but don't use it again!
buy yourself one or something that vibrates if you don't want to feel awkward buying a sex toy. something like an electric toothbrush would work. just don't use your mums again. ... (read in full...)
How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...
Q. I have this fetish with having anal sex with girls. A lot of girls won't even try it but I have a real big fetish with it. How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...
A. 18 February 2009: you can't talk or force someone into having anal sex. you should bring it up, see what her views are on it. if she wants to try it, good luck and enjoy. if she does not want to do it then you have to leave it as a fantasy! you wouldn't like it if ... (read in full...)
I snogged him and am now worried in case I have HIV!
Q. I am a virgin and worry and stress about things in general, also Stds, I recently met a guy and snogged him loads, I never had sex or anything but now I'm worried I've got HIV cause he isn't a virgin. ...
A. 18 February 2009: you can't get HIV from kissing someone!
also who says he even has HIV. just because he may be sexually active does not mean he is infected with STD's or has hundreds of children by different women.... (read in full...)
I want to see my girlfriend with another guy, how do I suggest this?
Q. I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for about a year now. We're in our 20's but shes several years older than me. We love each other very much. We've had amazing sex since day one however as of late I've been having this reoccurring fantasy of ...
A. 18 February 2009: take my advice keep it as a fantasy!
unless of course you no for sure she is the wild adventurours type. i however would be horrified if my bf asked me if i would sleep with someone else while he watches. ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 17 February 2009: also just because you enjoy geography does not mean he is going to throw his life away by making the stupid mistake of dating a CHILD!
you wouldn't have anything in common with him. he has been through so much more then you. you are still a ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 17 February 2009: no you can't. because he would end up going to prison for rape of a minor. because you are under the age on consent.
also he probably has his own life, a girlfriend,wife, kids... all you are to him is a student. at the end of the day he goes hom... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend of 5 years meeting some else... 5 DAYS LATER!
Q. Hey everyone, so an update on my girlfriend leaving me a couple weeks ago after 5 years. Listen to this...after 5 days she found someone online facebook who she randomly addeded. He hit on her saying how hot she was and she fell for it. She met with ...
A. 17 February 2009: forget about what she is doing with her life now. even if it has only been 5 minutes.
you concentrate on yourself. go out with your friends, have fun. forget her!... (read in full...)
Should I have sex at 14?
Q. im 14 and I want sex and i dont know what to do. I already masterbate and its not good enough. what do i do?...
A. 17 February 2009: NO NO NO NO NO NO NONO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!
does that answer your question?!?
you are way too young to be having sex. y... (read in full...)
I have too many boys after me!
Q. Please help me. I don't mean to, but I always have boys chasing me. I cant help it, Im just nice to them but the always see it as more. None of them will leave me alone. I try and tell them Im not interessted but they think im playing hard to get. I ...
A. 17 February 2009: sometimes you have to be cruel to be kinda. you have to stop flirting with guys you're not actually interested in, as you are obviously sending them the wrong message. you just have to stop being so nice. i don't mean for you to become a bitch or ... (read in full...)
He couldn't penetrate me, so what could be the matter?
Q. OH MY GOD HELP. Ive been with my boyfriend about a month and already love him so much and we both think we're ready for sex. So today he was round mine and we were getting very close and intimate and he whispered to me he has condoms. So he w...
A. 17 February 2009: it's only because it is your first time. you will be very tight. have you not tried foreplay? sounds to me like you need to do more foreplay. you need to be relaxed in order for you to open up a little if you get me. if you are tense then you will ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 17 February 2009: wow...thank god you didn't do it with him. kind of obvious what he was after. he probably would have dumped you after you had sex. thank your lucky stars you never slept with him!
the right guy will come along eventually. just be patient and you ... (read in full...)
My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex!
Q. My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex, is it too much to ask? It's his mess after all? All my previous boyfriend's were happy to do it....
A. 16 February 2009: that is disgusting! i don't blame him for not wanting to do it. would you finger yourself then suck your fingers after? you probably would, as you don't seem to think there is anything wrong in it. ew.
if he does not want to do it, you can't fo... (read in full...)
B/f can't focus beyond where his brain stops processing
Q. My b/f is not very experienced in the sex department. Although he seems to know what he is doing, he is still very unsure of a lot. Especially for his age. :o( So here's the thing. I've told him a few times that my fav. thing is to be fingered. ...
A. 16 February 2009: bless him, he just needs you to train him a little. men sometimes need a little help with making a woman feel good. you need to tell him when you like to be touched, such as when you are both making out, not falling asleep. remember if you touched ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!
Q. I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that....
A. 16 February 2009: tell your bf to look up the UK's latest news of a 13 year old and a 15 year old who have become parents! that will put him off.
... (read in full...)
I gave her a gift, she rejected it, now I don't know how to respond, what do I do?
Q. hey i gave the girl who is kind of really good mate a snow patrol ticket for her to go with me she rejected it and said it was too much n she was really sorry but i work with her weekly so i dont know how to react next time we speak.. should i bring ...
A. 15 February 2009: just tell her how much of a good time you had and that she should of gone. there isn't much else you can do really.
i would of gone if someone offered me the ticket. if she had thought it was too much, she could of offered to give you some mone... (read in full...)
I really, really like him but he just wants sex... should I do it anyway?
Q. I need some advice although I think I already know the answer. I am 26 years of age (virgin) I started flirting with this guy at work that I have known for about two years, we had arranged to go out once but it never happened, he said we wanted d...
A. 15 February 2009: no don't do it. i lost my virginity to someone who only wanted sex. of course i didn't realise this at the time, but afterwards he found someone else. it made me feel a little used. you don't want your first time to be with someone who does not ... (read in full...)
Sex is painful for me, what can I do to enjoy it?
Q. Sex is more pain than pleasure for me.my bf says im extreamily tight and things will change but i feel they wont.iv started makin excuses evrytym he brings sex up.what should i do? ...
A. 15 February 2009: i had a similar problem when i first started having sex. so i brought myself a toy and it has really helped to stretch myself out abit more.
also when you do have sex make sure you are really relaxed and use extra lube if you need to. you will find... (read in full...)
I have a desire to have sex with my sister, what do you think?
Q. i need help to sleep with my sister but she says that she is complely by say that that stuff is gross when ever its mentioned. i feel like she just say that to convince her self. when we were little we would alwaly show eachother our privite parts ...
A. 15 February 2009: whoa!
incest is very sick and very wrong! you need professional help, not help getting your sister into bed! you could go to prison for sleeping with your sister. when you were younger you probably didn;t understand the feelings you had. most lit... (read in full...)
I need help with an erection problem, any suggestions from the guys?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and the other day me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time. It would of been my first time ever, but I couldn't get an erection and even when it got a little hard it just went again. I'm really attracted to my gf and alw...
A. 15 February 2009: probably all down to nerves. being that it was supposed to be your first time you were probably really nervous and worried about your performance. don't worry it happens to alot of guys!
next time take things slow, relax a little. soft lights, ... (read in full...)
Is this a normal size?
Q. Hi iam almost 17 and I have a 3 inch penis I don't know what to do about it does anyone know what I should do or is that a normal size...
A. 15 February 2009: you are normal. you are still growing and going through puberty, so give it a few more years and then you will have grown more and will know your true size.... (read in full...)
Dump or no dump?
Q. Today is Valentine's Day and I got a Valentine e-mail from the guy I've been dating for a year. I know things are tight, but come on... For Christmas, he asked what I wanted and I said I wanted charms for my bracelet. Guess what he got for me? ...
A. 15 February 2009: wow you're telling me that because he is a rubbish gift buyer he should be dumped?
god some people are so shallow. it's not gifts that make a relationship work! you must be very materialistic! that's kinda of sad really. at least he tried to buy ... (read in full...)
My b/f insists to have sex with me, I'm underage, should I give in?
Q. im 14 and i have a 18 year old online boyfriend, but every time we chat online he says that he wants to have sex with me, but i kind of want to have sex with him but im not sure if i should, so should i have sex with him or not?...
A. 15 February 2009: NO! next time he insists just tell him that if he keeps insisting you will report him to the police as he could face jail time he he does sleep with you.
i hear too many girls saying they are not ready, yet there bf's want them to do it, so the g... (read in full...)
Do you consider eczema a turn off?
Q. Hi guys, I used to suffer from severe eczema, now its recently cleared up although I do get the occasional redness, not bad or anything, just the odd red patch around the body, never any on my face or anything. I was just wondering if most of you ...
A. 15 February 2009: a little patch of redness is not going to stop a gal from taking your clothes off. we all have things we don't like about ourselves, but when it comes down to being with someone you do forget about these little things that usually make you feel ... (read in full...)
My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!
Q. My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...
A. 14 February 2009: i'm sorry but just because a guy masturbates to some girl getting cum on her face, does not mean that his partner should fulfill this degrading fantasy, just to make him happy.
if you don't want to do it babe. DON'T.
let him carry on watchin... (read in full...)
Valentine's Day was horrible!
Q. today is our first valentines and sadly its the worst valentines day ever till today. calls me 1 am this morning after he finished work and tells me ohh todays valentines day i forgot happy valentines day honey ,, "yeah u 2 babe" so i wake up in the ...
A. 14 February 2009: it's just a commercial day! he shouldn't get all up himself because of how the day went.
everyday in a relationship should be like valentines. you should always communicate with eachother and do nice things. material things are nothing compared... (read in full...)
My mum thinks I'm sleeping with my own brother!?
Q. I'm 15 going on 16 and my boyfriend's 19 going on 20. my mom's bitchin cuz she think where havin sex when were not. she want's me to take a virgin test, but i'm sure i'll fail. and his gonna be locked up. how am i gonna get my mom to listen to me, ...
A. 14 February 2009: there is no such thing as a virgin test! your mum is probably just saying that to see your re-action.
you need to get her to trust you. simply talk to her about it and say you are not ready for sex, but when you feel that you are you will go to he... (read in full...)
Watching sexy movie - what just happened to me?
Q. hi im gonna be 14 in a couple months and something really strange happened to me. my parents were watching this movie and the man and woman were having sex in bed. i was watching and i started getting really hot and wet like i was peeing in my ...
A. 14 February 2009: it's normal. i remember being your age and finding the most silly things a turn on. like really soft sex scenes in movies and on tv.
you are starting puberty and there are lots of hormones racing around your body. it;s the start of you beco... (read in full...)
First date! Any tips?
Q. Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?...
A. 14 February 2009: well it all depends on if she is ready as well. maybe make a little gesture and put your arm around her on the seat. but for god's sake don't yawn and stretch as you do it. that's so cheesey and awful. i wish guys wouldn't do that!
also you will... (read in full...)
My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!
Q. My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...
A. 14 February 2009: i def think he needs to stop watching the porn films! those so called actors, if that's what you wanna call them, are paid too much money, so they have no respect for themselves and let guys cum on their faces. there is nothing nice and intimate ... (read in full...)
Any good suggestions for great wild sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now but every time it's missionary... he just won't let me get on top for some reason... Any good suggestions for great wild sex? !!!=]...
A. 14 February 2009: why don't you both try sitting up facing eachother? basically he sits on a chair and you sit on top of him. or he crosses his legs and sits down, like a buda. then you wrap your legs around him and he helps support your hips while you thrust.
h... (read in full...)
Why can't women just say no?
Q. im new and im pretty horrified at some of these stories, why is there never a lack of lerking guys waiting to take advantage of these younger and somtimes underage women, its like theres a perv lerking in every family, on every street waiting to ...
A. 14 February 2009: some girls just don't have the confidence to say no to the guys who try it on. i think it is disgusting that there are so many nasty men out there who prey on these young girls.
but then i guess some women can be like that with some young guys... (read in full...)
Erection painful?
Q. my friend - and i do mean my friend im not stupid enough to say its my friend when its really me so MY FRIEND told me that ever since he started masturbating his penis gets so erect that it is painful so does anyone have any explanation as to why ...
A. 14 February 2009: maybe he is doing it too much or being too rough with himself. or he is jerking off and not letting himself cum, therefore getting blue balls.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to suck him off!!!!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to suck his penis... but when I try to do it I don't like it... I try to deep throat and stuff but I just don't know how to make him feel pleasure... I don't know how to do that. ...
A. 14 February 2009: ok not many girls can deep throat, except the porn stars! so don't try and do it if you can't. you will only gag and be sick. that's not nice for him or you.
if you dont want to give head to him, then don't. otherwise just lick and suck the top ... (read in full...)
First date! Any tips?
Q. Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?...
A. 13 February 2009: cinema's are a good first date for young teens. go for a comedy, so you both have something to laugh at and break the ice with a bit. buy her some popcorn. the gesture will be sweet and a little romantic. don't worry about making any moves on her, ... (read in full...)
My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!
Q. My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...
A. 13 February 2009: then don't let him do it!
if you don't like it then tell him and don't let him do it. i hate it as well and i would never let a guy do it to me, as i don't like it. if he wants to cum on you, let him cum on your breasts or stomache if you like tha... (read in full...)
My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!
Q. My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...
A. 13 February 2009: then don't let him do it!
if you don't like it then tell him and don't let him do it. i hate it as well and i would never let a guy do it to me, as i don't like it. if he wants to cum on you, let him cum on your breasts or stomache if you like tha... (read in full...)
How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 7 February 2009: well next time you get a little close to him, such as making out,etc just tell him that you have never taken things to the last stage and that he may be the one who you want to do that with, but you're just not 100% ready yet. or just bring it up ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 7 February 2009:
if you don't want to have sex with him yet or at all, then simply tell him that you are a virgin and you are not ready for that yet. it's best to be honest.
when i was 17 i had a bf who thought that the reason i didn't want sex was because it w... (read in full...)
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