Threesome advice

My girlfriend and I have known each other for 3 years and have both had a previous marriage, are now mid-40s, attractive, intelligent, responsible and have full working lives. I've always wanted to have a threesome nad have hinted to her but she always claims she wouldn't want to see me with anyone else. She has been with a couple of women in the past and enjoyed it. I hvae made it explicit that I would only want to see her with a woman and I wouldn't make love to the other woman. I also would like to have the one-off experience of seeing her with another man but, again, she is so committed to me she asks why I would want her to be with another man. For me, it's just something I want to get out of my system and the feeling won't go away. I could ask her straight as a favour. I think in the realitiy of the situation she would enjoy it and be able to put it behind her as an experience, something 'done.' I just can't quit settle with her having this constant thought. As a divorcee who is fortunate enough to be fit and handsome, I think I should take the chance while it lasts before I get too old and undesirable.

Posted on 2 February 2008 @ 1:11 (London time) - permalink
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All you can do is ask your girlfriend, if she says yes then alot of talking b 4 hand and lot of reasuring 2 make sure this will not change your relationship afterwards. If she says NO you will have 2 respect this and i am afraid just have this as a Fantasy( sometimes than can be better than the real thing,as no disapointments. What ever way you go stay save,have fun and remember the grass is not always greener but it could be a different shade.

Posted on 5 February 2008 @ 15:16 (London time) - permalink
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