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Rant On Anti-Martini

, posted over a year ago

Hey everyone...

Just got back from some rather annoying clients. I just have to vent a bit about the woman or women who have been getting on my nerves on the porn factor.

I mean the other day I was looking at this REALLY cool video of this guy who spent 15 years building a scaled down model of a Ferrari car. It was truly gorgeous. He built it from scratch with absolutely NO previous car building or model building experience.

There were TONS of positive comments, congratulating him on his feat. My gosh, if I was wealthy, I would buy that model off of him, showcase it, and allow him to have more freedom to build further cars of that sort. I was in awe.

However, there was ONE comment from a guy named "jesus4ever" who said "Waste of time!" then when everyone dinged him for saying that, he came back and said something like "He should use his time to help the world! Help the poor! Help the sick!" etc, etc, etc.

That really annoyed me. As if that model builder spent 24/7 for the last 15 years just building that car. Yes, he didn't eat, didn't take dumps, didn't see his friends, nor work, nor do anything BUT build his model car. That jesus4ever guy simply categorized the model builder INTO one thing and called him and his hobby as a waste of time. If that were the case, then EVERYTHING we do is a waste of time. We don't need hobbies. We don't need anything!

It is an honorable thing to help out the poor, do some charity work, study in the medical field, devote our entire lives to that sort of thing. (Un)Fortunately, we all have different goals, interests, and stuffs that make us who we are as individuals. The world would be quite boring if we all did the same thing, and all look the same, all want and need the same.

With that said, my vent is more toward the Ms. Anti-Martini who goes around DearCupid always attacking porn, then attacking me, or counter-attacking me, then somehow sum it all up by saying that I am Category A because I express View A and B. That is a very similar concept as that guy who builds model race cars and having some religious freak of nature come along and point fingers at him saying this and that.

I know we all have perspectives, but I am seriously THIS [pinches my fingers together] close in vomitting my dinner of roast chicken, lettuce, and satayed ribs and calling it quits. The other aunts and uncles are doing a great job no doubt, and of course, I am a 'questionable' uncle [laughs demonically].

The other day someone made a thread about being disheartened because of her bad ratings. Personally, I don't care much about that, though it gives me an odd sense of pleasure knowing that I have nearly equal in bad and good ratings. What really disheartens me is narrowmindedness in people. It's like "If you're not with me, then you're against me." That sort of thinking is very disgusting.

That Anti-Martini accused me of justification of moderation. My gosh. Imagine we were arguing about the usage of Pot and alcohol! OH NOES! I am a BAD MAN because I drink wine and beer occasionally, and have tried Pot. I'm bad. Bad man.

[coughs]

YES, there are irresponsible DRUNK DRIVERS who speed down the road or zig-zag down the road, running over grandpa's and crashing into things, but is it CORRECT in saying that ALL people who drink alcohol are irresponsible drunk drivers?

YES, there are irresponsible dope heads, cocaine addicts and such who does this and that, but it is CORRECT in saying that ALL people who does an occasional joint is a bad person?

Now let's take a look at porn. Ms. Anti-Martini continuously points out that by looking at porn, we are disrespecting all women. She also pointed out that I don't do anything to recognize the mother who worked endlessly to support her children, or those women who have been fighting against abusive husbands, etc, etc, etc, etc. Those women whom has achieved this and that.

So somehow, for my comments on porn, I have again, somehow been categorized as being narrow in view and also I don't respect any women.

[ponders]

Is that so?

Yeah, next time I walk down the street, I'll just go spank some hot gal's ass and tell her to go cook me a hot meal, lay in bed for me, and then do my laundry afterwards. That's right. That's Martini. That bad bad Martini.

[ahem]

Man, why?!?! WHY MUST?!?!?! [drops to my knees and throws arms in the air] WHY?!?!

So there you have it. Another rant from yours truly...

Posted on 8 February 2007 @ 1:36 (London time) - permalink
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sexylinzsexylinz, posted over a year ago

naughty martini! hehe. i'll watch porn with you n u can spank my bum anytime you like.

hehe

people who shun you for your own views are narrow minded because they cant accept that everyone has their own opinion. what you beleive or feel is up to you and it is no one else's business and they have no right to tell you what to beleive. there is nothing wrong with beleiving in womens right etc (as i do myself) but i beleive there is a line with everyone that should not be crossed. obviously ms. anti martini has views about porn but she needs to understand that not everyone shares those views. she has no right to single you out and attack you for your own views.

that is where she has crossed the line.

Posted on 8 February 2007 @ 11:11 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Oh! Martini I love your rants.But you have to stop letting Ms Anti-Porn get to you like this.She is in a place where her thinking can't see other peoples points of views.No matter what you say she will just bring her point back to the first one.At the moment Ms Anti -Porn lacks awarness and that my friend stops her having an open mind to life.

Posted on 8 February 2007 @ 11:49 (London time) - permalink
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stinastina, posted over a year ago

That's pretty cool about the model guy - and the person who dissed him...how does he know that this guy wasn't doing anything to help the needy? for all he knows this guy gives considerable contributions to organizations, shelters, etc. And even if he wasn't, then that's the guy's perogative and shouldn't be a "problem" for anyone else.

People like that - people like the anti-martini porn person - need to get a life. They need to understand that there will always be different views about EVERYTHING. And that no answer about an OPINION related topic is EVER going to be wrong. These people need help. They need to learn how to cope with the "obstacles" of the everyday world: differences of opinion.

The other thing I thought of is that I think anti-martini is using *you* as a sort of "porn." Obviously she gets off on trying to rile you up. And she comes back for more! A LOT!! Or maybe she just likes to talk about it because she thinks it's really "dirty" - and secretly she wants to be dirty...with you (since you're the one she's picked out of the whole ton of agony aunts on this site). Martini...she wants you. :P

(If this sounds a little far fetched, it's because I'm an artist. ...One of my college professors a few years ago said that if people think you're doing or saying something weird, just tell them "I'm an artist." Because then, apparently, it just sort of makes sense you'd be doing something crazy. lol)

Posted on 8 February 2007 @ 13:7 (London time) - permalink
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vina_101vina_101, posted over a year ago

Martini I like having you on this site, do you know why? Because your way of giving advise is unique and you give very interesting views especially when you play devil's advocate and look at the situation from all angles which the question asker may not have done. And in doing that the question asker sees things in a whole new light. I know this because when I asked for advice (anonymously) that's how you helped me. So thanks for being you. :)

I think its good that you give your veiws on porn and I think it's good that you have not backed down and you have stood firm with your views even if certain narrow minded people don't agree with you.

We have all lived very different lives and gone through different life experiences and this explains why our opinions are not the same. Some people refuse to accept that and they don't want to hear the views of others. Don't waste time on people like that. Your views are your views people can like it or loathe it, take it or leave it. Don't let them bother you.

If Ms.Anti-Porn always attacks you in particular then she obviously has nothing better to do with her time. Ignore her.

Posted on 8 February 2007 @ 13:58 (London time) - permalink
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David LewisDavid Lewis, posted over a year ago

That guy sounds cool. Do you still have the link for the model? I love stuff like that

Posted on 8 February 2007 @ 20:55 (London time) - permalink
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willywombatwillywombat, posted over a year ago

Martini sweetie...

Two things....

YOU ATE SOMETHING OTHER THAN SUSHI?

**thud as wombat faints dead away on the floor**

and... I STILL LOVE YOU HONEY!!!

XX

Posted on 9 February 2007 @ 18:22 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Thanks, I actually took two days off from DC to eat stuff other than sushi and catch spiders around my house in case my mom finds and kills them.

David, the link is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SeUMDY01uUA - I don't know where the original one with the huge comments went, but good quality vid nevertheless

Linz, who needs porn of other women when I can make porn with you... 8]

Ariel, you're absolutely right. I just can't stand people like that. It drives me nuts! It's like squirrels who fight chipmunks and stuff... I imagine large amount of static and balloons, nuts!

Stina, you know I was just thinking that whenever I was in a verbal argument (as opposed to things flying my way) with an ex, I found it an extremely huge turn-on for me. Then again... Maybe some people strive on stuff like this...? [sighs]

Vina, thanks, mind you, I don't mind that people counter my ideas and my suggestions, so long as they have their minds in the benefitting arena for those who seek it. I know I'm not always a good person to go to for stuffs, but a lot of members here do influence me to a degree to not be as naughty... 8] Maybe not naughty, but not umm, yeah that word... 8P

And for Willy, how about another belly rub? [rubs your belly frantically]

ANYWAY, as usual I would like to thank everyone for the words of encouragement. I do doubt myself from time to time, whether my words are hurting or are they actually helping. Don't hesitate to counter me if you see fit, especially how I know the bulk of you are refined in your beliefs at the very least.

Well, I made a rather huge continuing rant here if you are interested: http://www.leemanism.com/blog/?p=1863

RIGHT. It's 2:46am. Need warm milk with a dash of Amaretto... Good night everyone. 8]

Posted on 10 February 2007 @ 10:35 (London time) - permalink
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