Cupid's Lounge forum

Naw I hired him to be my back up

Did she float off in a big bubble?

OK. Back to Tiramisu again.... Uncle Phil will do rum next... We are trapped in a Tiramisu-Rum time loop and we are all doomed to repeat it over and over until Gina and Uncle Phil have a romantic day together like Bill Murray aka Phil Conners

As I said to a girl I work with. Ofcourse I can change! I can be much worse

A man feared his wife wasn't hearing as well as she used to and he thought she might need a hearing aid. Not quite sure how to approach her on the subject, he called the family doctor to discuss the problem. The Doctor told him there

God love yahoo, interesting information. Will read up and hopefully have something good to add. Have a great day. Janice

Confident people come across better than insecure people! This doesn't mean you should be anything other than yourself though. Being happy in your own skin is the way to confidence! Approaching guys is scary at first as always the fear of rejectio

New phrases to learn for 2010! TESTICULATING: Waving your arms around and talking bollocks. BLAMESTORMING: Sitting round in a group, discussing why a deadline was missed or a project failed, and who was responsible. SEAGULL MANAGER:

please give some pieces of advice.... my problem goes this way.. i am an ESL teacher for more than a year. i told myself before not to fall inlove with any of my students. but after a year i met a new student who comes from Osaka Japan,

Hi! If you post your question here http://www.dearcupid.org/ask you will probably get more responses to your question, and so more advice.

Love that msn, very good site. Will read up and hopefully have something good to say. Keep up the good work. Jeannine

Just read the post... you are all a worry. I mean you didnt discuss one key issue: If the toilet seat gets her pregnant is it the father or uncle? $10 bet if it was a serous post she never gives head again.

wow.. that was getting a little heated there... but well it looks like it got cleaned up.. :) I really don't think name-calling should be allowed..

yes and the added smell of that dragon breath coming from his open mouth at turbo force...i like the what a guy hears thing too...I bet this line will ring a bell with all you married women too....."I'm not asking for sex, let's just

i read this too, very interesting. But I think whats causing most of the problem these days is unemployment. Few jobs are secure anymore and everything costs soo much more than it did

I buy the Daily Mail daily! and yes i read it yes bit dated and quite interesting how they managed to deal with certain problems way back then, mind you as old fashioned as some of their advice was i think it worked, you did not hear of the many

Thanks Darlin' - you're a star. I'm going to have fun with that!!

lol! My oldest two are 26 and 24, and long gone and married...Well... the horses are big enough for adults. My older two sons still at home are 16 and 18. The 18 year old is 5'10 and 170, and the 16 year old is 6' and 165. Both have passed me AND

Home land security? Big mistake. Never let the people with all the money and the people with all the guns be the same people

Can I join too? I haven't been able to talk about my love for Heathcliff ever!

How old are you? Just let her go then, you're not compatible, and if you are thinking along those lines, you are more concerned about yourself than her.

This seemed appropriate... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCdmiZyyGjQ

hey phil, when i was in high school there was this song that was popular...the oak ridge boys i think, anyway if you could find it you could crank it up while the flames consume. 'lets go out, in a blaze of glory, all good things must end. Like 2

wow that would be a better man job than coloring pubic hair like that other recient post. you definatelly wouldn't have to worry about salary.

As far as Popeye, Olive Oil is exactlly what she'll be running to the store for, or KY jelly (whatever works). Maybie that would also bring Jarella back to life... waah bam!

just shave it. it just gets in the way anyways. this is all so interesting. so is this for matching purposes? I dont think that most guys would recognize if it matches or not. hey what do i know.

aha...that explains it. I should have googled it but just never did...thank you, auntie em!

oh my goodness phil i am laughing sooo hard. I think it is the funniest story yet...... I wonder though where the snake went...

"And many times I hear couples complaining that my partner is not good enough/experienced enough, etc. This happens only when you have had multiple partners and not when you stick to only one." And how many times does one person in a marriage

:(

i was confused by the friends (0) notation in the start up area but someone explained that that is friend requests' that are pending, and not a reflection of my actual friend list. I access via phone and that has complicated the process i think,

I would if I could mate, but I wouldn't be able to get within fifty yards of the ceremony without breaking into a cold sweat - and I'm sure you wouldn't want to see a grown man cry over the misfortune of another fellow human being. Most

I'm sorry. Three days of 24 hour Twilight Zone and Sabrina the Teen age Witch reruns had me waking up in a cold sweat screaming, Oh Gawd, SY has supernatural powers and she is going to find me and turn me into a Hamster like she has done to each

Aww- know what you mean- i remember being overjoyed when i saw a clipping for them taped to a friend's door! -and, yeh- that was 8/10 yrs ago too! Still awesome though! -Let me now if you like! :-)

We will all have a whip round for you guys!!

Im sorry it has taken me so long to rely as i have only jsut got my laptop working again. I just left, i madde my mind up and decided to go. I pcked a small bag enough for a couple of days till i could get myself sorted and the went back for more

Hello everyone. I started seeing this guy...and about 2 months later he told me that his ex girlfriend and him still talked. Even though he had always called her a miserable bitch, and told me that he was miserable with her, that she makes him

LOL!!!!!!!!:)

Here ya go guys! bit of baby fun I love this :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQcVllWpwGs (baby's!!!!! not that I want one but one of these would be huge fun):):):) (((((((HUGS))))))))

on the script on this page. Does anyone else keep getting this annoying message pop up every time you open a new page on cupid? Something to do with Googleads. It's getting to be a real pain in the arse with me - I've had it all day now!

Oh my goodness hunny Im so pleased for you, I could just cry..You got the girls!!!!You got the girls!!!!!You have had so much to go through I cant believe you have coped so well and prayers have been answered..Im so happy for you sweatheart LOTS OF

I agree. Having an affair is rarely about love. It's about filling a void. Something was missing in his marriage and he was not enough of a man to try and work on it, so he grabbed what was available (you) to soothe his ego. No wonder his wife lef

I'm a newbie here and I'd like to make a small contribution to your community. Recently I've found a site, where we can download any mp3 in 30 seconds. The music database is really huge. Some genres are well presented, some are worse. But it's the

Sorry, just a quick amendment. Angelina's day of birth is June 4, 1975 and she just turned 34 years old recently. (2009) Anyone who read this, probably knew what I meant but it kinda bugged me, so just wanted to make that change. ;)

so what is it now some type of club?

wow thats the longest speech i have heard. and im 11!

Here's another funny weight loss vid on youtube. It's a video the marketing company I work for came up with. Enjoy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0rvvmGmxcI

Sorted!!!!!!banned alcohol from the house! They came home with my rules..Or basicly find somewere else to hide out...They no I love them, U just have to show them you are bloody tougher than they could ever imagine...LOL!!!!Everything is great :)

I asked a question today, please can any moderators take a look and see if it can be posted soon? Thanks :)-

Well im in limbo, my fella is in iraq somewhere and hes not rang for a week so i need to keep occupied before i loose the will to live, so im looking for you all to help me keep my chin up xxxx

Okay, so he's told you two different things that completely cancel each other out. On one hand, he's told you very clearly that he's not interested in being in a relationship with you, and he's only talking to you in hopes that you'll eventually

Thanks.That's what I thought. Excuse my igorance , but what does SPOI mean? For the other poster. I don't really believe in meds for such an "issue", but thanks for the replay.

Very interesting article. Tx. Kamie

Never too old but only one

i think any man all have these fantasies.me too, buddy.that's why a huge of videos or movies having this kind of screen. you can do your best to make this come true.but you need some lucky

Cheating is what a couple deem to be unacceptable contact/relationships with other people. So some couples say that kissing is cheating, others think having sex is but kissing is ok. At the end of the day cheating is what ever you say it is, b

hey if u need a friend and i do too need a friend we should chat if u want i like to takes change let me know if u r up to it send me a message and who know we might help each other :-)

i dont know what it is but i know that i am not happy even when i hide it i am moving to mexico because i think that i can find there what i am looking for in there i not even sure that i might find it in there if can someone can spare some of there

Duuuuuuude!!! Hell hath no fury........ Anyway, joking aside; it seems like you just got married to someone you don't communicate with that openly or effectively. She sounds like a difficult mare though (and that's coming from one, lol) and a bit of

Hi Gina - not off the top of my head, but I'll give it some thought! XXXX

Nice to hear from you Tisha, we do miss you and hope it is not too long before your back, take care. Gina x

"Angie" Geena Davis

Sham fail: Shamwow guy Vince Shlomi was arrested for beating a hooker in Miami last month. The Smoking Gun reports that Shlomi pleaded self defense, claiming that the hooker bit his tongue: Shlomi told cops he paid (Sasha) Harris ...

Richard Gere "The secret of my success is my hairspray." And a fine head of hair he has, too!

Absolutely hilarious, Karen. The video of the cat scaring the guy with the camera was funny. I even jumped when the cat attacked! I went in the 'look alike' link at the top of this page and saw some rather good face comparisons. Eg: Actress, Grace

Why do so many people bash the married man in a love triangle? It seems that people always use kid gloves when explaining to the "other woman" why she is being used and wasting her time. People need to hear the truth, in a tactful manner, about

yes it is too soon and illegal in most countries. If he is your boyfriend and truly cares for you he will wait...

thats funny, what an odd pick up line. "would you like to have sex and share a pizza? no? what you dont like pizza?" a friend told me that one just yesterday.

hey guys iam 28myears old married with a child iam 5ft 2inches tall dress size is size my husband and i are not having any fun any more and most of the girls at college know but won't say anthoing what do i do i feel embarrasssed

You know your baby had a heart beat and fingers. Nice huh. But just so you know, if your not ready to be a parent then your not ready to have sex. If your mature enough to have sex your mature enough to suffer the consiqunces. If your not, and you

Hi Love If this is a good mate of yours then be blunt but in a good way I've had to say a few times to certain people.."you do no what you can pick up from what you have just done mate" Not to mention what you could be passing on... The dange

YEP! Oh well just keep thinking 55 hun xxxxxxxxxx

Im here tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo (:0)

I'm always on ya toes hun sooooooooooooo be warned!!!!!(:0)

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYBODY! MAY YOUR SLEIGH BELLS JINGLE AND THE COOKIES BE GONE WHEN YOU AWAKE IN THE MORNING MAY YOU STILL BE AT HOME CAUSE LAST YEAR I GOT INTO THE EGGNOG IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE PLAIN BUT SOMEBODY SWITCHED IT AND WITH NOTHING

Walking Around in Women's Underwear (to the tune "Walking in a Winter Wonderland) I heard it on the radio driving to work the other day, pretty funny.

Oh don't worry hunny I'll bring the vino da la plonk (There is another few lines for you to get your wittle wabbit head around)...I had to throw out a bottle of wine that was 12yrs old yesterday. THROW OUT!!!!MAN THAT WOULD HAVE KNOCKED MY HEAD

It twernt her Nurples!!!!!!!hehhehehehe!!!!!argggggg! peeing! u lot stop please (:0)

LOL!!!!!!Hunny you make me smile :) xxxxx

SITE OFFICIALLY UNFAIR TO MALLARDS. DUCKING UNFAIR!!!!

Ok most of the people here who think that's a big invasion of privacy probably have not had something happen to them. If something happens of any type of thing, (not cheating) you would investigate. Well, if you know in your gut something is up,

ooooh yea my little wabbit fwiend you is right there XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

LOL!!!!apparently my doctor thought it hysterical when I mentioned I may be starting the meno, I always worry as does it mean you have to give men a pause in life until you feel better! cause I'm really not up for that I like mine on fast

Ahhhhh! It always come back n bites em in the arse eh!!!!!!!No I didn't neck with this guy he wasn't necking material, Just a nut case really someone who amused me, I did have a shock years ago though when one of my ex b/fs moved in over the

UNCY PHIL N BIRDY FOR HEAVENS SAKE! were is da coffee tea and PEE WARNING! (:0)

The answer is easy if you take it logically, I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free...'there must be fifty ways to leave your lover'. It's really not my habit to intrude, furthermore I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued, but I

Just wanted 2 say a big THANK YOU 2 everyone out here! I was devastated after i lost the girl who was my hope.But i'm slowly returnin 2 'normal' Though i'm still feel her absence,i can manage it,thanx 2 u guys Thanx 4 helpin me out!

Can't make me.

Hi Hunny If you copy this and paste it on the site hunny you will get more answers, I can see from you post you are very upset. If your marriage was going great and this was happening it would be different but as you say he has put you down afte

Hi, I am in a relationship with a guy who's got a pantyhose (tights) fetish. I'm totally fine with it and wear tights regularly to turn him on. In fact it really turns me on knowing what gets him going. I've got my own fetishy aspects that I am open

Wise words Fab40. : ) As fer you, Wiggles...see YOU on the 'other side'. ( Y )...your bum in thongs..chewing cloth again I see.

its jewish, yiddish. so forget it.

not small, there is no problem

hunny thats brilliant says it all XXXXXXX :)

What could the girl say to that Phil, but "While your down there...?" : ) Definitely fact.

i,m kinda well not really in a relation but i really like this guy and i wants his attention on me we been knowing eachother for like a little over a year now but the thing is he comes in chatroom and when he drinks he flirts with girls talking dirt

Of course you have a right to have a child, but this guy also has a right to refuse to father your child. If you really want to have a child now, you will have to have it with some other man, but why do it at the age of 19 if you could enjoy your

Hi Jamer, Probably of all the traditions I have heard, I really found yours heartwarming.. Especially the one where you said "keeping warm is our tradition" Nothing like cuddling close to people you care about, next to a fire..to do just that.

Wow, she's really beautiful, pink and cute and cuddly. Just like the perfect baby should look, thanks for the picture. Congratulations to you.

I'm worth more than a tena, lady! I babysat three of them this evening, all boys ~ 9, 6 and 3...bless. I'm kernackered but it's always worth it. : )

Hunny you have posted this on the forum it would be better to post on the main question board as you will get much more response take care

Big hugs hunny thinking of u (((((((((((X)))))))))))

ive just been on the receiving end of a rebound relationship and guess what? he didn't treat me very well. I feel a bit stupid for getting into it to be honest knowing he was recently out of a 3 yr relationship but we were mates so i thought he

Hi Dewwey, you've found the lounge part of the website, which is where the aunts hang out and chitchat about stuff. You will not get many answers here. May I please suggest that you cut and paste what you've posted here, then go to the main site

i keep having multiple dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me with close friends and sometimes strangers at partys. i wake up really upset and shocked. and if hes sleeping next to me. i cant bring my self too snuggle up to him. :S can a

I no u, u big softie..I dont need to see your eyes mate! Sorry sis can we share him it took me n my fella ages to make him, Pwwwwwweeeease????? his name is piglet whats ur's called love? love ya both HUGS XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

I know how you feel Tish Idowu was our real hope for gold and he fluffed it...at least he got silver tho, and now our riders in the indivual showjumpers have just plumeted out of the medals with crappy rounds. Oh dear...and I thought it was going to

HE! HE! I new that would cheer you up XXXXXXXXXXX

Uncle Phil is right post you question here and you will get many more answers...this is where we hang out and much around! www.dearcupid.org/ask

Thank goodness for that I thought Id truely lost the plot hunny, You can leave the straight jacket for now mate Im feeling soooooooooooooo much more grounded today, Cant speak for tomorrow yet though :) sofia Im glad your feeling more poss today

its from a friend to a friend XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

yea I wish I looked like posh spice or rather her bank account!!!!!!I like me actually but on occation I have looked at a lovely looking female and thought Oh I wish that was my tummy..After 3 children its not wash bourd 6 pack!!!!But then I think

i know this may not be much help but it sounds a lot like an amine plot. good luck anyways

Oh! found it. Thanks for the help! I am still learning.

I think this could be correct, if he answered only one question and was rated excellent by one voter, or even two or three. He doesn't have a number associated with his rating yet, so obviously there aren't enough ratings to do that.

you take care of you sweetheart with lots of love n hugs ((((((((((((((X)))))))))))))))

Same here hunny came for help and they cant get rid of me!!!!!!You have to know a few things like.........COFFEE TEA OR GIN WARNINGS........ If you tell a joke on this fun bit hun then warn our tisha as her keybourd suffers terri bubbly...Also make

were are the 90yr olds that want to leave are they rich and powerfull!!!!!!!I bet ur ill today my love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

oh hunny If this helps at all been there done it 3 times.. YEP! And yes you can go on, right now I no how you feel crushed..Hunny if you want to talk at anytime feel free to message me love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hippy happy hoppy 4th of july my friend have a fabydabydoshiosfunkymonkey day n good nite all love mad mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ur no to much trouble for me mate!!!!!love ya

Yes its normal to cry yourself to sleep and start again first thing in the morning, I didnt stop and still do it now at strange moments in time..And like Tisha said nothing will be the same again but over the yrs Ive been so gratefull that god gave

Oh good grief how could one eva 4get the rainbow kiss OOOOOH!!!!!!I like a mars bar now n again though!! Deep fryed YUM!!!! :)

yep its going great Ive got another elderly lady that swears like a trooper then says it ok cause she's had the vic round...She span around on her stair chair and "FUCK ME SHE SAID I WONDERED WERE I WAS GOING TO END UP" Now thats the kind of client

beauty is skin deep as kay kay said (she did didnt she oh my Im turning into dorey) I think personality and everything on the inside of a person shows there true self if your a nice guy you will be attractive if your not so nice then it shows in the

how much do I get payed? To spy of course!!!!!(:0) The yard work I'll just watch :)

Little Johnny Strikes Again.... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ A grade schoolteacher in Kentucky asked her students to use the word "fascinate" in a sentence. Molly put up her hand and said, "My family went to my granddad's farm, and we a

Who would like to hear a Nursery rhyme, you know, the censored type we never heard as kids. Mary had a little pig, She kept it fat and plastered; And when the price of pork went up, She shot the little bastard. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Just thought I would let you all know that my knee is very much on the mend!! Wahey...bruising is minimal thanks to the frozen peas and elevation!! I can walk on it just fine now without any trouble - which means I can party away the week!! :-)

Hi love I belive in this life we can only do our best, You have got a good relationship thats a solid foundation. He looks at you and trust his instincts with you to be capable of being a good person to be with his son. If you worry about

I think he's enjoying it...

I fell down the stairs... I was in final year in high school. My friends and I regularly audited a course at the local University called Pubology 101. We knew the guy is charge of the Res Commons, so if there was a party or a dance, we always had

MOI?????????????LITTLE ME NAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! A cucumber, a Penis and an Olive A cucumber, an olive and a penis are talking. The cucumber says "I hate my life, when I get big fat and juicy they cut me up and put me in salad." The olive

Ok I live on a little rock called Guernsey YES ITS OUT THERE!!!!U will need a big Magnifying glass take a very close look if you find france then find jersey you'll c a little dot that me....NOT THE DOT!!!!:)

Believe me guys, it is not the end of your sex lives. I am now 63 and my wife is 62 and our sex is as good as it was when we were dating nearly 30 years ago. OK, I can no longer do it 4 times in one day anymore (wife cheers loudly in the

I met my wife in church. I had been talked into going by an ex but although we had split sometime back i was still going. It was a "happy clappy" place and i did enjoy it. Kayley played the guitar in the church band and was a few years younger than

Hey honey, Firstly, you mentioned that you have only been going out with your bf for a little while. A healthy sexual relationship is something that builds as you learn about each others sexual desires. Sure there are occasions where you may meet

Also consider the IUD. My wife used one 29 years ago and got an infection from it after 6 or 8 months and had to have it removed. However, they have come a long way in 29 years. It is put in and you can forget about it. If you want to get pregnant,

lol!!!!!!!!Thats about right love ooooooooh! now im going to watch some sex in the city TANKS HUNNY X I BID YOU GOODNIGHT SWEETDREAMS OF HUNKY GLADITORS!!!!OH SOR GETTIN CARRIED AWAY THERE :) U no what I'll be dreamin about eh! I hope!!!!!! SQUIDGY

Oh hunny you little devil you....I love ya!

Hi Hunny You need to take good care of that area if your shaving you need a good razor mac three is a good one I always use mens razors as they are the best, A good sensitive foam or gel and a scub glove..Make sure you genly exfoliate with the scru

I have never tried it. I should give it a whirl. I have a few friends that use the quattro and they all like it.

Hi Hunny bunny Its little svedish me, Hope your ok hunny thinking of you sweetheart as tish says keep us posted lots of squidgy hugs love MAD SVEDISH MANDY ACHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!:)

BigSis, I've been imagining this large chrome-decorated motorcycle with a bowel problem.... (8^D) VRRROOOOMMMMMM **poop poop** VRRRROOOOOOOOMMMM! *poop*

ps I don't suppose you're doing research on PMS as well, are you? I know an expert. Susan (now, where did I put that whip?)

The last time I was in Cancun, it spring break and we went to Senior Frogs! They have a waterslide through the bar and you could get a bottle of tequila if you went down the waterslide naked - Talk about your Moon Palace!

Cheri babe, You'd be better off copying and pasting this on the main Dear Cupid board, you'll get more people viewing it and some very good advice from us aunties. BigSis xXx

Thank you for the warm welcomes!! I already realize that this site is definitely a "guilty pleasure"... see you all around the questions page! Time to get at it!!

Aww shucks you guys....you're so kind. Thank you, but i've grown rather attached to my heart. Mwah!! xXxXxXx

Dont worry Honey!! They will start when your body is ready. Then you will only have another 30 or so years wondering when the buggers will stop. Dont wish your life away Babe XX

Hi there, I think your question was posted on the main page, so do go look there for the answers. Sometimes it takes a while for a question to be read and approved by the moderators. All the best!

Oh I dunno...I wouldn't mind the odd hot flash now an'again. : )

That was a great idea, Irish. I know a person who landed there dream job that way too. The other way is to get involved in a volunteer position part time at a place you love and hope for a paying job. Let's all help out at an Agony Aunt column!

YAY! Twirly brought Coffee! Welcome to the site! Put a lot of Windex and paper towels beside you so that you can clean your screen. The things that you can read hear make you do spit takes at least once a day. Lovely bunch of nutters!!!!

For men? On the whole, no. When young any girl that will give us some is 'special' but only because we desire it so much. If you are dying of thirst the person who brings you water is an angel. There are some claims that women are subject to a

If I was smart I would stay with the wife. You have been married for 7 years!! I really don't feel sorry for you in this so called dilema because you know what is right to do. You go and stay with your wife, you have 3 lovely children and you are

Is there any way you could loose this feelings, about your ex in the future, you already broke up in the past. Sometimes we regret what we had and lost in the past, and think it would work in the future sad to say, not many do work the second time

Man your in a bad spot. How do you feel about her fooling around with someone els, if it was me I would let her go, but sometimes we are still in love and it is hard to see past that, but if this is the way she is going to treat you I would tell you

aaron see i want back with my ex about 3 or four line down

After two marriages and a handful of pretty intensely commited relationships I have always been the half that maintained the upper hand and could at any time have walked away from any of them. Matbe not unscathed but if love is war I would be the

Talk about self-fulfilling prophesy. Stop every thing. Don't think. Don't alter your behaviour for any reason. If he is at the check in counter proudly walk up and check in and out. You must have developed a crush on the guy to be so sensitive

My wife had the same thing. Insecurity. She cheated on her first husband and then on me. This is a problem. Be careful. Go to therapy. She will probably refuse. If so, watch out.

Dear My plight is a v troublesome one. I belong to a traditional indian background, am a virgin bachlor female in mid twenties.I had two best friends, a female-23, and male 26, three of us were closely knotted. The male treated me wid gr8 resp

Yeah, that was what i was thinking. However, i'm rather shy too though bold enough to start a conversation with him, I look into his eyes and forget what I was talking about start nearly stuttering just like he always is just barely able to keep

Hay Im A 15 Year Old Girl And I Am Looking For A Fella :P Age 14-17 Ne Takers. Well Im 5ft 5 And Live In The North West Of England. I Have Blond Hair And Blue Eyes And Love 2 Play Sport.. lurv Michelle xxxxxx

How would someone avoid dating someone like this? Are there certain signs to look for? The type of love interest I am talking about are the ones that will stalk you even after you break up with them.

Mmm. It is odd behaviour I agree.Difficult to tell what is going on, but being nervous with you and his friends is suspicious. Sounds as if he was worried about either his friends speaking to you or you speaking to his friends, which means he has

Thanks for your response. :)

Hi Leanne.od Sorry to hear that you are leaving, hope ware ever you go, what ever you do, you have a great time, take care. Mutual friend David xx

Hello Angel, Have you tried posting your problem on the main site? Here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/ask Once it's approved, you'll get an email when your question is posted and when people have responded with advice. (Although

Did you ever think that maybe the girlfriend is like an escape from reality for you..and if you left your wife and kid's..eventually the girlfriend who is 21..probably will want kid's too...maybe not but probably...I dont know the whole story with

I don't but I'm not exaclty a woman persay. Some woman do, and others don't, but there are those who love it so don't worry!

For the first guy, ALL players are nice to girls they want sex from. My advice to you is not to do it because you will end up hurt in the end. Then again he could be being sincere but I dobt it. About the second guy, just tell him you don't wa

i am going to be really honest with you, and i hope you take note,get out,leave,any person who does that to you are scum,you have to leave for the sake of you the most important person, and your kids,you have to be strong,no person has the right to

I do not claim to know the answers. The man in my life- is odd. I am quite a few years old than he is. I have my baggage, although I am not sure it really effects our relationship. And, he has his. I am in a similar situation, but not quite like

Ok Walker let me get this straight, you said you know this guy for 3 years, if so, you may, at least, have a clue how he will react when being confronted, if you have the guts to do it of course. You also said you like this girl, but I have to ask…

You should do a search on this site for "teacher." There are a TON of questions about this - it's one of our more popular problems. You'll probably find some advice in the answers that were already given. Here are a few if you don't feel lik

I am in a bit of a muddle..I have recently got together with a friend of my ex. Myself and my ex split up years and years ago but a couple of years ago when I was at a low ebb and after listening to him tell me all the things I wanted to hear I

Youre not in the wrong. I think you know what you want to do but youre cautious because of the children. In my experience staying together because of the children will only make you resnet each other in the long run. Its best to start as you mean to

dont worry i did not orgasm with a man ti'll i was in my thirty's

I was young when I left my home. I have been gone for 15 years now, I left for a great job but fell in love and now I have 3 children and a wonderful husband. I go home from time to time to visit but its just not the same. I guess what I am trying

Im really sorry to hear that. Hope you feel better soon. Put you feet up and take good care of yourself and your little one. It will all be worth it in the end when you hold your beautiful new baby. Not long now; bet you are really excited. Best

i have never done anything wiht a boy apart from pulliong. tonight im meetin this lad i hav known for ages so we can have sum fun. he knows i hav never dun anything n tht we will go slowly n he will help best he can. but i really want to impress

Ok, thanks. If I get anymore I will definately report them. Should any other "aunts" get them, I hope they will report it too. This site has a lot to offer genuine, frightened or worried people. It would be a shame to ruin that. Take care ever

Big thank-you to ALL the mods who are still keeping active over the busy (and sunny) summer period... I know that I love to get away from the computer when it's nice. The site is busier than ever though!!! Especially the following who have bee

Well it will good to have someone who knows it personally. As of late their have been alot of teen sex question. Even though its patronising for me too say considering my age, some of these kids need to understand what can come about from sex.

I couldnt agree with you both more. There are some children aged 10-12 years old asking questions of a sexual nature. I know kids are growing up quickly theses days, but that young is quite scarey. Good website Aunty Em. At least there is sens

Hi Been away for a week, will get back on email tomorrow so if you've sent me an important PM in the last week I'll try and get back to you over the weekend! Sorry for the delay replying etc. Andrew

a very close friend of mine(who is a girl and i'm a boy) wants more than friends. i'm really screwed now. i dont want any more, oviously, or i wouldn't be asking. um. so what do i do? i'm really affectionate guy and stuff but i'm like that with all

Thanks, Flower! ^_^ I'll try to view it as interview experience, although that will be kind of hard to do! (But I think anything would be with the nerves I'm experiencing!!)

I think you need to seriuosly talk to her in a way it sounds like she is playing you both off or che doesnt know what she really wants. Ask her what she wants. Tell her how you feel bout her and the situation you are in.

no ur not, i think he is scared to commit personally, give him time, be a little distant from him and give it a week to cool down then ask hi m to talk to you about it, freaking him out i doubt it men hesitate to much beleive it or not.. jus tell

You will be best off posting this in the main part of the site for better exposure to your question. Simply post here and more people will see your question. http://www.dearcupid.org/ask

Well, people wouldn't "have" to donate, you know. ^_~

Irish, I'm so happy you enjoyed them. I don't think everybody could imagine wearing old computer parts around their neck, so it always makes me happy when someone express their approval. Especially when it's someone who has grown out of their

Hiya, Im The Same Age As You, And You Shouldnt Care Wheather you are or not. Its About Personality. Not All girls seem to care about penis size, i dont! Im Not Into That Sort Of Stuff Yet. Just Get on With Life And Dont Worry!

Hey Helpful Girl! I'm glad you posted this and to hear that you are very happy. I came in contact with someone who is almost 12 years younger then me that I would really like to get to know so much more. I have my fears, because yes of the age

Done ;-) A.

Hey Andrew - I never used to roll eggs, but there is a big Egg Rolling "festival" on the White House lawn every year on Easter Monday -- kids roll eggs while racing through the grass. There's more, too, like a decorated egg display and

try to get into the porn with him. That might change things a bit.

Hi everyone ^_^ I was on the snopes website today and saw that there was a new page up about birth control and dangers. There seem to be quite a few questions asking what can be done to stop a period, if it's safe to stop it, etc. and this pag

Hi folks I've added a new link to the main navigation bar called "articles"... I'm looking for anyone who is good with words to share their wisdom :-) All articles will be linked to from your profile page, it's a great way to get your views a

So thoughtful of you, Yos...thank you for your kind words. And yes, it's been 2 days and I'm still grinning like a lovesick fool. :D Damn, but life is sure good, isn't it...lol

Try posting this on the main site. You will get more responces. ;)

Most teen boys at that age are girl crazy fella's were all over me it's just normal the adivce i would give to your son is don't rush it the right girl will come along faster then you think take your time talk to your mum/dad they could really help

I know! Ginger tastes HORRIBLE! You have been warned. But its worth it because it works. Before you put it in your mouth have a glass of water close by. You'll need it. lol

i agree, however you could try for double results by posting it on both. just an idea =D xxx

Thanks Dragonette.... Now I understand Tee hee... :o)

I'm sure thats not true. lol, Why would anyone want to slice their penis? Its a strange world out there. At least now I know I haven't been living under a rock.

lol... Anyone up for a trip to the spa? They are now offering a special for the "whole body de-horny treatment". I bet they offer a happy ending. ;) http:

GOOD girl!! I hope that you find happiness hunny!! xx

No need to apolagize....I understood.

Okay, well maybe it is dead, but for one day out of the year it seems men and women remember what love is all about! I know a large number of people believe Valentines Day is over-commersialised blah blah blah, but it's all about making your day

Robert Downey Jr is the picture, but I keep changing it...but they always seem to be pictures of men funnily enough!! Oh, I believe alright....

Heh heh heh! Serious bottle of wine has my name on it, chillin' nicely in the firdge right now.... lol x

Thank you all for your kind posts. it means a lot to me really. Im going to the funeral on Wednesday. There's going to be so many there. She was very popular and you're right Stina. She had a great time before she died and was never down or moaned.

Stina, that is a curious one. My guess is that it's real... Most of my guy-friends are the cooks in their relationships but I know that most of them would find it a real bonus if their girlfriends were a good cook! So it is real importan

am i the only one getting a sense of deja vu? i've lost my mojo...in my pants (austin powers)

Me too, i keep thinking of that poor little bear. Like you said, they're not going to be released into the wild or anything so its not like they have to defend themselves. I hope it can be stopped.

Yeah thanks for that link, I am gonna go look and get better informed.... x

I think you're right when you said he's playing on his own insecurities. he's always been like this when I drink and it sometimes gets to the point where i wont drink as much cos its not worth the hassle. He makes me feel that im really bad when im

Better in that most of the tragic stuff doesn't affect me directly....I mean I am not dying. I just have trouble with helping somebody I love thru this. My job means I have helped many people in a terminal situation and it is never easy. But it

I've not heard of that band before. Maybe I can find something online... "I must confess I was a little bit drunk..." lol - at least the tattoo looked nice, anyway. :)

Happy birthday Miss Wombat. Hope you have a good one.;)

You were going to get a furnished apartment in the city? Wait - in DC, or is the furnished apartment in the city your friends' place? lol I think I *should* understand what you wrote, but apparently my brain isn't working up to par today from lack

MAJOR TV NETWORK- LOOKING FOR PEOPLE THAT HAVE SURPRISE ANNOUNCEMENTS OR WANT TO SHARE A SECRET..IN A BIG WAY!!! The network will be pulling out all of the bells & whistles! The network is looking for people to share their genuine, hea

Hi everyone. I have returned after a while away. I used to answer many questions every day on Dear Cupid. I am back to tell you about my voluntary organisation called Dove Over The rainbow (www.doveovertherainbow.co.uk) which is a help line in

well, my username is stina because that's one of the names I go by. several years ago one of my friends called me stina triangle-pants trying to be coot-snoot one day, and it kinda stuck (well, not the triangle-pants part. lol) but people either

I saw a couple posts yesterday and some comments concerning racism. I do believe some folks are misinformed. When someone doesn't like the thought of an individual because of skin colour, that is racism! You either consider people to be equal or

I was wondering how Vancouver B.C made it through. I am glad you're Ok also.

For the past three years I have had two children back to back with my husband. they are now one and two and I have no life outside of them. I have lost my whole identity. I have been sitting in the house since I was 23 yrs old. I am now 26 and I am

Perhaps porn falls under the 'worshipping false idols' category?

p.s This story was supposed to rhyme people!lol But it's no big deal. Carry on. :)

Ive been seeing a lovely girl for around 5 months, Ive known her for years & we are smitten with each other, its wonderful - she is everything Ive ever wanted. The thing is, her ex wasnt so nice to her & I recently found that she had adde

natasha beddingfeild....she san a dsong wide horses, i no wild is da 1 b4 bt still dats wt i fort ov wen i red it

A man loses his hat, so he goes to church to steal one off of the hat rack. When he gets there, the priest is giving his sermon on the Ten Commandments. Something in the sermon gives the man a flash of insight and, after mass, the man goes to

It seems you have had a pretty tough time of it, and it will take a long time to come to terms with it, but keep on and don't give up or they will have beaten you. I know from all your good advice to others that you are finding therapy of a sort

Is he married??

That's the problem with R C-B and Bernard Manning - We girlies all tend to hate 'em, for their sexism and racism - but we have to admit to laughing at 'em...infuriating!!!

Brilliant, lol

Some people do not deserve to have been born at all. These perverts and life-threateners have no place in society. I am so sorry you have suffered, as so many others have - and continue to suffer as a result of what you have been through.

Aw, sad to see you go Bonym. Will miss your intelligent and thoughtful golden prose, good luck in all that you do. Thanks x

Hello, I work for a television company and we’re making a Channel 4 documentary about the experiences of people who have decided that they want to lose their virginity. I saw your posting and thought you may be interested in what we are doing.

We are currently making a sensitive documentary for UK television and are looking for sexually inexperienced male participants. We are looking for people who have always found it difficult to take that crucial final step - this could be the chan

We are currently making a sensitive documentary for UK television and are looking for sexually inexperienced male participants. We are looking for people who have always found it difficult to take that crucial final step - this could be the chan

Depends what you mean by understand. If you mean 'make reasonable behavioural predictions based on observed prior behaviour' then yes, we can. Sort of. If you mean 'know what it is really like to be that person, or sex' then I don't think so.

There is a banana and a vibrator sitting on a bed side cabinet. The banana turns to the vibrator and snaps " I dont know why your shaking, shes gonna bloody eat me"

Grand Cayman, yep, a long way from the UK!

Maybe she needs to see a doctor about the depression, as this is probably the main culprit here - has she always been like this, or is it fairly recent? You are both young and healthy, and should be able to sort it out with a bit of patience

I only wish my Dad had appreciated my mum like that... She was a bit like the 1950's women, she worked part time as well as raise us kids and make the house run like clockwork... Dad was never bothered to much about all of that and it is a

This amused me somewhat, and for those that have not seen it before thought I would share. This is thought to have been the advice given to newlywed Women in the 1950's .... Cant say I can really comment!! Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, ev

Hi, Anyone who wants to become a moderator please send me a PM with a little note on why... we seem to have questions backing up again so I'm looking for around 3 people :-)) Only long-timers please Ta! Andrew

lol im ok ta.how about u? im addicted to daydreamin too

Excellent stuff!! But you know, It feels like this site has been here a whole lot longer!! I'm pleased to be part of the evergrowing ever popular site! Well done x

Well I already have a superpower, the ability to know straight away if a man is single or taken, (not looking at wedding rings) I have proved the theory on over 50 men and its always accurate! However I would love the ability to prophecy and forsee

i ave bin in da exact position as u!! i knw hw u feel. wat i tink u shud du is tell her. trust me...she`l b glad u told her..datz wat friendship ius ent it...honesty..! and remember this...afta u do tell her...if she stops tlkin 2 u lyk she used

Don't be bored zosey, never a dull moment on here!

I have just read through this thread and it warms my heart to see all the people rally round this sweet girl in her hour of need. Smeedle you are worth your weight in gold, and Kage I wish you all good luck - don't forget the smiling, I'm sure in

i did a google too. about 9 months ago. was at a very low point in my life for variouse reasons. needed advice...but my first few questions were not posted (not havin a dig). started helping others with my advice and it cured me of my depression.

oooh oooh plese tell us hehe.

look love i dont know what you've done to lose ur head but would you screw it back on please!!!! you 've had 12 mopnths to lead your boyfriend on and work out your feelings for his mate. dont you think its time to give the bf a break n stop lea

my pet hate is ppl at work who leave the dishes for everyone elae to do also my boss who keeps tellin me to change my dress code cuz wen i bend down i show my knickers....who cares the ppl i work with are blind...noy like they can sayy oooooh l

i have been with my finacee for nearly 2 years and been engaged for nearly a year at first everything was great, but now it seems like she dosent want me to touch her or anything of the kind. she always seems to be saying she needs to be in the mood

Hey, what happened everyone??? Where did you all go, just as I was getting interested...I didn't fart, snore or fall to sleep!!! And here I am - DESERTED!!!...(lol)

Zappa: "Without deviation from the norm, progress is not possible"

i sure will...treasure it forever. thanx

No probs, doll! :-)

If you can find the original question I can help further... Have a search with the search facility on the site or browse the relevant dates A

lol minx??? i sure am lol. im from darwen so unless ur fella is there every night (in my bed) lol i doubt its the same person! hehe although if you could lend me ur bf as you seem to think i describe him so well it could be a good oppertunity

If you marry this guy, even as he says nothing happened, what precedent is this setting?? Will he be giving all the ladies naked hugs & kisses?? And how can you have any peace of mind...every time you look at them, until the end of time, you

Well They cant do anything about it as it is such short notice. They said that I can not take it but my mark will be drastically cut.

Quite honestly i would move on. She has basicaly told you -sorry to be harsh- things will not work and she does not want to see you. Try and offer your friendship. And takes things from there. If she is still interested in you she will let you know.

I would tell her that you are sorry if you have made her feel uncomfortable in anyway. And that you respect and treasure her friendship to much to loose it. And if there is anything you can do to get you guys back on the same track. You would like

Willywombat...........eddie at your service..what was the question you posted?

I have huge trust issues with my current patner i have been with him for 3years and we have one child yet i dont trust him. i feel unloved not wanted when he masturbates he chooses masturbation over sex and hes all ways wanting to leave for work

ye i agree with martini we all do silly things when drunk...things we dont neceserrily mean to do. why not give her a seccond chance? im sure you love her so doesn't it make sense to give it one more try? At the end of the day you'll be able to

Hey, Not too long, May the 5th would of been 1 year 5 months anniversary but we weren’t together relationship wise. I’ve actually known him for about 2 years though. Our relationship is long distance but we’ve been together physically. The w

Temption is always going to be an issues but if your love and strength in your current relationship is enough you should over come it. you say this girl is 16 and throwing herself at you do you even know why? do you even think shes worth the risk?

you're right carebare i realised the soloution to my problem as i wrote the reply to this girl

If you post this on the main site, I'm sure you'll get lots more feedback.

Hun, I have no advice that you want to hear. But I will say, your devotion and loyalty deserves someone much better, who will return your love, not someone who would coldly and cowardly break up with you in such an underhanded way. The hard part of

Thanks. He's not all bad I know he is just trying to hurt me as much as he can when we have an argument. Lets face it there is a really fine line between love and hate.

hello chuck, bless you i've felt like that too in past relationships, i'm not at all tryin to say i know how you're feelin or know what you're goin through. I think if you really like him and he likes you too then that's half the battle love. I know

Hiya cupid-type-guy....psychology degree stuff..... very hard, very interesting too!

Myspace is this site were u can ceate a profile and give out as much information as you'd like.You basically talk to ur friends nd shit.It is a pretty addicting web site.If u want 2 create one go 2 myspace.com and sign up.Tom will help u if u have

If their drink has been spiked with something then the chance to find out what is was has probably passed. But I reccomend STRONGLY that the individual goes to see a healthcare practioner/GP ASAP!!

Isn't Anja or anybody else give me some advice? Please...I desperate need some advice on this...

Hiya Guys and Gals, Have started writing abstracts for a site and just thought i would share the one i wrote about this site with you all.... Relationships are amazingly complicated things. We all have them and there is a wealth of media

hello carebear and cheers for the comments on my ma-in-law posting... x

me and my boyfriend get on really well but recently ive noticed he has been lying to me bunking off school and lying about were he is going to why is he lying to me plz help!!

Thanks Yos, I think thats one of those things that depends very much on the people involved. I wouldnt rule it out as some people do feel they need there own emotional space. Speaking personally I am very much a heart on my sleeve person and have to

I love a wee JD now and then myself!! j

Aww Willy Wombat, Im sorry I Know how you are feeling the same thing happened to me... Dumbass I know!! The wine I was consuming because of my date nerves was really good though!!!

On the main site look for a problem titled'Could my boyfriend's friend be the one for me?' Thanx Sweetie Pie

I like jackass....that is a good insult...

jackie mate, you have to be cruel to be kind! Tell him sooner rather than later or he may get the idea you are in it for the long haul as well. Bite the bullet and tell him. Just say what you feel, that you dont have the same depth of feeling for

Just some fun You can see all avatars from people who have written at least one answer here http://www.dearcupid.org/pics Some pretty cools ones! Which do you like best? A.

Just to update everyone. I have just found out today that my soulmate is going to get married in July. After just dating this chick for 1 year. All I can di is cry, though I know I don't have the right, cause I'm engaged also, but I have to sit

I am on the same wave length as you sexybum, Meaning I completely understand what you mean.. I agree that the aunts cna agree to disagree if they didnt why else would there be such a thing as Feedback, and while we are on the subject, I dont the

hey, im a bi guy and my best mate has been fine with that since i told him, i loved him and think i still do he knew that... even tho he isnt bi he was okay with kissing me and stuff like that. i said not to do it if the only reason was to make me

yes, but is getting middle aged spread as well lol

The oldest jokes are still the funniest! lol

Yorkshire pudding and SHRIMP?

Good point, Andrew, about the comment on focusing on the 'good' ratings rather the 'poor'. A positive approach is better because, not every questioner will like an answer, no matter how "sensible and right" it is. It all comes down to how they (the

No, it has a lot of features, unlimited space so you never have to delete, an archive function, it lists conversations in order and plenty of other cool stuff.

Guilty as charged...better go give some advice to make up

You know I love you all really! *mwah* Seriously though.

Yeah I agree with Alyxf.. Maybe she didnt mean to offend you when she informed you that she had done that with her other exes, that was the point that she was trying to make.. She maybe didnt like the idea of it because the guy done something o

Thank you tux!

Sweetypie, You are being emotionally used and abused by this young man. Drugs, threats of suicide, self-harming..he's one messed up dude. I agree With Willy, if he is threatening suicide tell your parents and have them call the police and explain

Hiya :) I have so many things scattered all over the place it's untrue. I have a blog on blogit, a diary somewhere, its all connected with promoting my website which is for my writing.

thanx i listened 2 ur advice and she seems 2 be rly sorry 4 it and i hav talked 2 her i told her wot i fink of it and i sed it happens agen and thas it wer dun she seemed rly upset so i fink tht did it she also added she was drunk lol

Its up to you Sweetie, you know your BF best so you will know how he will react best. Seeking advice of others ultimately shouldnt be an issue....

if you dont want facial hair go to the chemist and get some hair removal cream thats what i find best

dear cupid could you take another photo of your self but this time hold the beer bottle (or rose) in your left hand!

I am much happier not having contact with my father. I feel much better about myself than I ever had. I feel much more in control of my emotions and dont feel any guilt for walking away. The only time I ever have troubles is when (like today) my dad

I'm not a maths genius...if you look down on the right side of the website it clear says it. and if you wish to see how many questions the aunts are answering click top agony aunts (tho is only shows the top 250).

Shopping on a bank holiday - a form of madness, british-style ;-) Rather you than me, fighting it out with all those other battle-hardened shoppers.

Tell him, tell him it doesn't make you feeled loved, or maybe you start kissing him, suprise him when he comes home from work with new clothes or sexy langera, do your best, but don't leave him just ask him why not?!?!?!

Is there anyone here who will let me come and stay with tme in Australia!!! hehehe

I think the great thing about this site is that whatever the given situation the question asker is in, they will normally get answers from aunts/uncles that have different opinions, or from someone who has been in that situation themselves and are

Now live. I've posted about it on the main site. There are links to send private mail on everyone's profile page, alternatively check out your mailbox link in the yellow bar at the top when you're logged in. Please let me know any feedback (hey,

ok thanks very much for your advice, it's nice to have another opinion on the issue... thanks very much :)

He will be a loyal friend for life, but that does not help when you fancy some one so much and feel a real connection, still not a lot you can do about his sexuality.

Hi Pru, yep I can see how it would irritate me as well, you know what you need to do but keeping a buttoned lip is never easy and one that I find almost imposible. Maybe next time she falls out with him you could remind her of his failings and how