He won't do oral on me

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 yrs - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral - I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesnt have to prove it that way - I say he is wrong and it makes me feel really bad cause he looks at that stuff online - Will he ever?

Posted on 21 February 2008 @ 23:5 (London time) - permalink
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I would say that he is inexperienced and doesn't want to disappoint you if he can't please you that way. I do know that some guys don't like to give oral sex for many reasons, but the fingering part is very strange!! That is why I say he is inexperienced. If this is true, I wouldn't ask him, because he'll become defensive and probably NEVER do it. I would try to teach him without letting him know that you are teaching him. Ask him to watch you masterbate or watch a couple's porn together.

Posted on 22 February 2008 @ 16:22 (London time) - permalink
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Well first of have you tried asking him? Maybe never has before and doesn't want to disapoint you. I would ask him first and if he is scared to let you down but assure him it's ok.

Posted on 1 January 2010 @ 17:27 (London time) - permalink
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Let me apologize in advance for the cliche. What's love got to do with it? You like it. You want it. He should give it. He should consider himself lucky that he is with a girl that will tell him what she wants. Most women sit there and do nothing and make us guess until we either.... get it right and make them happy..... or get it wrong and they use that as an excuse to cheat.

Posted on 1 January 2010 @ 21:28 (London time) - permalink
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What the fuck.This thread is a year old. Go on douche water you bother me.

Posted on 1 January 2010 @ 23:59 (London time) - permalink
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