He won't do oral on me

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 yrs - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral - I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesnt have to prove it that way - I say he is wrong and it makes me feel really bad cause he looks at that stuff online - Will he ever?

Posted on 21 February 2008 @ 23:5 (London time) - permalink
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I would say that he is inexperienced and doesn't want to disappoint you if he can't please you that way. I do know that some guys don't like to give oral sex for many reasons, but the fingering part is very strange!! That is why I say he is inexperienced. If this is true, I wouldn't ask him, because he'll become defensive and probably NEVER do it. I would try to teach him without letting him know that you are teaching him. Ask him to watch you masterbate or watch a couple's porn together.

Posted on 22 February 2008 @ 16:22 (London time) - permalink
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