Ex making you angry?

Hi, I've just seen this forum and it couldn't ahve come on a better morning. I recently split up and my ex came round last night. I don't know if he was tring to make things worse or better but he just made them worse and now I feel like I really need to sound off! Is anyone in the same situation?

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 9:21 (London time) - permalink
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My 'ex' is messin wid my head...last nite she came on MSN and came in a chat room i frequent; all this after she announced she was getting married to her now fiance and id hed mailed me threatening me cause apparently id 'caused her so much pain' and as if i hadn't had my feelings and emotions played with and been totally used at all.

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 12:56 (London time) - permalink
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Why is he threatenning you, its not his place to do that and if she wants to marry someone like that.... Well........

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 14:48 (London time) - permalink
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Because apparently I caused her alot of pain by being upset at the marriage...she did say she loved me and wanted us both. I do have feelings for her but well...as far as I am concerend she has brought her pain on herself and I have suffered too.

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 16:11 (London time) - permalink
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Hey is there any one there now ready to help me steam off! It would be really good if there is soemone I can chat to like you do on MSN to join ion a converstaion with me about how much my ex is getting at me!!!!

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 17:0 (London time) - permalink
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you can addy me to msn if you want and steam off to your hearts content....

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 18:26 (London time) - permalink
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of course to do that you would need my addy...which err isnt on my site anymore friskylittledonkey1@hotmail.co.uk

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 18:36 (London time) - permalink
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That's too bad, Dazzberg. Naturally, her fiancee/bf has only heard her side of the story. So in effect, you are the deemed the 'bad' guy, in his eyes. She's toying with both you guys. It sounds like she's not 'over' what you both shared. If I were you, why not just shrug off her pitiful attempts to stir things up. If possible, ignore them both. It will just show you what a 'bigger' person you truely are. Life goes on-I wish you well..good luck.

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 23:15 (London time) - permalink
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Hiya Irish :), I pretty much agree except that neither am I over it and I know what you saying about being the 'bigger person' but this is one of those situations where moral superority isn't all its cracked up to be lol cause ultimately the bigger person is the one who loses out. Thanks for the post...

Posted on 25 March 2006 @ 2:37 (London time) - permalink
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It has nothing to do with morals, Dazzerg but more to do with common sense and growth. To become whole means that as we open to pain, we open to the loss. We break open and, as a consequence, we do get 'bigger' and include more of life. We understand more. We include what would have been “lost” to us if our hearts and minds had closed against the pain. One really does learn from life's lessons. Hope things work out for you. Thanks for your reply

Posted on 25 March 2006 @ 5:53 (London time) - permalink
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Im pretty sick and tierd of the pain to be honest.

Posted on 25 March 2006 @ 11:51 (London time) - permalink
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heya sexybum how r u today?

Posted on 25 March 2006 @ 12:16 (London time) - permalink
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Hi sexybum, he sounds like a swine and you are better off without this person in your life. Stay strong and focused and do`nt let him see that he is still messing with your head, and make sure he knows he is not welcome to just drop in, it is over and that is that. I am sending a big hug over the internet for you and hope that you will find your innner strength and this will help you through this. Stay strong!!

Posted on 26 March 2006 @ 10:42 (London time) - permalink
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Hi Dazzerg, you too sound better off without this woman in your life, sounds like she is trying to hurt you big time. When we split up with someone it takes ages to get over them and sometimes one of the party play little games like her going on MSM and the marriage announcment, this is calculated to hurt you and it did!. You must try and resist retaliating althoug this maybe easier said than done, as to keep any contact with her going is fuelling her spite and not allowing you to move on with your life. You sound like a lovely sensitive bloke and that unfortunatly makes you an easy target for someone who knows how to hurt you, and by the sounds of it she does know what buttons to press. At the moment your emotions are raw and like the old addage say`s "time is a great healer" well anyone who has had great emotional pain will tell you that this is true but time can take forever. Keep strong and remember there is someone for everyone you just have to go through a lot of pain to find her but when you do "wow!!"

Posted on 26 March 2006 @ 10:49 (London time) - permalink
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Thanks Smeedle, maybe you are right, cant say i believe any of the 'theres someone out ther' stuff right now....

Posted on 26 March 2006 @ 12:19 (London time) - permalink
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Heya guys, thank you for your words, yu put a big smile on my face. I'm getting stronger I just have to grit my teeth and take it I suppose.. I give people advice nearly day on this website, and I see all the mistakes that people are amking out there, but it still doesn't stop me being so foolish in my own relationships. Still I am only young. Irish I wish I had your wisdom.... Do you study physcologie or anything like that. I just ask because you are so clued up, I love everything you right, its always spot on. You helped me incredibly when I first started to use this site.

Posted on 27 March 2006 @ 17:18 (London time) - permalink
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Hey Dazzerg, I'm ok, how are you, Thanks for the address to sound off on, are you not scared of it now being bombarded, now that you published it on DearCupid! I don't have msn chat unfortunatly, but I do have email, so pherhaps next time I need to sound off and there's no pillows to hand I'll send you an email in hope of rapid response! Thankyou for your kindness, sounds like you could do with a good old load of sounding off as well! Maybe its better just to grin and bear it rather than open up old wounds........

Posted on 27 March 2006 @ 17:22 (London time) - permalink
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Heya Sexy, I dont mind being bombarded lol. Im ok thank you, she made another cameo apperence on messenger the other nite. Feel free to drop me an email and I will reply as soon as. Think youcould be right but sometimes you just need to vent....neways take care and get in touch whenever...

Posted on 28 March 2006 @ 2:0 (London time) - permalink
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Hi Sexy, Thanks for your kind words. I just want you to know that I think you are doing a terrific job, as well. You're doing a great thing, inspiring others so please, keep sharing your wisdom. Have a great week! :)

Posted on 28 March 2006 @ 5:36 (London time) - permalink
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Thankyou Irish that's very nice thing to say, you have put a nice smile on my face today now! :-)

Posted on 28 March 2006 @ 10:12 (London time) - permalink
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Ok group hug!! did that feel better? - - 0 \-/

Posted on 29 March 2006 @ 23:5 (London time) - permalink
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Smeedle, everything you write makes me laugh out loud. I'm naughty and go on this website at work, so I'm sitting in my office laughing out loud at my computer screen, every one thinks I'm weird hehehhe, and you will get me into trouble! LOL hehe

Posted on 30 March 2006 @ 13:30 (London time) - permalink
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The naughtyness!!

Posted on 2 April 2006 @ 12:1 (London time) - permalink
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