Less Of a Man

snakeiz2, posted over a year ago

Hi i recently moved in with my girlfriend and have discoverd that she masterbates with sex toys, that she haves hidden that i have found. knowing when she does it makes me feel depressed and less of a man that i cant take care of my duty with her ...

Posted on 18 August 2009 @ 18:7 (London time) - permalink
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Tisha-1, posted over a year ago

http://women.webmd.com/features/5-things-you-didnt-know-about-masturbation

Read that and then have a gentle and loving discussion with her about this. Just because she masturbates doesn't mean she doesn't love you or find your sex life somehow wanting. I understand that men masturbate and it's not that they don't love their woman (or man), it's just that they want some personal time and stress relief. Same thing. It has nothing to do with you--I know that might sound bad, but it's true.

One more thing, this is the forums page, you might want to post this question in the main area, where people actually pose their questions for answer. www.dearcupid.org/ask

Posted on 18 August 2009 @ 18:24 (London time) - permalink
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snakeiz2, posted over a year ago

Thanks I just feel bad in one way but good in other ways like at lease it not someone else.

Posted on 18 August 2009 @ 18:30 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

A lot of women post this same question on the board, where they are bothered by their boyfriend or husband watching porn and masturbating. Most of us tell them that masturbation is natural and most all men do it. Well, it is the same for woman. There is no reason for us guys to feel threatened by it. It is not like they don't think that we are sufficient as lovers. It is just personal time and something that feels good. Actually, I'm surprised that women don't masturbate more then men, as they can much more easily have multiple orgasms. Show me a guy who can have 4 or 5 orgasms in a row, 2 minutes apart. My wife can, but I'm lucky if I have ever been able to orgasm 3 or 4 times in a row with an hour between each. How many guys have sex with their partner at night and then wank their weenie before going to work in the morning? Why can't women do this? Be happy that she is so sexual.

Posted on 18 August 2009 @ 18:40 (London time) - permalink
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