his sex drive

for about 1 month now i have noticed my bf is less intrested in having sex with me, we have only done it once this month, he said its because of the medication his on and its hard to cum, he says its just the side effects of the medication his on, yet i know for a fact he has gotten off to porn atleast 5 times this month that i know off, is he just lying to me because his lazy? or is it really his medication? or do u think he prefers porn over me?

Posted on 25 October 2006 @ 3:12 (London time) - permalink
(Log in to flag spam/offensive/junk messages to moderators)

Sweetie i think it could be a mixture of both - laziness and the medication here. I would be worried too if i found out my partner was using porn over me - i feel like you shouldnt be afriad to say that to him that if it really is the medication then why is he doing what hes doing. Its not fair on you. how would he feel if you were doing this to him. I think that his sex drive is maybe a lot lower as it is a normal side effect but also i feel it is alot of laziness so confront him again in a gentle way and tell him that this is not working for you and somethign needs to change - obviously dont pressure him into sex BUT you need to make him have a conversation with you that will take all these doubts and fears away - only then can you get past this.

Posted on 28 October 2006 @ 21:34 (London time) - permalink
(Log in to flag spam/offensive/junk messages to moderators)