in need of help

NeLLa8922, posted over a year ago

ok so i have a boyfriend of nine months now and i love him to death but theres things that idont do sexually that he has before like for instance i have never given head and i would like to try it but the biggest problem is im self conscious that maybe im not good at it and im afraid that if i gag will it be like insulting to him cuz honestly i dont wanna throw up. and dirty talkin i kinda like it when he spanks me and calls me a bad girl (ok ha i like it alot) but idont kno what to say back its like i get stage fright and freeze lol i dont get it the biggest problem is dirty talking not like the stuff when he says whose pussy is that and i say yours then he says whose and i say his name and he says whose and i say his full name he loves that (wow that sounds weird to tell people that i hope thats normal) but he always says how do you want it and i like it hard i do ill admit it but when i say it i think its gettin old for him to hear but i wanna be able to have a full on "dirty sex talk" with him in bed can anyone help me out with things to say back to him

women like things youve said to your man

and men things you would wanna hear in response to what you would say to a woman

Posted on 9 June 2008 @ 22:15 (London time) - permalink
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BluntsFoShizzla, posted over a year ago

Hey there. R u a teenager? Truth is, people like some WEIRD STUFF when it comes to sex, but ur issues are altogether normal.

When he starts wanting to role-play, group sex, or put it up ur b*tt, then u will definitely have a reason to feel uncomfortable.

It is always appropriate to tell your boyfriend what makes you feel uncomfortable, and then expect him to wait patiently and quietly while you learn to be more comfortable. If he doesnt, dump him.

But at the same time, it is very normal to give head, and to talk dirty in the bedroom, and as you become more sexually experienced, I suspect you will grow to enjoy those things very much. They are a normal part of healthy sexual relations.

Also in terms of giving head.... girls who give good head make their boyfriends very happy. Happy boyfriends suffer less from being huge jerks and are more thoughtful. also, girls can bribe their men with blowjobs to do whatever they want. use the power for your own good!

Posted on 18 June 2008 @ 14:42 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Please write to dear cupid again, but place your message on the main board. This is an area for fun and jokes only. You will find you get more responses if you post your letter onto the main board. Take care of you.

Posted on 18 June 2008 @ 19:50 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

It sounds to me like you don't really need any advice as far as the dirty talk is concerned - you're doing a fine job already. He's taking the lead asking the questions and you're simply replying honestly. Nothing wrong with or better than that.

Regarding gagging, you don't have to swallow the whole darned thing, and to do so is definitely an acquired art practised by the lovely Linda Lovelace and her kind. The most sensitive part of his dick is the end of it, and you don't have to shove it down your throat to pleasure him that way.

However, like DiovanLestat says, post the same question on the main site and I'm sure you'll get all the answers you need from there.

Real life isn't the same as a porn film, which in most cases is someones fantasy lived out on film (or DVD).

Posted on 21 June 2008 @ 16:9 (London time) - permalink
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