 martini, posted
over a year ago
You see that's the problem with many relationships, is that they move in together too early in the relationship, and find that being in each other's faces becomes quite overbearing at times. Having some privacy and away time from each other is actually an excellent thing for new relationships, because it keeps the streaming of knowledge and interests between two people at a gradual constant rate.
People in relationships shouldn't consider moving in together until the connection between the two people have been more established, when they feel g a comfortable zone of trust and affection, and talking about starting a family, or very similar things. Staying over at each other's places once or twice every weekend is fine, but continuously can get quite irritating.
What I really suggest is that you two move away from each other, and see how that goes. If each other's love is strong, then you two will seek each other out and continue to grow together. However, if each other's love is weaker than you may think, then no matter what you do, it's possible it will shatter.
I know my comments do not address the bulk of your comments, but that is because the foundation of your relationship hasn't even developed much yet - I am assuming this based on your age, the generalization of the type of life you may have at that age, as well as the style in which you have made your comments. However, I think you should reassess the basic elements of your relationship with him before you continue.
Posted on 30 May 2006 @ 21:48 (London time) - permalink
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confusedbunny, posted
over a year ago
eyeswideopen, posted
over a year ago