nitanita, posted
over a year ago
hi
I have a boyfriend who i do care a lot for, I try to please him with all matters,and we have been living happily together for 6 months now!
unfortunately not long a go i found his porn collection on his laptop. I was just shocked as i really Did Not Expect Him to do such a thing,a huge collection with fitness models. He is always a type of person who critiseses such things and i can say is somhow religious!he says that he feels guilt and is upset with this obsession but can't help it! have counceled a psycolog too!
I had also started weight traing as i knew he was attracted to it !
Now im really confused, he says that he loves me and they are all just his fantasies, though confessed that he also masturbates after looking at them about once a week, what should i do!? i cant accept this as i do feel disturbed and insulted , although i know that all guys watch porn but i wish he was not obsessed with it this way! 3GB fitness models pictures that he does not like to delete even for me!"and he says he really loves me!
please give me some advice, im fed upp with reading others similar problems and just getting more stressed!
advice seeker!Aida
Posted on 23 July 2007 @ 21:17 (London time) - permalink
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