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writes:Hi, I’m 13 and I like this boy a lot, I’m not even sure if I like him sometimes because he annoys me a lot he really honestly confuses my mind and messes with it. I’ve liked him for 4 years it’s like it’s impossible to forget him every time I try I just think of him more and then when I do forget him he appears and I can't stop myself thinking about him. Then sometimes I’m ok when suddenly if I watch something that’s got to do with love (which some films/comedy and series I actually like) I start thinking of him and it’s like I can't even watch TV in peace and quiet with out him popping in my head. Anyways the thing is since I was in year 5 I was 9/10 years old I started liking him and I never told him cause I knew he wouldn’t like me and I didn’t want to embarrass myself by telling him in like him and he tells me he don’t and I could imagine him telling everyone so I never told anyone not even my friends and still no one knows not even him, but when I was in year 6 I was 10/11 he kept starring at me in lessons, but I acted like I was really annoyed at him looking at me but sometimes I was annoyed when he did that cause he would mess my mind a lot and also then this other boy in my class would stare to and it got on my nerves, I didn’t get something with the guy I like he starred at me a lot liked it when I talked to him but then would blaze me in front of his mates and call me cry baby when I cried but as I was saying I tried 2 years to forget him I got no luck then I kept seeing him on the way to secondary school in year 7 and 8 and he seemed to always look at me which kept making me think about him even more. So every time I saw him he looked at me and gave proper eye contact until I look away and thinking to myself I’m dreaming. Now I’m in year 9 I’m 13 years old and a couple of days ago on Thursday last week I saw him again on my way to school I was wearing my own clothes (it was non-uniform day) I was so keen to forget him I just starred at the floor as I walked past but I didn’t know if he looked of course but cause of this I kept thinking I shouldn’t of starred at the floor and ignored him which seems to me I still liked him. Ok today 23rd October 07 I saw him with his dad in his dads car I was walking past with shopping bags with my mum and dad I had a feeling it was his dads car then I looked and it was he directly looks back and gives eye contact again, and stares. Does his eye contact and starring mean anything? Is he even worth all this thinking and some pained he caused? What should I do, forget him or something else?Any ideas would be nice of what you think I should do, also if you say to tell him how I feel, to me it’s impossible for me to tell him I gradually noticed I like him a lot and am getting more shy around him. I don’t have any contact with him like email address or phone number and we don’t go same school anymore but I do know his address. We still sometimes see each other on the way to school but I wouldn’t be able to pass a note or say how I feel to him or his mates because I am with my mate and her granddad takes us to school. Also am not allowed out unless I have to get something from the shop that’s really urgent or if I’m with an adult so I hardly think it’s possible to knock his door and tell him how I feel or even leave a letter or note. Do you think he likes me? Please be honest I don’t want anymore people messing with mind, by saying something that is not true in there opinion. Please reply as I’m in a muddle up in my mind, and heart.I forgot to add when I first started liking him in year 5 he then went out with my friend. Which really got on my nerves but I had to act like I didn’t care as I was hiding my feelings and still am. Also in year 6 I was hiding my feelings as well and he really got pissed of and angry when I use to say to him that he fancy’s my mate and she fancy’s him, also I made him realise that a lot of people like him but he has to chose one and if not one then none. But I never mentioned myself liking him but I wish I did though. Also I think one girl who fancied him who was my friend as well knew I liked him and I then I had a feeling and thought she might have told him.
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reader, TracyPrinces +, writes (24 October 2007):
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): Hey Sweetie im 15. You know i had the same problem as you once. but i got the opertunity to be with that boy when i was younger but i screwed it up. and i still think of him to this day. i saw him on the bus the other day and he smiled at me and said something but i never heard him cause i was listening to my ipod. i was i struck up a conversation with him but i never. and now i look for him on the bus everyday and hope he gets on. but its to late now i have a boyfriend ive been with for 2 years now. but i still think about that boy.
I say you go for it with this boy. Tell him how you feel. If you cant say it to his face do it on msn. Dont make the same mistake i did. Oh and the looks they definatly mean something that means he likes you. Boys only look at you all the time if they like you. And by the sounds of things he definatly likes you. GOOD LUCK AND GO FOR IT X
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reader, livi +, writes (23 October 2007):
 Hey,
Wow, it sounds as though your really confused with it all. I think you should somehow let him know your feelings otherwise no matter how hard you try to get on with your life, your going to kick yourself because you didnt do anything.
What i would do, is send him a letter, and i know you cant go drop it off at his his house, but could you post it to him? or perhapse get a friend to put it through his door.
But you really have to tell him somehow.
I'm no expert in love and body language and all that but I think eye contact means a good thing.
What have you got to loose, if you write to him saying you like him, but understand if he doesnt then the worst thing that happens, is he says he's not intrested, and then you know for sure that moving on is a good idea.
Good luck with it all Xxxxxx
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