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writes: Hi me and my partner have found out that shes pregnantWe found out 2 weeks ago she is 8 and a half weeks. We were ok before hand an also we got on really well, we were good together but now she said that she does not want to see me any more an that it's over. Why she doing this now? She is still keeping the baby. Is it just a hormone change or is it serious? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): I am in a similare situation.
My gf has been pregnant now for 4 & 1/2 months, and has pushed me away, and said she doesn't want to know me at all.
i am trying to be there for her. Have moved out. But would really like our relationship to rekindle itself.
Any ideas?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 write her a letter and tell her how you feel. Give her space to breathe and accept the changes that are happening to her body and life. Tell her in your letter how much you want this child and how you will support her whatever decision she may come to about the furture of any romantic relationship you may have. Then stick by your word and stick around for the kid. If she doesn't want to rekindle a romantic relationship with you then you may have to accept this. But be there for your child.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Her body will be going through massive changes - she may be having morning sickness and her hormones will be up the creek. Give her some space as she might be very scared about being pregnant as lots of women feel anxious about having children, giving birth etc.
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