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What is he trying to tell?

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Question - (14 August 2022) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2022)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am going out with this guy for a month now, but on the text message he asked me what I am doing and I told him am selecting an outfit because going out with my "friend". But then he texted back saying "wear something sexy haha". What is that supposed to mean? If he is going on dates with me, why is he suggesting I should wear something sexy for a guy friend I am just hanging out with, who I've known for 10 years and not dating.

But he texts everyday constantly.

Does it mean he is not interested in me, or he is trying to play cool and hiding his jealousy. Or he just wants to be friends.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (18 August 2022):

Honeypie agony auntKinda impossible to tell.

My guess (and that is all it is as I don't know him or you) is that he wanted you to say:" nah, this is a friend I don't dress sexy for friends that is for dates and serious partner only."

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2022):

Jeez. How old are you? By the time I was your age I had had lots of guys try the lets' talk about sex routine with me. Guys I was not dating and who were totally out of their league and had no chance at all with me. He wanted to hear all the juicy details. He was using it as an excuse to get you helping him to diy. AND at 22-25 you don't know this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2022):

You're obsessing over nothing.

This guy was probably just talking rubbish to keep the conversation going. When doing so, he's tried to compliment you but has executed it poorly.

Stop trying to create a drama and forget it.

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