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What is happening with my uncle??

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Question - (22 January 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2010)
A female , anonymous writes:

this is weird. ever since i was little (iam 15 now) my uncle used to tell me to sit on his lap. he has never touched me badly, but every time i see him, he still asks me to. no one in my family thinks its weird because we're all close, but i think its what happens when im on his lap that is the weird part. he'll kind of make it so i have to sit with my legs on either side of his. when i was younger hed bounce me up and down. but he would do it like fast and asked if i liked it (i never knew why i would like it) so when i was 14 i remember he did it one night while i was alone with him and i thought it felt good. i didnt say anything to him, but then my pants wer wet a little. so ever since that time when he does it i pretend its fun, but really it makes my privates feel really good. i think he knows because he teases me and says "you want to ride my horse" and everyone thinks its funny. the thing is, i like it. and i think he likes it too because he said he likes it how i laugh and at the end i make a noise. im a little confused. am i orgasming with my uncle? i have nevr had a boyfriend or anything so i dont know any my family i couldnt ask because theyd be angry. plesae help and tell me whats going on and if its bad!

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A female reader, Mrx.Shadow United States +, writes (23 September 2010):

All I have to say is this.if you feel that this is okay then go ahead.but if that feeling pops up any time between that stop.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2006):

willywombat agony auntThis is sick on your uncle's part. Tell someone you trust that you find this behaviour inappropriate and that it makes you feel uncomfortable even if it makes you feel good.

He is a pervert and he knows exactly what he is doing. Do not be alone with him and confide in someone now. You are an innocent in this and he needs to be stopped.x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2006):

This is more than weird, dear...your Uncle is a sick man and has been very inappropriate with you and I feel he's exhibiting distinct patterns of behavior that are common among some males who have sexualized desires for younger people. He is wrong and he should know that you are much too old to be lap-sitting at 14. You are being taken advantage of and you need to say something to your Mother and stay away from this man. If you can't tell your Mother..go to a trusted adult like a teacher or a friend's Mom. Never be left alone with him again..he is a very dangerous man and please..don't blame yourself for any of this. He is the adult in this situation and he is abusing you. He should be held accountable for his actions. Please speak up before he finds another victim. Good luck, dear and be strong.

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A female reader, xLx +, writes (22 January 2006):

i agree with the others. stay away from this man. You're at an age were you are discovering yourself and how things feel sexually, but that doesn't make it right what he's doing to you. He does know how it makes you feel and he gets his kicks from that. Stay away from him and if need be, tell your mum, she should take your side and if she doesn't go to the police. All the best xLx

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A female reader, fairyangel South Africa +, writes (22 January 2006):

fairyangel agony auntThe way you are describing the whole thing, certainly sounds to me as if your uncle is a real pervert, and how ever innocent this game seems, IT IS NOT INTENDED TO BE... BY YOUR UNCLE!

Stay away from him in future, or this could lead to him raping you in the future... he is using this little game to lure you into getting pleasure, so you wont refuse his requests and advances, when they come your way... he is sick!!

Tell your Mom, let her know he has sinister intentions, so she is aware.Never keep something like this to yourself.

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A female reader, breeze +, writes (22 January 2006):

it is wrong and i would stay away from your uncle if i was you xxxxxx

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