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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hello there.. im in love with someone at work, we've exchanged flirty emails and we slept together at a works do then we both must have been embarrassed because we never spoke about it or mentioned it again until now on another works do i saw him with someone else and wanted him. We met up later in the night and it happened again. Im not sure whats going on, im afraid to talk to him about, again soon after it happened he left, we're back in work next week and i dont know how to behave or act! It felt so right as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2006): Dea, you aren't in love, you are in lust....a work do, is not the same thing as a date, and you slept with him BEFORE YOUR FIRST DATE....you are young so I will try to be gentle.....are you trying out for office trollop?
The reason he did not look at you or speak about it is because he is embarassed and probably losing respect for you.
I understand, you really like him and perhaps all is not lost, I would say you are sorry you got so carried away and slept with him but that you would like to be asked out on a proper date and get to know him better before sleeping with him again,....if he doesn't bite, then you have your first clue, you were just a snack and you will have to live watching sample the rest of the smorgasboard at work....he sounds like a player to me, but you must like the attention....am I wrong, so you if you play you have to be willing to pay for the embarassment you may face because of your ill thought out actions.
You'll live.
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