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writes:Hi everyone, i dated this guy in 2005 for a year and a half, he went to America the last six months of our relationship and in that time, his father tried everything to break us up.. i never knew why.. and he got it right.. we broke up for a year then last year december.. we bumped into each other and stared dating again.. i never moved on by the way (he was my first boyfriend in everything) they are a very close family and his mom and i get on very very well, but his dad and 12 year old sister..well.. we dont!! His mother told me he is going to try and break us up over and over again because his sister is daddy's little girls (spoiled brat) and he is mommy's boy.. so because his dad has cheated on his mom plenty times he wants his son (my boyfriend) to be like him and not stay with one girl.. because his father is jealous of him that he is still young and has found the girl he want to marry.. this is what his mom is telling me!!! we stay in the same house as them but our house is closed off to his parents house so they there by us all the time.. not giving us anytime to be alone..i need away to convince my boyfriend that his dad is trouble but im scared if i tell him this i will lose him... i know this sounds mean.. but i have to get him away from his sister and dad.. before they ruin us forever??? please help me.. i love him and he loves me, but im sure i cant expect him to choose between his parents and me? what do i do to get rid of his dad without breaking us up? he is 21 and im 18.. and moving away from his parents.. well ive been trying to convince him for 4 months now but his dad has some kind of spell on him that is making him not wanting to move away into our own place??
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reader, GabiLC  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 I really understand your situation. I had to go through the same thing also. If your boyfriend really loves you and wants to marry you, he will understand you too. But you can't expect him to leave easily because you're going against the people who have raised him. I would suggest you get his mother on your side and you both sit down and have a talk with him. I hope this helps.
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