A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Am 15 years old and I was talking to a 17 year old guy.Well sometimes I skip school with my friends.I would never tell the guy that i was talking to that I skipped but my friends talk to him and they would tell him everything.Well one day he erased me off his myspace and me and him didnt talk for a couple of weeks untill he called and he told me that he got mad at me because I was skipping school.He made me promise him that I wouldnt skip anymore.He said that if I ever skipped again that he would never talk to me he said that its really hard for him not to talk to me but that he would force himself if I broke the promise.I dont get it why does he worry if i skip and not my friends?
View related questions:
myspace Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007): I think you thinking why me and not them? Well you said he talks to your friends and probably has told them what he thinks about iit already. Skipping school isnt good education is an important thing even at the lowest. I know so many people who skip school and in the future ahead of them it isnt gonna be easy. Skippin school can lead to numerous things very poor grades(not good for college) bad attendance(which actully colleges look intoo) and then because of doing so bad you decide to stop school.School is an experience to meet friends and hang out but it is also to get work and learn stuff. So some things are gonna bore you but push through and you feel some much better. This guy has a good head on his shoulders to worry about you many guys(well i good amount I know) wouldnt say a thing one way or another. Stay in school just push through it there are gonna be ups and downs its a social place just keep it up and at the end of the road you will be glad you stuck with it.Good Luck!
A
female
reader, candy00s +, writes (31 May 2007):
Its not really a good thing to keep skipping school your exams and grades will suffer in the long run.
This guy can see that and wants you to do the best you can and come out with good results.
I think he must really really like you to be like this.
xxx
...............................
A
female
reader, rambini +, writes (31 May 2007):
skippin school is never a good plan, and you will more than likely end up regretting it a few years down the line. This guy obviously has the sense (or maybe even the hindsight/experience) to realise this and cares about you so is tryign 2 do you a favour before it gets any worse. I hope for your sake that you keep your promise to this guy good luck
...............................
A
female
reader, starfish +, writes (31 May 2007):
He obviously thinks a lot of you!maybe he skipped school and didnt do as well as he would have liked and now regrets it!maybe you should listen to him, it may be fun now for you to hang out with your mates, but it could affect your grades and future jobs!
...............................
A
female
reader, gf123 +, writes (31 May 2007):
For whatever reason, this guy clearly cares about you.What I think you want to hear is that he has feelings for you that go beyond feelings he would normally have for a friend and I think that's a definite possibility.He must see potential in you and care about your future. He knows how important a good education is and how hard it is to get anywhere in the "outside world" without it.My advice would be to do as he's asked for your own sake. You may find that this leads to a closer relationship between the two of you and he sounds like a very genuine and responsible guy.Best of luck
...............................
|