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The boys I've known have only been after one thing

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Question - (31 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i know im only 19, ever since i have been 15 i have always had boys attention,iv always had a boy to text and cheer me up when im down. but latley iv realised that they only wanted mefor 1 thing and kept we sweet to get it. since i have realised this i have not bothered with many boys but i am now feelin lonley. iv tryed to talk to the girls about this and all they say is its better gettin sumthing then nothing. im realy want to get a boyfriend and just selttle down but how can i do this when i cant trust boys no more ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

make yourself be more independant, if you rely on them for attention alone then they probably think you inly want one thing too.

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find nicer guys. perhaps these guys are just jerks!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2010):

I'm afraid a lot of young men are like that. But don't give up. We're not all after one thing. Your female friends are wrong. You just have to keep getting to know different guys, learn to understand them a bit more and not worry about settling down. The more you worry, the more likely it is you'll meet the wrong guy. So be happy for yourself, and do your own thing. Then you'll meet the right guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

sweet heart the right boy will fined you , you stick to your guns and you will get a name if you sleep around if you play hard to get then they will respect you and the right guy will then relise that you are not their for one thing stay strong and stick to your guns good luck

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