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Should I show him the new and improved me?

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Question - (31 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2011)
A female Bahamas age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok I like this guy on the internet. He seemed to be interested in me until I showed him a few pictures. He has dated models in the past, at least that's what he's said and I'm not the model type though I think I'm cute and pretty sometimes.

So over time I've worked really hard on my appearance and have really improved. Should I try talking to him again and show him what I look like? I'm not so much interested in dating him or even being his friend. It would make me happy and feel good if he'd see me and I looked Really good! Should I contact him and kind of rub the new and improved me in his face?

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A male reader, hotman70000 United States +, writes (2 June 2011):

yes i thank so

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2011):

k_c100 agony auntNo, dont do this, it would be very silly and a bit immature to be honest.

Good for you for working on your appearance, it is great that you are looking good now and happy with your appearance. But you dont need approval from any man, let alone such a shallow jerk as this guy you met online. Dont stoop down to his level, you now have the opportunity to prove you are better than him by taking the high road - find yourself a wonderful man who loves you for who you are, rather than purely for the way you look.

You are better than him, so make sure you maintain your dignity and dont waste your time on such a shallow idiot like this guy. As Aunt Honesty said, you have nothing to prove to him, leave him alone to carry on his shallow and meaningless life while you get out there and enjoy yourself. The best revenge you can get on this guy is to never speak to him again, get out there and find yourself a gorgeous man, and live happlily ever after!

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (31 May 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntNo this is just complete childish behaviour. He stopped talking to you based solely on the way you look, which shows me that he just was never interested in you as a person. He is very shallow if he is going to stop talking to someone for the way that they look. He says that he has dated models but he is probably just boosting his own ego. Guys like this are really not worth your time or energy. Ok so you have changed your image now and I hope you are happy within yourself but stay clear from this guy, he is naive and childish and you will only be bringing yourself down to his level contacting him again. You have nothing to prove to him so dont try to.

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