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*era
writes:Dear Cupid...I have an ex-boyfriend his B. I still like him alot but I guess all he wants to do is have sex with me, In fact we broke up because I didn't want to have sex....Should i give him what he wants so we can be together again?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 If he broke up with you just because you would not have sex, then he is not worth it.
It is illegal for you to be doing that which could involve prison time if you get caught, also you said you did not want to, so clearly he has no respect for you at all.
Don't you dare give into him stick to your guns and wait until you are legal and there will be plenty of other boys out there that will be happy to wait.
Take care.xx.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (30 June 2007):
Your question is should you give into him so you can 'be together', and my question for you is how would you both really 'be together' after having sex if you believe (and it seems quite clear from what ive read) all he wants is sex. If thats true then there would be nothing more, barely a relationship, even if you both say you are a 'couple' doesnt mean you really are one if his pure reason for geting back with you is for sex.
No you shouldn't give in to having sex just so you have a chance to be back with this guy. It is obvious that his major want/need and interest in females is sex and it is so high on his list that he dumps a girl if he doesnt get it. If you aren't ready like you said then just dont do it. You CAN and WILL find a guy who will be prepared ot be in a relationship with you and wait till you are ready to have sex. If you have sex with this guy just do you can be with him I think you will regret it so much later.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (30 June 2007):
 Dear Tera,
You should not give into him no matter how much you like him, you shouldnt have to have sex with him to be with him, Only time you should have sex with someone is when you want to and when you are ready and it sounds like you are not ready and specially seeing that was the reason you guys have broke up befor. Try to be with him with out having sex and take it from there but never give in inless you want to. Good luck and i hope you make the right choice.
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