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writes:I was in love with a guy for the past few years....though he loved me too he denied the fact that he loves me too after passing 1 year if our love.......he advised me to be good friends forever....though it was diffiult to me at times I atleast tried to follow that.....The reason for his deny was that he was fearing that his parents would not accept our love due to religious reasons. he himself advised me to start a new life....I couldnt digest he saying that to me but anyway I was forcing myself to take it as I lost hope in him that he would come back......But after I started to serious involve in my new life he is coming back saying he cant live without me and took all steps to convince his parents and asking me to my marriage.....I donno what to do....should I accept the love I was longing for 4 years or should I keep up my words to my future life partner....I am totally confused need advices.....I dont have faith on him anymore..... Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Well Im not sure who it is that you dont trust but if it is this guy who you were longing for then im not sure what he has done to earn your distrust. He could well have only realised what he had when he lost it and that is often the way.
I think the honest answer here is that you need to clear your head and follow your heart. It seems like you are involved with someone else. Honestly, is your heart in it beyond a desire not to break your word...i think that is very much the questions you need to be asking yourself here.
Hope that helps. Good luck :)xx
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