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*ybriam
writes:i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Yo should do what most everyone else does, wait until she's your age. An age spread of 3 years isn't much above the age of 20 but below 20 there's a whole lot of maturity going on that nature takes care of not momma's permission. besides mothers know better than you do as to when their daughter is 'old enough" to date a 16 year old. Just chill out and back off or you'll cause a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Well if you really like this person have her and yourself try to talk an convince her mother that you to care about each other.
And it doesn't mater what the age difference is and it was right for you to tell her mother that.
And if her mother absutly let you see her just do it behind her back soon or later she will let you!!(:
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Legally she is too young for you anyways, sorry. You need to find soemone your own age to play with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): I think it's quite normal for a mother to be protective of her daughter. She's still 13 after all. But that does not mean that she will be like that forever.
You can not hang out with her anymore, that is indeed a sad situation, but try to stay in contact with her as a friend. Show her that you like her so much, you are willing to wait.
Her mother will sooner or later see your patience and determination, and that you are a good person, and I am sure she'll relent when the time is right.
However, if you act harshly and even ask the girl you like to hang out with you behind her mom's back, her mom will forever lose her respect to you and even worse, seeing you as a threat.
Show her that you are better than that.
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reader, blue_eyes1981  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Her Mother is right not to let you see each other. What you said makes her think you have an interest in her daughter.Find someone your own age.
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