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writes: My partner still lives at home with his mum and dad. He declares that he loves me and treats me well but I find it hard to stay at his house because his mum complains of us talking late. I suggest he gets his own place but he explains that he needs to save. He does work but I can't continue the relationship with him at home. I have a daughter who is 7 and I want to spend qulity time with him alone. I gave him 6 months to get a place or I will end it. I know it's harsh but if he cares he will do it. Am I so unfair?
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reader, dream_lover +, writes (20 January 2006):
I moved out of my mother's house when I was 16 years old and got my own place.saving money is fine but living with your mother and father is not cool you need to make your own way in the world.He needs to find a place for both of you and get out of his mommy and daddy's place and be a man.
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reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (20 January 2006):
A little harsh I would say. Moving out is a big step that a person must be emotionally and financially ready for. Have you considered moving in with him, instead of just having him move out alone? It is alot easier to share the rent, then having the burden all to one person.
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