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writes: My Girlfriend Look's At My Brother does it mean anything?what does it mean when a girl look's at a lad? i noticed in the past few day's my girl will be watching tv and than turn her eyes to look at my younger brother (he's hotter than me) and than look at me when i look at her to say what u doing all she says " what? " i thought it was nofthing at all.before i got my girl my brother was in the picture first. they had a chat she came back to our house and he wanted sex she didn't she lefted. nofthing happened i made my move 13 months later he's got a new girlfriend at first she was saying bad thing's about her like " she's only with him for is money " or saying " i don't believe he's with her " i thought at first she liked him than i thought no never but she keep's looking at him and than looking at me. she always trying to chat to is girlfriend all the time she say's there " friend's " i don't have a problem with her being friend's with her but leaveing me to go and chat to my brother and girl is wrong i think.for the past 3 day's i've been watching her eyes it's like she scan's the room spot's my brother and look's at me. even if she's watching tv. but if my brother's not in the room she doesn't scan the room what so ever. she just turn's right to me.am i being stupid or does she like him or is there something going on?ever joke he makes she laff's (where i find nearly all of them funny) but not all of them. he had a go at her the other day and she had a go at me because i didn't stand up 4 her. they was both dissing him each over off last night and she still laff's at is joke's. but when i diss her off it's the end of the world. and every joke i make she doesn't laff at all saying " that's not funny " but it's nearly the same joke my brother told an hour before i said it. sould i be worried or something?the other night My Brother wanted the chippy she wanted the shop so she went to the shop i went to the chippy. she came out of the shop and right into the car. the chippy was packed out. and she only came in when my brother did and than she couldn't take her eyes of him and when she did she looked at me to say " what's the matter with you " am i being stupid?i can't bring this topic up with my girl she keep's haveing a go at me for everything and somehow she's always get's me to feel it's my fault and i'm always the 1 saying sorry. what sould i do?
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (23 November 2006):
Yeap, I got a feeling she still has a crush on him, no doubt bout that. If a girl is interested in someone, you'll know, the body language of a woman speaks volume! If I was you, I would have walked a long time ago as Im one who cannot share my gf, especially not with my brother! You need to tell her, regardless of whether she likes it or not! In situations like this, its hard to change her mind and make her look only at you (even if she does start lookign at you only, her heart isnt with you!). Its entirely up to you to weigh the good and bad of this girl and whether you're willing to put up with this. I personally cant, but if you can, hey, why not?!
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