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My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!

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Question - (30 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *psetandsad writes:

Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an online dating agency a month ago looking for "one-on-one sex" and "discreet relationships". Do I let him know I have found this out? What do I do? I am supposed to be going on holiday with him tomorrow!

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2007):

love-him agony auntWoo so ur pregnant (sorry if i got it wrong lol) gud luck chick, but ur man isnt bein a good person the way he is acting towards you.. x x x

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A female reader, upsetandsad United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2007):

upsetandsad is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Many thanks to you all for your help. At the start of the relationship we both took full STI tests, and made the decision that we would use the pill as a method of contraception. However, despite religiously taking it at the same time of day it seems I am in the unlucky 1-3% who it doesnt work for, as I discovered last night.

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntErm okay then, well i agree with what past writers have wrote, hes upto no good at all, dont stand for it, confront him and embarrass him and get the hell out of there! Treat him with the same respect hes treated you with: ZILCH!

Good luck hunn xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007):

one of two things: let him know, and see if you two have the stuff to work through this together, or get out asap. good luck sweetie.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHey babe, happytochat is right.. babe he aint someone you wanna spend time with.. keepin ex's naked pik with him, and also now joining on a chat site, for sex.. leave him, or if not, let him know you know, and demand a resonable explanation.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x x

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (1 July 2007):

I'm sorry but I am 100% sure NO ONE on here can offer you any reassurance in this situation. He is obviously up to no good :( which I know is horrible to here and I feel bad for you, but its better to know now then to spend 1 more day not knwoing and waste more of your time and love on him.

There is no doubt in my mind that you shoudl leave him. A guy who keeps a naked photo of his ex shows little respect for you, even if he really did get rid of it, the fact that he still had it means a lot. And now you say you have caught him on suss web sites. What mroe proof do you need?

Honestly darling, you do not deserve to be treated like this and I'm pretty sure you don't want to be. So why are you staying with him? There are so many other great guys out there who could and will make you feel a whole lot bbetter then this one. So don't fear you won't find anyone else if you break up with this guy, becuae you will.

I really do hope you leave him because he doesn't deserve a girlfriend at this point in time if hes going to treat you like that.

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