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Mom and dad separated, but dad still lives with us, people talk about him behnd his back, what can I do to help?

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Question - (24 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female Philippines age 26-29, *onfused... writes:

ok...real problem in my head right now...

my mom and dad are seperated but he still lives in our house because he has no where else to go...

but he's really making my mom mad because he takes stufff without asking, and acts all high and mighty

but my mom also has her share of faults like she intentionally speaks out loud about our problems when he's in the room, i act like he's not there, but sometimes i feel guilty just knowing he's out there alone and that people are talking about him behind his back, but my heart just cant seem to take courage and say anything...to comfort him what should i do?

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A female reader, confused... Philippines +, writes (27 May 2009):

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i feel like a horrible person...i cant even bring myself to smile anymore because of my guilt...

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A female reader, britbrit United States +, writes (24 May 2009):

britbrit agony auntOkay im gonna be completely honest. Thats your father. Reguardless of how he acts with your mother. Its none of your business what goes on in their personal life. Its WRONG for your mom to put you in that position. But if your feelign bad then, you know whats the correct thing to do. Comfort YOUR FATHER and let him know how you feel. Life is too short for all thoes little games your family is playing. you know what to do.

best wishes*

bRiTBRIT3

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