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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: have a question. Recently I met a woman who is older than me by 8 years. I am 44 and she is 52. We had 3 dates. The first one at a coffee shop which went well. After two days she invited me out to dinner followed by movie where she held my hand and was cuddling me. After the movie she dropped me to my vehicle and we hugged and she kissed my neck and I did the same. Then after two days I invited her to a pub. We had a good conversation after which we went for a walk holding hands. I dropped her to her place and was about to leave. She told me she would invite me home next time as it was too late that day as she is an early to her person. I said sure and departed. Next day I texted her saying I had a great night and loved her company and that she looked beautiful. She replied back saying thank you with a smiley. Since then she hasn’t texted and it’s been 2 days now. My question is could it possible that she has lost interest in me. From the above events what could be the possible reasons? Should I message her. If yes how long do I wait? Or should I wait till she texts me? Or should I just move on assuming I got ghosted. Any help is appreciated. Note that she is not much of a texter. She is very bland during texts as opposed to meeting in person. We only text about our next meeting and location.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2023): I agree with the other poster. She’s not a texter so call
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2023): I simply don't get what's keeping you from calling her and speaking to her.
What you describe sounds like a non-problem, or a problem that exists only in your head.
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