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I always end up giving my friend oral sex!

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Question - (31 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I always end up giving him oral sex. I don't know what's wrong with me, It's not that I don't enjoy it. I have feelings for him but I'm so confused. How do I let him go? It's obvious that it's not going anywhere.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011):

For the special man in my life we both deeply enjoy oral sex upon one another during our intimate times together, but I have never understood ala carte 'head' on the run with someone I am not in a relationship with. It's giving him a distorted 'nut on the move' idea of what oral sex is. Shallow and selfish. He'll get a 'check' on his actions eventually, from a woman not having it... and while you are allowing it you might want think about what you are really getting out of it. Not much. You deserve more...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011):

For the special man in my life we both deeply enjoy oral sex upon one another during our intimate times together, but I have never understood ala carte 'head' on the run with someone I am not in a relationship with. It's giving him a distorted 'nut on move' idea of what oral sex is. Shallow and selfish. He'll get a 'check' on his actions eventually, from a woman not having it... and while you are allowing it you might want think about what you are really getting out of it. Not much. You deserve more...

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (1 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntWell, from a man's point of view, you are a wet dream come true. Relatively few men in the Western World, and possibly on the planet, would not treasure a young women showing up on lunch hour to supply oral satisfaction with no strings attached. What a deal ! Some girls love this kind of thing. It's really kinky and I think it satisfies some kind of naughty sexual need for the girl - obviously for him. But you are being used as a slut, apparently without any substantive return, and you know it.

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A female reader, huneygyrl United States +, writes (1 February 2009):

huneygyrl agony auntI totally agree with Satindesire, plain and simple.

It doesn't take someone professional to figure that out.

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A female reader, !Candice16! United States +, writes (31 January 2009):

!Candice16! agony auntOk, if this isn't something you want then don't do it any more. It sounds to me this is just a using kind of relationship. It doesn't mean anything to either of you and it definitely doesn't mean anything to him. Take a break from each other. Stop seeing him for a while. This isn't right and I think you know that. So just stop. It is not going to go anywhere and you're not gaining anything from this. Move on.

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