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How do I handle my relationship with my ex? We're both happily married.

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Question - (31 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2007)
A female Kenya age 41-50, *uda Judy writes:

Hi

Am a married woman of eight years,a mother of to 2 kids.

Two weeks ago, i met my ex -boyfriend for the first after departing for studies in australia, we gave each other our contacts. A week ago, he invited me for lunch of which i didn't turn it down. He seemed to be very much in love and same applies to me. So, how do i handle this relationship?

Remember, the guy is marrried too.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

Don't meet him again - say you are busy next time he asks you out and then don't get in contact with him again. The fact that you are asking this question means you are in dangerous territory.... don't make your life messy, end this friendship now. X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

Imagine a tree. He's a low hanging fruit - but you don't need to pick it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

what relationship you dont have one with him!

"He seemed to be very much in love and same applies to me."

but if you both want to have fun go for it, find a cosy hotel room and get some lust! then go back to your hum -dom questionable love of your life!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntEnd this relationship right now and you won't have to worry about "handling" it. Do the right thing for the sake of your family.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

Why do you even want to have a relationship with your ex if you're both hapily married? I don't think this is appropriate at all. What if your husband were meeting an ex behind your back? This ex is obviously looking for something, maybe a little side action. If he weren't looking I doubt he'd bother with wanting to meet you.

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