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writes: My ex and I broke up over a month ago. We had many issues, he was controlling and too jealous, always thought the worst of me and called me names, didn't trust me at all.He's been obsessively checking out my Facebook profile. I blocked him and his family members, I also have all my privacy settings to "Friends only", yet he still manages to see my Wall! And he judges me and makes me feel bad about things I write, just because I'm making my own life. It's not even like I've been writing bad stuff about him. I asked him a million times to stop judging me and checking out my FB profile. He didn't respect that, of course, and kept judging me and sending angry e-mails speaking his mind.So I figured, I'll do what he hates the most: I'll embarrass him publicly. So I posted this in my FB: "Please quit stalking me [EX'S NAME]. I don't respect psychos. Thank you". He went through the roof and says that's the lowest thing I could've done, and that what he did wasn't as bad to deserve that.Now he's threatening to post nude pictures of me on the net. He says I publicly humiliated him so now it's his turn. I insist it's not the same. But he's stubborn. What the hell? I won't take his stalking anymore, but if I don't act like a bitch, he'll never stop! Yet if I keep acting like a bitch, he might post the pictures...
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reader, Venom.Viper  +, writes (8 July 2012):
This recently happened to me and I don't know what to do! I don't need pictures of me half naked on the internet, but the only way he'll ever delete them is if I give him a naked show and make him cum! I prayed to God a million times still without luck and I can't convince him to delete them! I need serious help as much as you do!
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reader, SSS.  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 ouch, nude photos, how low of him.
well there's 3 ways of going about this.
1.] ask him to not put the photos up.
reading what you wrote this doesn't seem like an option he'll agree too.
2.] threaten him with something.
got any nude photos of him ? anything bad he's done ? something ?
3.] do a Hayley Williams, let him put the photos up.
this isn't an option i'd go for, but if you're one of those bold people, let him do it.
facebook will take them down within an hour, and you can get all your friends to report him + he'll be off facebook and out of your online life.
also if you act like you don't care about it chances are he may not bother putting them online.
you need to stop giving him the attention, because that's the only reason he is doing it, to get attention from you because he misses you.
i know it's hard and you want to annoy him back but try and just ignore it.
good luck [:
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (1 June 2010):
No wonder he is your EX wow that in alone is enough to be thankful for! sounds like his threats are in trying to get you back or just trying to get back at you? i would just tell him go ahead and post the pic's because you have all you need to have him thrown in jail. don't let his words pull you back in to his sick Lil world. you're free feel blessed.
Good Luck!
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reader, The Realist +, writes (1 June 2010):
 I reccomend seeing a lawyer if your worried that he will do it. They can help you get a court order that send him to jail if he posts anything about you. I doubt he would after that, the whole thing would be a good scare for him to show him that you mean business.
They may also be able to force him to delete any pictures of you. If he threatens you at all call the cops and have them deal with him but make sure that they know about the pictures.
Also if you contact facebook they may be able to block his accounts via IP address for harrassment. It's all worth a try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): First, stop fighting with this a-hole. He's not rational, and you can't even talk to him, much less expect him to respond like a rational person. Cut all contact.
Next, call and get some advice from a group that deals with domestic abuse. They can advise you on what to do, ow to handle this situation and most importantly any next steps. They may recommend a restraining order.
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