New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

He's 51 and I'm 20..I like him but I know we have no future together. What should I do?

Tagged as: Age differences, Dating<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (31 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2007)
A female age 36-40, *lara.d writes:

I'm 20 and having a sexual relationship with a 51 year old man. He is very attractive and fit for his age and treats me with respect. We've not told any one because of the age gap, i like him but i know we have no future. I've also stopped looking at other men. Its new year and he's not coming to our party. Is this a chance for new start? i don't know what i should do?

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007):

hi, i have the same problem as you. I am 17 and my boyfriend is 59. it would be nice to talk to someone who is in a similar situation. if you agree send me your email.

good luck!

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007):

This seems like a huge age gap to me being that men usually die at a younger age than women, and if you are serious about finding a life partner and you have stopped looking at other men due to your sexual bond with this man who is old enough to be your older uncle, then I think realistically you know what is best for you.

Are you sure this man is not taking advantage of you, he is not being a great boyfriemd if he is not telling anyone about you or attending your social and or family functions.

I know what I would do, but the decision is yours to make.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007):

it is a chance for something different just think when he is 60 and nearly retiring u will be in your prime and still wanting to enjoy life .u should find someone closer your age 31 years older is a huge gap it may seem ok now but a few years it could become problematic when u want to go out he might not want u to etc .just think long and hard

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "He's 51 and I'm 20..I like him but I know we have no future together. What should I do? "

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.015643499995349!