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writes: MY bf left the country we have a wonderful relationship but he hasnt called me till now, i got a mail which was adrressed to many of his frnds includin me.he said he cant call me and will call soon.iam sure he called up his parents and told them he is fine y isnt he callin me?he wants to marry me but i have always felt tat 4 him his family is more important and he will do anything to keep his family happy. his family do know abt me they are just neutral i dunno whether they like me or not.since we met there was never a single day that we havent spoken to each other and yesterday he didnt call me. iam just mad at him y is he behavin like this?its affectin me physically n mentally waht should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): i dont think my bf loves me enough to marry me an he dont haue the guts to tell his parents that he loves me or he want to marry me. They even told him im not good enough for him and they tried to seperate us by pushing him into a nother girl and he did not tell me. How will i know if he wants to start a life with me and not that other girl his parents want him to b with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2006): I think you need to stop reading into this and assuming the worse.
He is probably on his side of things thinking...I am so glad I found a loving and understanding woman and he probably believes you trust in him and know he wouldn't do anything to hurt you. Face it, most men are oblivious when they are unintentionally hurting the woman they love.
He isn't pefect...why am I not surprised?
He has faults and flaws...who doesn't?
He finally contacted you and wow...he took the time to do this...why are you looking at this like he is putting his parents first and not you?
Sorry...this is the first time you are apart from one another and YOU YOURSELF are not dealing with this very well. YOu yourself are not having faith in him and being supportive or understanding. This isn't about him and his family...it is about what you can do to support him and love him.
I am sure when he comes home and is happy to see you and you are in his arms...your fears will subside and you will look back on this as you being a foolish girl.
Just be happy when he calls or writes and re affirm your love for him. Remember all the reasons why you love him and recall all those precious moments that make you smile.
Don't build on your fears and insecurities and STOP assuming the worse and making more out of nothing.
Best of Wishes.
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (18 November 2006):
 Hello,
maybe you should give him a chance to explain himself..
he might be really busy ya know? dont worry about this..
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