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Has my masturbating taken full control of me?

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Question - (31 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2011)
A male Nigeria age 36-40, *ueya writes:

I'm a 26years old male from nigeria and havn't any sexual intercourse with any woman before, but i do masturbate and this year will make it 13years that i have been masturbating. I watch a lot of x-rated movies and read a lot of sex novels. but i'm sacred to have sex with any woman. and i don't know why i have that feeling? is any thing wrong with me or is that my masturbating act have taking full control of me?

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A male reader, Sueya Nigeria +, writes (2 June 2011):

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Sueya agony auntThanks helpoutguy+ for the advice but you know it's not easy to over come it just like that, when i mean i'm scared it goes a long way before i wrote the question i had encounter wid a lady just as she said something about havin sex wid her my heart started to beat fast and just then i fell ill with fever.so we could not do any thing bt as she was gone and i started to read my sex book i felt better and i just masturbate so i became confuss because i wanted to do what i watch bt i feel better masturbatin than doin it with a lady that y i wrote that question bt i will take ur advice and see how it play out.

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A male reader, helpOut.GuY United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2011):

helpOut.GuY agony aunthi there. im a young guy but i am married and trying for a kid so i can help. i too was scared of sex until my friend ( now my wife ) kindof gave me a tutorial. i was the same as you, i masturbated and watched porn alot. no there is nothing wrong with you. my advice is that you just do it. youl feel scared and awkward to begin with but soon all those feelings will be overwelmed with pleasure and enjoyment.

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