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Girlfriend feels pain more than pleasure

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Question - (16 February 2023) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2023)
A male India age 18-21, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend feels pain much more than pleasure while we're having sex which just makes it feel as if I'm doing something wrong.

So to give you context, we started having sex last year in November. For all the while till last month or so, it was easy for her to have me enter her or do positions.

But starting Feburary, she started to complain saying she feels pain when we do sex or even my tip hurts her. Strange part is, while doing missionary, it's not painful for her but other positions hurt her so bad.

Even the space between her butthole and vagina seems to be paining, only when she touches it when cleaning up or something.

Any idea what she's facing?

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2023):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntGiven your age, I would assume you are being over-zealous and rough when having sex (as many teenagers are). Women do not enjoy "porn" sex. Most like to be treated gently and every one will have different things she likes and doesn't like. Perhaps your girlfriend is saying these things because she does not feel comfortable in the many positions you have been expecting from her but doesn't yet have the maturity to tell you?

That said, you need to rule out any medical problems. Your girlfriend needs to go and see a doctor. Perhaps she just isn't yet ready physically to have sex but feels obliged?

Talk to your girlfriend. Ask her to guide you in what she likes and doesn't like. Perhaps she feels you are moving too fast. Are you using effective contraception? You have the rest of your lives ahead of you so stop rushing so much.

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A female reader, RitaBrown United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2023):

This is a medical question which can't really be answered on this site. Your girlfriend should see a doctor.

It could be all sorts of things causing her discomfort.

And she's the only person who can tell you how she's feeling.

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