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Can you really go from being bi curious to straight?

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Question - (31 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right here goes x

im 17, ive been with my boyfriend since we were 13 and i love him to pieces.

the thing is, he's always been openly bisexual, and ive always accepted that as part of who he is and i love him despite that, i honestly have no issue there.

However, he said today that he is no longer bi. he says that he was bi curious, and no longer has any sexual desire towards emn whatsoever, that he was just experimenting his sexuality and sexual side as a young teen as teens do, although never having had any sexual contact with anyone other than me, boy or girl.

He claims now to be 100% straight.

My question is, is this really possible? he knows that i have no issue with bi gay straight you are who you are. i love him being bi or straight because i know that he loves me.

Is this possible? Can you really go from being bi curious to straight? is there anyone on here who has honestly experienced such a change or is he simply not being honest with himself or me?

all answers are greatly Appreciated

Much Love

AngelGirl17

xxxxxx

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

YouWish agony auntOh yeah. He's young and sexuality is never cut and dried. Many people have lived a straight life in their younger years before discovering (or allowing themselves to recognize) that they were gay. The same has been true in reverse.

Many more people don't put stock in labels and love who they love. We're all on a journey to discover who we are, and it usually takes a lifetime.

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A female reader, heaven= United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

well if he's been with you for that long and has not really experemented with other guys or girls since you two got together than maybe he is just saying he is straight becaus well he has no idea what being with an other guy or other girl is so,so yeah from what your saying maybe he is just saying that and not really knowing

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010):

At his age, I'd say yes... if he was 10+ years older, I'd save unlikely. Sexuality ebbs and flows, it's not fixed.

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