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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend cheated and I have all the proof but he keeps denying it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - This is probably a no brainer but I'm asking anyway, found out my boyfriend has been texting and chatting with his ex, I confronted him and he promised to stop because he didn't want to lose me the problem is he hasn't I checked his phone and have ...

I (F) upset my boyfriend and he's now being so cold with me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I need advice on what to do about my boyfriend. Whenever we have an argument and I am slightly to blame, he gives me the silent treatment the next day and sometimes for a few days. He has mental health problems and I will admit that he is very ...

I think I'm starting to hate my best friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice with a certain situation that my friend (we'll call her molly) got herself in to. We've been friends for about 5 years and we used to relate to each other so well. We were so close until about 4 months ago. That's when she ...

My Bf ignores me and neglects me. Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - If my boyfriend has neglected me for over 3 months and counting, should I break up with him? He might be working on something, or studying for finals, but that might not be it. I have also found another man but I haven't met him in real life, and I ...

How can we come to some agreement? We have different views about my past sexual history.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm hoping you can help! I'm in a relationship with this new lovely guy, but there is one main problem; we have very different ideas about sex and relationships etc. Basically he's very traditional and believes that sex is only wh...

My words initiated the break-up. But he broke up as if I never meant anything to him. How can I get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I am very unhappy i need advice I have been dating this man for ten months now and he has a habit of ignoring my calls and texts even for days so we have been urguing about it he says he is busy but he will go even for a week unless i contact ...

My boyfriend's behaviour has left me feeling confused. How do I make sense of this? Help !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I am so confused about my boyfriend's behaviour lately. We've been together for nearly six months and everything has been great. He's really sweet and loving. He always makes an effort and plans dates. He's a proper gentleman, always pays. For Va...

What can I do? My Bf has now become just taciturn and grumpy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - When we first met my boyfriend loved talking with me but now he is just taciturn and grumpy.He bites back every conversation i start and complains about everything connected to me. It's driving me crazy and i cant see why he could imagine i want a ma...

I feel crushed. How can a man turn nasty so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My ex of 42 recently ended things twice with me and I have lost all trust in him now. He wanted to see me yesterday. I still love him but declined as Im healing and feel it was not a healthy relationship anyway. He had mood swings and was not over...

He is not the ideal choice, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hello aunts! I broke up with my bf a year ago. People who love me dont like him anymore because he could have cheated on me (not sure, however proofs led to break up). Though we broke up for the public, we have been meeting and talking. The relation...

We had our problems. Now its much later and I've moved on. Should I unblock him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I'm new to this website so sorry if i make any mistakes. There is this guy I know that is the most confusing... one day my friends and i were playing a game where we had to tell everyone who we liked (on facebook messenger). i liked him bu...

We me on an online site. Should I assume we are still in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - Dear Auntz. Ive fallen inlove so fast within a period of a month with a guy 9 years older than me from a dating site. He asked me to help him do a website for him because i told him my brother does that so at fast my brother wanted to do it for f...

Why does my heart warm up when I see my ex? What's up with my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I am now into my third year of a wonderful relationship. We got together about 6 months after breaking up with my daughters father, which was a very turbulent time. Some his fault, but I admit, I never made things easy by cheating several times(he...

My Bf wants to be single again to sort himself out. How can I cope with all the uncertainty of this change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of two years decided yesterday out of no where as things are going great that hes too stressed with everything going on in his life and wants to be single to sort himself out. It was totally out of the blue and I'm utterly heart br...

How can I get the respect I seek from my husband and from his family? What will improve this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My husband told me he recents me for keeping him away from his family. I do keep him away from his family because HIS family doesn't like me . my marriage is falling apart over this we are at the point where either I let him be around his famil...

Stuck in a terrible marriage. Do I stay or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I am having trouble deciding whether to leave my marriage. I wonder how it all looks from the outside. We met as coworkers during a hard time in my life and slept together even though I made it clear I did not want that type of relationship. Ev...

Should I tell my best friend this secret about her boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - Hello aunt Advice needed!! I was catching up with an old high school friend, we were very close but we lost contact now in college were close again. We decided to go have a girls night, during the dinner she asked about my best friend and vice ...

Someone stirring up trouble and losing friendships thick and fast

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

27 May 2016 (M) - hello agony aunts I've got a problem which I hope you can solve for me, I feel as though someone at work is plotting against me and is telling untrue stuff about me to my friends and to a girl who I'm friends with about my past, he doesn't like me ...

I'm angry that my boyfriend is phasing me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Feeling angry as i am being phased out, boyfriend holidays alone and doesnt even consider taking a cheaper holiday with me. I know nothing lasts forever but i feel my loyalty is less than regarded. He'll even side with assistants in shop against ...

How do I let go of who I THOUGHT he was?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Last year I met a man that is 16 years my senior (I'm 21), I thought it was fate at first as we appeared to love all of the same things, share the same thoughts about life and he could not get enough of me. I quickly became attached to him and ...

Do I take a chance on my friend who is being flaky or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Me and my friend decided to be more than friends , yesterday i got some plans mixed up and messaged him saying i couldnt meet friday he didnt see the message straight away but 2 mins later i told him it was ok to still see each other and he saw id ...

I feel like I've lost a friend and its making me feel very confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

27 May 2016 (M) - I'm in a situation where I don't know where to begin and it's hard to explain, I'll try to make as much sense as I can with it so bare with me. I like this female at work, she likes me and we seem to get on well, she's a temporary worker and want ...

Is this cheating type behavior? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3089 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend, I've been very unhappy and paranoid lately. I hate to jump to conclusions and sound crazy but I have a gut feeling my boyfriend is cheating, or at the very least spending time and talking to another girl. Th...

Should I stop cooking for my Bf after what he did? Any suggestions on how to get him to appreciate me more?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 1 year. He can be super sweet, loyal and sensitive and we have a lot in common... but sometimes he can just 'lose it.' Though he would never be violent he has lost his temper over ...

My sister is 3 years older than me and she bullies me. How can I distance myself from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - i am from india and i almost 21 years old, i have a sister who is 3 years elder, till before 7-8 months, we were very close like super close as far as i remember we did everything together only like parties, going out and shopping n all stuff. ...

He ignores me and treats me like I don't exist ever since we had a one night stand. How can I better handle this rejection?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hi there, I'm married with 10 childrens and had an affair with a man that has 4 Children. We go to the same church and that's where everything happened. He smiled at me all the time and then it ended up into a one night stand we met up and ha...

I feel as if I am just the girl he made pregnant. Does he really love me? I feel as if I'm second best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years and together have two babies. We have 2 kids each to previous partners. All up we have 6 kids whom we raise together. He was with his ex for about 5 years. They were not married but were...

How can I ask my husband to consider an open marriage? Cheating has never been a part of our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I’d like to discuss with my husband a possibility of an open marriage but don’t know how to do it. First of all he may think I literarily lost my mind. You see, I was always a good girl/woman, did what was expected of me, while my husband was free...

Help ! I need help dealing with my negative bitter mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - Dear All, I need help dealing with my negative bitter mother. My mother is a good woman and has been a good mother. She raised 4 kids all by herself after my father fell mentally ill. She is still married to him but unhappily and bitter at ...

She is wonderful, fulfills all my needs in life, but I'm not in love with her. Should I reconnect with an ex, instead, despite problems likely to result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

25 May 2016 (M) - 5 years ago me and my partner that I have children with went through a very rough patch and I ended up cheating on her. Me and her friend ended up falling for each other but in the end I couldn't deal with the guilt and told her what has been go...

What should I do? Things don't feel right in our relationship. I still feel betrayed at times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I are having a major problem and I come to you for help. We've been married almost 3 years, no children. He wanted to separate for a bit and so I agreed. I went to go stay at my dads. Out of hurt and anger I told him I would be filin...

My boyfriend is touchy feely with other girls.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. The problem is that he's extremely touchy and always tickles and teases other girls, even in front of me. I talked to him about it but it seems that it's pointless. I've never told him not to hang out with ...

My life has slumped and I feel isolated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So many things are wrong I can't solve any of them and its affecting my wellbeing. I'm in my mid 40's. 5 years ago my husband left me and for a while I had no where to live and no car. I had to re-locate and as a result have lived in three ...

I need help with my daughter in law and her toxic mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - I am looking for advice is dealing with a situation regarding my son's partner and her mother. background and my son got involved with his partner at 17, something I wasn't happy about as she is older and had two children from a previous relatio...

I can't imagine breaking up with him, and I can't live with my married lover. How do I cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 3 years this June. He has told me he does not love me. But he loves having sex with me. The passion we share and the sex we have is out of this world. Even after 3 years, we continue to reac...

Will it get better? Am I going to regret leaving home as a teenager, in the long run?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 years old and about two months ago I left home. I never got on well with my dad and I was quite distant from my mother. I have serious middle child syndrome, I'm quite selfish and never satisfied. I was yearning emotion...

Am I truly being selfish? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm very upset and I'm sorry this is long. I feel like I'm selfish and I don't know what to do. My mom isn't in the best of health but is pushing through. Now, my brother texts me and says my mom is really hurt cause she feels as ...

Why do people want strippers at celebration parties just before they marry?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - Hi this is a weird question because its a hypothetical. I think its very strange that before two people get married they are encouraged to have strippers at their bachelor/ bachelorette parties. I've never been to a strip club even though it w...

How do I stop saying the wrong thing and convince H that I love her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - I've been dating H for five months and it's just gotten weird... With like all these things where she gets mad at me. First time, my friends said I could have been nicer about it but I think she was over sensitive. She got her braces adjusted ...

I thought there were mutual feelings but that the timing was off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Definitely needs some advice here, So my boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time now, (3+ years). While I do care for him, we are opposites and have been on and off. 2 years ago, I went on a trip with my school and met a guy (al...

I live with my boyfriend but so much want to be with another guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years, i live with my partner, but i am not happy have not been happy with him for a while. I have met this really nice guy who i have known for a while and i want to be with this new guy so much, but i dont know ...

He wont talk to me after a fight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I've been talking with this guy for months now, but lately I'm juSt having difficulty dealing with him. He was really caring, and acts nice and always tries to keep the conversation going. We had a fight a 2 weeks ago, and I hurt him with my ...

Should pull her aside and ask her to refrain from further comments on my body or my weight?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Last year I lost the weight that I gained in winter time. One of my co worker congratulated me and said I look great and not to lose anymore. However, now almost every time I see her she always makes a reference to my weight and tells me that I'm ...

Do I have a right to feel disrespected, or wondering if any loyalty exists, anymore, between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - What would YOU think? How would YOU feel? How would YOU react? Couple months ago made friends with a woman. Weve gone for coffee. Visited, visited others together, gone for walks, just spent time together, getting to know each other. A couple ...

I'm very grateful for my Mother's help, but why would a mother treat one son more favourably, financially, than her other son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

22 May 2016 (M) - Hello to all the Aunts and Uncles Okay, I'm really needing some help here. Basically I have lost pretty much everything. I don't want to really go into that side of things too much. But I've lost my home. My business. When I went under my ...

What should I do? Is it understandable that I'm hurt that my boyfriend wants to be friends with a woman he cheated with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Last night my phone was dead and I could not find my charger. So I asked my boyfriend if I could use his phone because I had to call my sister for something important. I'm not the type to snoop but I saw 3 calls in the call log from a woman my...

Has anyone here cut ties with their own parent? Can I cut ties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - Has anyone here cut ties with their own parent? This is going to come off terribly rude but I don't know how else to put it. My mother is a drug addict who also has mental issues, and treats me bad. After having a big argument last night over...

Can I learn to trust him? He went back to ex and then left her for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - Hello so I got into a relationship with an older male and we were together for a year in which time he moved in with me and I fell pregnant. However, I started to get my suspicions that he was still sleeping with his ex towards the end of the ...

I never realized how lazy my boyfriend was until we moved into together!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - Hi everyone I've been with my boyfriend just under 4 years we have a 17 month old daughter and have just moved in together the problem is I didn't realise how lazy he is he goes to work and admits he does nothing comes home I have tea ready I sort ...

What's happening to me? Am I feeling all this emotion as a result of supressing my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

21 May 2016 (M) - Hello its Military Man once again. The count down for deployment is 4 days and im starting to experience things I never really strongly felt before.....emotion. I mean Ive been hurt and understood this but I never been able to show it. Like whe...