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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Health category)

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I’m sexually frustrated in my married! Advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2341 days ago

31 May 2018 (M) - hey id like to clear my thoughts and get an opinion. here goes, right ive been in a relationship for 14 years and we have 4 kids together. i no im probably going to get told i shouldnt read whats on the internet but its there and what i read is ...

How to deal with breakups when you suffer from anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for several years. We love each other very much but probably aren't the best match for each other. I would like to consider breaking up, but I have anxiety and it makes everything difficult 10x harder. I'm scared of ...

Would I be a complete cow if I don't help my ex boyfriend with his drug problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - My close friend has recently let me know that my ex boyfriend is going wild with drugs and alcohol and that he is worried about him. When I was with this boyfriend, I managed to convince him to only do drugs every so often and just weed, nothing ...

How do I regain my self confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - After being in a long marriage and meeting a new man how do I regain confidence in myself as a sexual woman . My ex showed little attraction to me despite all efforts I made to be attractive and my new man is great but has a strong like for porn ...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2343 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

Is the relationship doomed before it has begun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - I met a guy a few weeks back in a bar, we instantly hit it off and have been talking ever since. He knew who I was as he went to school with my older brother so we know a few of the same people. I was talking to a friend about him and she asked hi...

I don’t always reach orgasm and he gets upset! Any suggestions so we are both happy and satisfied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2351 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, that is even if I have never had an orgasm from intercourse. I need oral or extra attention down there but there have been days when I just can’t orgasm, like just before periods etc.This has never bothered ...

I’m a first time dater and find myself stressing about the romantic/ affectionate part of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

22 May 2018 (F) - Does anyone have tips for letting yourself be more romantic/affectionate with someone when it's totally outside of your comfort zone? Been seeing someone for a couple weeks now (first time ever dating) and can tell he wants more from me physical...

How do I support my husband in his business stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - Hi all Im wondering how i can support my husband in his stress. He runs two businesses that could be successful but due to outside factors, things arent going well. He literally cannot catch a break. He most recently said: "if i have to deal wit...

How can I adapt better to what my career will be? How can I make this better for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - Not a relationship question more of a general life question and how to cope with the working routine. I’m 29 years old, graduated college with a BS in the Health Sciences and have been working in my field for about 8 months now. I love my job and ...

Why am I having dreams about his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

20 May 2018 (F) - I had a dream of a bull chasing me to the edge of a river and when it was about to hit me I close my eyes and on opening I am at my boyfriends house and her ex is seated on the chair. So I ignore and go straight to the bedroom to drop my bag then I ...

Anxiety and fear when alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

20 May 2018 (F) - Hi there. I am going to be staying alone because my fiance is going away for work for 3 nights. I have anxiety and fear being sick (it is something i have had my whole life). This fear is intensified when i am alone. It is probably worse because I ...

Does anyone have any tips on mental health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hello aunts I realize this is not a relationship question but I have been diagnosed with ocd/ rumination (excessive) to the point where I get horrible tension headaches and panick. I am a prisoner of my mind and I go and recheck things and ...

Does he have a disorder or is he just a liar?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hello i have a question, i have been dating this guy for 3 months but am confused about his character.The first time met him, he told he was born Jan 30th, the next time i asked he said 20th feb 1979 i asked to see his Id it was 1th Jan 1978. Last ...

I know I should divorce him but I have no energy to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Hi, i feel very extremely frustrated with my marriage at the moment. We had 30 years together, many of them filled with tragic events and heartbreaking moments. I did have many years of counselling and friends help. But less and less understati...

Should I keep in touch and message him from time to time? Or leave it to him? And how long are we on hold for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - i met someone in february at a friends party and we hit it off immediately, only he suffers from mental health issues because of a past abusive relationship anyway recently my mum had a go at him through Facebook for going to see his friend instead ...

Boyfriend ignores me for computer games, should I be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I feel like this is a bit of a strange question and I'm not sure if I am allowed to feel this way or not. Hopefully you can shed some light for me. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and recently moved in together 3 years ago. I fe...

After I told him I’d give him space if he needed it, I haven’t heard from him! What next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I’m in a LDR online. We do know each other in person but a few months ago reconnected. Things have been going well but recently he has been going through much stress with his business and children. Things (for him) seem to be getting worse ...

Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance? I had been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I recently decided to end our relationship because of his drinking habit. I wasn't happy about his drinking early on but I t...

I can’t get the thoughts of her having sex with her exes out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

15 May 2018 (M) - Hello, my girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now. I am 17 and she is 20, I know most people would say this is a recipe for chaos and it probably is.. In 2 months I will be going to Brazil (I am from Belgium BTW) ...

How can I deal with my upbringing ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Hello aunts How can I forget my childhood? I come from a communist country (Europe) was basically raised here my whole life so I am Americanized but my parents had an arranged marriage - I still live with my folks as I am saving to buy a ho...

My ex said hurtful things about my body. I'm self conscious and my get up and go has gone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I I hope you guys don't mind me asking for advice. I have been feeling low since splitting with my ex around 5 month ago, I have lost my get up and go and I work and then come home and that's it or I go to bed and fall asleep crying. My ex said I ...

Should I tell my parents I am sexually active?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2359 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Okay, I’m 17 and I just lost my virginity about a week ago. My parents don’t know and I’ve had a few of my closest friends tell me that I need to tell my parents. The thing is, I’m terrified that they won’t let me talk to my boyfriend or be with him ...

Will the intimacy return? Do other new parents feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

10 May 2018 (M) - Okay, to put a little background into this for better understanding, my wife and I have 2 kids. One was born at the end of January this year, but with the way I am, I don't handle the infant stage very well. I have quite the temper and crying ...

He had panic attacks, couldn’t eat and lost weight when I tried to end our relationship! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - I have been seeing this man for 2 years, met him online and it is a long distance relationship as we don’t see each other regularly, only twice a month which was ok with me....Anyway he started talking about having a future together... to move away ...

She wouldn’t make this small sacrifice for me, so I’ve cut contact! I know she’ll be back though!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been with my partner for almost 6 years now. We have honestly been through the thickest and thinnest of situations. Throughout our relationship, we started to drift personalities and so we had excessive, mentally exhau...

Will my boyfriend come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

8 May 2018 (F) - So my boyfriend well ex dumped me around two weeks ago out of the blue and of course i broke the no contact rule and texted him like five days after but it's been a week since we last communicated, But he left due to stress and his life being a mess ...

I push people away because I'm scared that they will leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

7 May 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this really sweet guy for a little over two weeks and things are going well. I am happy but I’m scared that this happiness will only be temporary. I do not fall for people easily and I have a tendency to push...

I’ve given up drinking! How do I tell my friend before his bachelor party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2369 days ago

6 May 2018 (M) - When I was in my early 20s and mid 20s, I was a heavy drinker. I would not considered myself an alcoholic but I was a drunk. After a really bad experience about six years ago (I was lucky I did not die from alcohol poisoning), I decided that I ...

Any advice on dealing with my ex’s odd texts? It’s messing me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - Was dumped by my boyfriend end of jan. I kept getting texts of him and then they started dwindling , the longest with no text was nearly 2 weeks and he said he loved me and no more taking sleepers with prefabs anyway as he felt horrid. Anyway fast ...

My marriage in in crisis because I've decided my wife is too skinny and her boobs aren't big enough.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

1 May 2018 (M) - Hi everyone, Thank you so much for reading this. I am genuinely looking for advice regarding my marriage which is in a state of crisis right now. I will keep it as short as possible. TL;DR: I met my wife in an online relationship. We got marr...