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How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...

What is going on with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

28 April 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, some of u may remember me from my past questions.. Ill give a little background info. Around october i was really active on this site, I'm 19 years old (now 20) and i was in a really toxic relationship with a 35 year old man.. It was...

Is it normal for men to have sex when women are having their periods?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - I'm meeting up with my bf next month who stays in another city. The problem is that the date when I will be going, I might be on my periods. I've told him that already to which he has said that he's fine with it. What can this possibly mean? Is he ...

I want to communicate more openly with my mother, but how? And once a girl is not a virgin, does one tell a parent or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and will be going to university this year. I've always been really independent and mature (so I've been told many times) and apparently act beyond my years. I guess I've always felt the need to be independent, considering my father being ...

Why do many men prefer a tight vagina? Or do they? 2

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Why do many men find a tight vagina so appealing? I was a late bloomer and lost my virginity to my current husband when I was in my 40's. I was married previously to a man who suffered erectile difficulties and was never able to have intercourse...

Where do I stand in this relationship? What can I say to him to get the answers I need? 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - So I've been talking/meeting this guy since last May, which is nearly a year ! He says he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because his last girlfriend cheated on him. And he tells me to be patient for a relationship because he will have to...

Is my relationship healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2747 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We got into a relationship pretty fast. I expressed how not having sex until marriage was important to me but after a month he talked me into it. We have went out a lot and he says things like this relationship...

I enjoy getting hit on but how do I keep my respect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - I am 42 yr old average looking guy and am getting hit by young girls more then before since I took up fitness and gained weight. Now I find my every interaction with the opp sex becomes sexual. Even my sis in law has started flirting with me ...

We broke up and we're not a couple any more. Should I be concerned that he's recently had a tattoo of my name inked on his neck?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I'm completely puzzled as to why but my ex boyfriend has just this week gone and got my name tattooed onto the back of his neck and I'm worried he now thinks we are back together after I have been talking to him about the reason I left him. We wer...

He seems irritated, miserable and annoyed. Could smoking weed be affecting his moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I've just been on holiday with my partner and children and we've come home and argued. I don't know what to say to him and I hope you could give me some advice. The first two days away he was smiling and laughing but then the third day he sai...

How do I help him through this rough patch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of a year is amazing but has been on edge lately. He's been upset with work recently and has been vocalizing this angrily while playing computer video games. He usually rarely plays. I understand he needs to release but I'm also a bit ...

Birth control question--can't find the information I need on the internet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2747 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I know this sounds like another dumb girl asking a birth control question but I can't find any relevant information on this. I've tried the pill. I've tried Nuva Ring. Hormonal birth control makes me gain weight and kills my sex drive. Plus the ...

Is it wrong to tell someone who has depression that you can't be there for then anymore if they don't want to help the self?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - Is it wrong to tell someone who has depression that you can't be there for then anymore if they don't want to help the self? My boyfriend has depression which is not diagnosed but I've had it previously and know he does now. I've done everything I ...

I've got nothing in common with my family anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - Lately I've come to realise that I'm drifting further away from my family. Here is the back story. I was diagnosed with major depression and anxiety at age 18, I'm now 21. Needless to say;things got really bad with my health and I was advised...

Should work always come first for my boyfriend, even in case of a minor medical emergency like mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of one year works from home. We live together. He's the project manager of a small but successful company. He works at least 10 hours a day. I had severe stomach pains yesterday which came back this morning, so my boyfriend took m...

Ho do I deal with her speaking FOR my Dad all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - Dad's girlfriend is always speaking FOR my dad. She comes off very possessive but in an enthusiastic way. Constantly bragging about how she is with my dad. I didn't think much of it at first but overtime I have seen more signs of her narcissistic ...

Money is tight. Lots of financial pressure. How do I get him to see that he doesn't have enough money to attend the car race ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - Been with my fiance for 3 years. Currently We are BROKE. Had to cancel wedding (was meant to be next month) can't even elope cause we have no money for that. I had celebrant asking when we are putting deposit down and my fiance said "we need to ...

Husband comes home drunk with his underwear inside out and stained. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - Yesterday my husband came late from work again. This time it was far worst than the last time ... He works at a restaurant , he is a waiter. Three weeks ago he came home 6 hours later after leaving the workplace, He doesn't use a cellphone since he ...

The father of my children is unwell. What strategies might help me cope with his behaviour, actions and his stalking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - Relationship stArted 7-8 years ago sent peaches and cream but the first couple months were beautiful. I met him at a time of my life i was hurting and separated from my husband. Anyway I been recalling thinking heavy on our relationship. We...

Are my own strong feelings for guy number one affecting my feelings for guy number two? Is this why I can't commit ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - Six years ago, I was going through a very weird stage in my life. Mentally. The following year, I ended up being diagnosed with anxiety and impulsive control disorder. During this time I met this guy, and my whole life changed. He is the male...

Toxic, controlling, abusive and violent relationship. But I do love him. Plus I recently cheated. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I met my current partner 3 years ago, we were dating and then I moved into his place and sub letted my place to my sister as she had moved to London. At the time, three years ago, when I met my partner, my grandad had just passed away and my dad w...

How can we solve our relationship and jealousy issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I've been dealing with jealousy as one of the problems in my relationship lately. I try to ignore and keep it together but nothing is working. A few weeks ago, a girl randomly chatted with my boyfriend through Facebook and I got jealous because ...

My husband and his co-worker have feelings for each other. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - Let me start from the beginning if I may. About 2 weeks ago my husband said one of his supervisors at the factory where he works 3rd shift came up to him while he was loading a truck and harassed him about being too close to a girl who has a bad re...

How late is too late to start dating in the modern world?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

12 April 2017 (M) - How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start looking for a relationship. 25? 30? 35? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, and so on and so on. This could all be due to many combination of reasons: ...

Trying to avoid attending a work function. What are some good excuses I could use?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

11 April 2017 (F) - I've been asked to go to a work meeting that I really want to avoid. The meeting is a 3 hour train ride from where I live so I would have to leave very early and get home late. I don't have any children or pets that I can use as an excuse. Are ther...

Could his behaviour be the result of grieving for his mother and depression ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - So I am in a eight year long relationship. About five years into the relationship my partner's mum died. It wasn't expected and was a shock. My partner had to deal a lot with her will and documents since then. Since then he had brief angry outbur...

All of a sudden my husband is sometimes having erectile dysfunction issues, but not with me. He's been to Dr. What possible reasons could be causing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - My husband has a very high sex drive, and normally masturbates often, but in recent weeks he's found that while I can still get him aroused easily, he just can't get himself hard, even with porn stimulus. There hasn't been any change in his health ...

I love him so much, and I want him to love me. But he says he doesn't love me and he has a drug problem. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - Hi everyone I met a man back last May online. We chatted a lot and found we had lots in common, conversation flowed easily and he made me laugh. After 2 months of chatting he asked if I'd like to meet up, to which I agreed. We live 20 miles...

He won't accept my apologies! How do I get him to listen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - So today my boyfriend and I were having a great time.He came over to fix my computer.He is so clumsy and dirty.And I'm not clumsy and I love my room and bathroom clean.So he made a mess in my bathroom and I got mad at him and then we went pass ...

My car broke down but my boyfriend didn't believe me. Did I do anything wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - Hi all, please I need an advice. I'm so confused and don't know what to do anymore. So I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we've always argued. I wish he was more affectionate, flirty and playful like me but he's not he's so serious ...

Is this a normal reaction to porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

9 April 2017 (M) - I'm a guy who rarely watches hardcore porn but I do like female forms, so will sometimes watch very simple videos of a girl removing clothes or posing nude. I've been noticing that in some cases, with just the "right" (to my mind) face and body ...

I'm concerned about my sister's alarming weight gain. How do I gently let her know that I'm worried for her health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - Dear aunts. I'm after some advice because I'm seriously concerned about my sister. She met a guy two years ago and seems to be in a happy relationship but she has put on so much wait she is unrecognisable and seems unwell. I'm really glad she'...

How should I start the conversation with the baby's father?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - The baby's father and I only knew each other 3 months prior to me getting pregnant. I am currently 29 weeks. He was 100% aware of the possiblity of me getting pregnant and we had even talked about it. He had said he wanted to have a kid with me ...

Can intercourse make a woman tighter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

9 April 2017 (M) - Ok my wife is usually is avrage tigjt like not too tight but no loose. We has sex this morning and she was tight. She has cheated in the past amd she a lier for sure. If u have sex with someone can it cause ur vigina to be tighter ...

My sex drive has been ruined. I don't even enjoy masturbating? How can I ever feel comfortable having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - Please help! Any advice would be appreciated. So I've been in a long-term relationship with my fella for a few years now, but in that time we haven't had sex and we are both virgins. I would like to point out here that this is my fault, we tried ...

I grew up with lots of sisters but I'm still nervous around girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

8 April 2017 (M) - I grew up with 4 sisters, two older by a few years, and twin younger sisters a year younger than me. All my sisters are very pretty and get lots of attention from guys. However, I've always been very introverted, and socially awkward, and hav...

He says his HIV is undetectable and he's on medication. Is it ok to sleep with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

8 April 2017 (M) - So I've met this guy who is HIV undetectable and he says it's safe to have unprotected sex cause the hiv is not transmitable cause of medication. I don't really know much about undetectable HIV can I get some info...

Should I try to help him understand his brother's psychological problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - So I have been seeing a guy since December and recently we got closer and I started to have strong feelings for him , he tells me he loves me despite I don't really feel he does, but I always say that people express it differently and I don't wanna ...

How can I stop him from needing my attention when I'm busy with friends, son or volunteer work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My partner and I have a fun filled life we have a boy of 10yrs , we do lots of things as a family and also as a couple however my partner works so I often fill my time with my friends or going out with my son which I get so much joy out off Yet 9 ...

I caught my partner in a lie. Now he's verbally abusive and constantly puts me down

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - My partner is so different since I caught him out with a lie. We aren't young (both in our 40's) and there should be no grey areas within our relationship. He has lied to me several times about minor things, lied to at least 5 times about bigger ...

My Bf is annoying me with his alarm setting each day. How can I get him to stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - my bf drives me crazy with his alarms in the morning - he sets them 40 minutes before i wake up for work on two different devices - each device goes off once every minute for forty minutes so 80 annoying alarms!!! i wake up in a bad mood as i have...

I prefer staying home to attending his family gatherings! Is this going to be a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - Dear all, I am married to a wonderful guy and yet I've always been a bit of a loner. We always joke that we love being loners together. He comes from a large happy family and they meet every now and then for a huge meal. I have no issues with his ...

Ovarian cyst ruining our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - Hello. I've recently been to the doctors with a medical issue and am awaiting a scan to see if I have a cyst on my ovaries. My scan is in 5 weeks. Me and my boyfriend both have high sex drives except due to the potential cyst it's incredibly painful ...

His sister is so negative, how can we put a stop to this madness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

5 April 2017 (?) - i have been with my current boyfriend for 16 yrs. his sister calls from time to time and when she does she always dumps her problems on him, always negative for as long as i have known her, he gives her advise on how to better her life but she ...

Are these sex dreams my libido trying to tell me something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

5 April 2017 (M) - For the last several months I've been having sexual dreams about people who I've never seen or met, probably not even real. I've told my wife about them because it usually has me being very slick in the way I talk these women into being with me. I'm ...

I don't want to work in the office anymore. But should I tell the agency and end up jobless? what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - Recently I've been feeling down, upset and fed up with my life. I have many things going on and I just can't see life getting better at the moment. I sometimes think that it would be much easier and better being with my mum, since she passed a...

I want to stop comparing my life with others. How do I learn how to slow down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

2 April 2017 (F) - How do I learn how to slow down? I have been with my partner for a long while and we want marriage. But all of my friends are getting married left right and centre and I can't help but want everything at the same time as them and I put all this pre...

I have a tiny group of friends. I find it difficult to bond with people. How can I learn to enjoy life more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - I have a tiny group of friends from school consisting of 3 girls... One of them has had a baby and rarely comes out which I totally understand and I visit her when I can. The other two work or go to uni and tend to go out a bit I found lately ...

I want to release my creativity but fear keeps taking over. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - I want to release my creativity by doing things and possibly making a youtube channel. But every time I attempt any type of art, I overthink it, make it more than what it seems. I let my fears take over and weigh me down. Singing makes me hap...

I don't trust him and I'm worried he'll give me a STD. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - Should I end this relationship? Me and B we were friends for years and I had my boyfriend who I was stable for 4 years and we have a kid, me and him and B lived together for 9 months. One year ago he kissed me and we made love. Before letting ...