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I burst into tears when I saw how my boyfriend lives in squalor, what now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - My 38 year old boyfriend of one year knew I was on my way round. What I saw horrified me. He is living in complete squalor. Dirty filthy conditions I would not put a dog in. He smoothed over it all saying he's busy with work and replacing a chimney ...

I can't deal with regret, how do I fight these thoughts and try to make something worthwhile of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

31 March 2015 (M) - When I was 18-21 I was fairly happy in life , I had a long term gf , started a new career in what I thought was good .. but I still was not sure what I wanted in life . The relationship ended and I lost loads of confidence in myself for the p...

Could we work or remain simply as friendly coworkers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Here's the thing. I live a life in shackles. Every waking day I'm reminded of what I have to live with. I have an illness caused/triggered by a traumatic incident I've experienced. I love my new/current job. My coworkers were s...

I feel at the moment that I'm just not capable of being the right type of person to manage a relationship. Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - In the past I have been in emotionally abusive relationships and had an emotionally abusive parent. As a result I lack self worth and struggle with anxiety and depression. I've been in a relationship for four years and in that time I've done a l...

Do you think I've made the right decision to not attend this wedding, where my Bf will be the Best man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - this may seem like a minor situation but it's stressing me out and im a grad student so extra stress is bad. A few months ago I had a falling out with my ex flatmates who are a couple. My boyfriend took their side which upset me. I posted on herea...

How can I get through this mountain of pressure? A new baby, difficult birth, my mother died unexpectedly and my husbane and my sister have betrayed me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help! Hubby and I have been having marriage problems since the birth of my 2nd child and a difficult pregnancy and long recovery time (8 weeks) from an planned c section which ended up being an emergency as the surgeon made a medical error ...

My fiance never wants to have sex. How can I improve this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My fiance never wants to have sex. I ask him all the time why and he tells me he is extremely self conscious of his penis. He won't let me touch his penis if I try to grab him. I know he loves me but I can't seem to fix this issue. I try to ...

His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our...

Will this age difference be a problem in my new relationship with a co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - I have just entered a relationship with a Co worker. We have both come out of bad relationships in the past. We both love each other and make each other very happy. We are considering moving in together soon. She has a young daughter who I g...

He was my first boyfriend. 11 months together. Then it ended badly. What help would help me deal with all the hurt I feel over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I am struggling so badly, and Ive almost gone to see a psychologist. He was my first boyfriend; he was 26 I was 24. We were together for 11 months. He persued me in the beginning and even though he was t...

How can I calm my sexual urges and lessen my need to think about sex constantly ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I'm a 21 year old female from a religious background and a virgin. I'm not supposed to date or have premarital sex. I'm not even supposed to masturbate but being a human I do anyways. But recently,that hasn't been helping me suppress my sexual ...

How can I overcome this belief that I am ugly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I'm hoping someone can help. I hate how I look in general and there are certain things that I have done to make myself more attractive- I've lost weight, had several facial moles removed, straightened my teeth, had hair extensions, got ...

He only talks to me when he is drunk!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I don't know if I should continue trying or step away. I've known this guy for over 5 years. he is well aware that I like him however there is a huge age gap.which I believe may be the reason why we haven't become anything, nor has he tried mak...

He left because after I had our children he was not attracted to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I'm sitting here pretty emotional tonight. You probably get questions having to do with this subject often, but how can a young woman work on body confidence? When I was only 19 I gave birth to beautiful twin baby girls. I had a normal pregnancy...

Toxic work place? Co-workers underminging me. How can I face them on Monday? How should I behave?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I'd really like some advice. I work with a lady called “X” who i thought i got on well with. We text each other outside of work and i've given her a lift home etc She's older than me so i sort of looked to her as a mother figure in a way. ...

He's really trying to do all the right things. But my jealously is the problem. How can I stop being this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I've had problems in the past with my boyfriend speaking to other girls but in like sexual ways "hey sexy", he was speaking to girls he's slept with in the past, a girl sent him a photo and his reply was "now that is sexy" .. This caused a massive ...

Should I leave him or I find some way to cope with the truth? I have a small behind and he likes a big behind. I can't change that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. In order to understand my question I think it is best if I explain our past in a nutshell. We met in middle school, lost contact, reunited over myspace and began having sex for about 3 months u...

He's trying to get over his gambling problem. Would this be why he is seeming to be so stressed all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - So I've currently been with my husband for 4 years (married Just over a year) and it seems we've hit a patch in our marriage. He goes out most weekends and is gone the whole weekend with his friends. Neither of us make the effort to spend time...

What else? Tried anti-depressants, counselling and contraceptive pill to try to control side affects of heavy periods. Any further suggestions before I see Dr next week?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I have had some great advice on here before relating to periods and anxiety - people suggested fish oil and cutting out caffeine and these have really helped me a lot - as a result I am nowhere near as anxious as I was. However, I won...

My aspergers boyfriend wont have sex with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I am seeking help as I am dating an aspergers male virgin. I have researched various articles and I am trying to understand it more. I have grown up around aspergers/autism as majority of males in my family have it, however dating is different. ...

I'v lost my sex drive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I have experienced something i thought i never will. I am one of those people with a huge appetite for sex and for the last few months i have no desire for it AT ALL. This is how it all started.I had my first sex with the boyfriend i was 5 years in...

How to overcome the sudden void left behind through my decision to have my very loved sick cat euthanized?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I know this is not a relationship question or even a question but right now my world is just in ruins. I have decided to euthanize my baby cat. He was very sick and I did not have the money to make him better. I feel so guilty. I stayed with...

I have insecurities about my weight and shape of my body. How do I overcome them so I can enjoy sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I am 22 years old and have been with my amazing boyfriend for a little over a year. I am embarrassed to say, but I'm a good 40-45 pounds overweight and I'm on the short side, 5'4. I got thick thighs, my stomach is not flat, my boobs have gotte...

My sister's rage is out of control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - Before our studies commenced we had both decided to live together in a two bed flat in the Student Village. I thought it was going to be amazing... But it turns out that she gets angry and violent really, really easily. I have concerns that she's ...

Is there anything we can buy from the health food store that will help maintain an errection?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - What can you take from the health food store that can help a man part stay hard . Can you gave me some names to try that will fix the problem . Hope so. ...

Considering seeing a therapist. How do I find one to address my concerns?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

24 March 2015 (M) - I'm 29 and have never had a girlfriend. I have dated some, but they've been few and far between for the most part. While I have a great, supportive family, hobbies to occupy my spare time, and a few close friends that I like spending time with, I ...

Is this a break-up? Why did he threaten me and say such cruel things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf has told me he has some work related problems, and wanted me never to talk to him anymore. Long story short, he always make mountain out of mole person and he lies often, I don't entirely but his story. Still wanted to be the...

What's the lowdown on the down there hair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - I guess my question is more for the men on DC, but of course I am also interested in women's comments. So : it seems the general consensus , at least among the younger generations, is that a woman SHOULD be hairless down there :the hairless...

I don't know why I even want to save this relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with a person for past 5 years, not engaged thougth. Earlier he used to be fun and nice, now for past couple of months, everything changed. He doesnt talk to me, whenever i initiate any kind of conversation he shuts me out. Te...

When you know all this about them, would YOU leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - Okay so, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. The time has come in which I don't no if I'm happy. The thing is it's easy for people to say well leave. If it was that easy I doubt most marriages would last beyond this time period. ...

I have problems with insecurity and panic if he doesn't text me back sometimes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I have posted on here in the past and got some helpful answers, so here goes! I met a guy about 6 years ago and we kept in touch (long distance I am in the UK and he is in Italy). We always had a connection. Recently we met up again as ...

I need advice please from men who are more experienced re gay sex between men. Not certain re some issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

20 March 2015 (M) - Can I get some advice from any experienced gay men out there? I'm a 20 year old, gay, college man and I just recently started having sex. I've never been the person to want to "hook-up" or have meaningless sex but I've found it really hard t...

He's young, not on medications and he's not a virgin. So why could he not maintain an erection after some caressing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - So I met this great guy at work. he's the nicest man I've ever met. I do enjoy sex, but to me there's definitely way more. He's 25 and I'm 26. If this helps when we worked together it was through a temp agency. So we don't see each other daily...

When can a lady have sex so that she doesn't get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

18 March 2015 (M) - Hello, three days ago, i had sex with mt Gf. after sex she feel pain in stomach and smell coming from urine and discharge flow from vagina and also condom was not used.after she also used unwanted 72(i pill),we both did sex before 3-4 times. due t...

Love, baby daddy drama, a blossoming friendship! What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

17 March 2015 (M) - OK so weve started out as friends I'm 23 she's 21. She does have 2 kids and a baby daddy they're kind of falling out lately he's kind of abusive, verbal, physical etc.lately we've been hanging out and she's been hugging me alot. Sitting closer to ...

How can we make things fun again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - Hi Everyone, My BF and I have been together for 3 years, and the last year has been an LDR (I live on the West Coast, he lives on the East Coast; this happened for work reasons, but we're both hoping he can move here within the next year). ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years already. Everything started in a random way because we used to work together in the same hotel, he in the kitchen and me in the restaurant. He asked me 3 or 4 times to got for some drinks with him but ...

How do I get past this? I keep thinking about the other guys she saw.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Help me please.... what should i do.. . im a guy that has spent 4 and half years with a girl . we were engaged, but had problems with drinking and fighting,issues from past and her 22 year old kid that has caused so much trouble in the family thtat ...

Broke up recently. Have I lost the love of my life? How do I get over this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - I broke up with my ex a month or two ago and recently I've been feeling very sad and melancholy. She was only girlfriend I ever had who I could see myself seriously marrying. We would look at houses and discuss what our kids would look like. She's ...

I'd like to live alone but I'm afraid as well ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - Is living alone at age 21 a bad decision? Basically I'm living in an apartment with my roommate but during the last semester of our senior year at college, she will most likely (if she is accepted) be studying in another state, meaning I will h...

How can I overcome my sexual insecurities about the other guy she had sex with? we are back together after a break and I do love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Hello ! I really need help with this question, because I'm really starting to feel as if I'm falling apart and can't calm myself. I have been with my fiancee for about 5 years, 9 months ago we broke up when I went to work in another town and we d...

How can I get over my strong aversion to having my photo taken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - I dread having my picture taken. When someone pulls out a camera, I usually try to get out of having my picture taken. It's because while at first I sometimes like my pictures, but I'll just sit and stare, and start finding all sorts of little t...

I'm feeling so low with the things that are happening in my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3518 days ago

14 March 2015 (F) - I don't know where to start. I just feel so low. Everything seems to be going wrong at the moment. I am constantly crying. And upset. We moved into our house in November 13. Since then we have had 3 occasions where someone has been onto our back...

No sex with wife since our two year old was born.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

13 March 2015 (M) - Me and my wife had a little girl alomst 2 years ago but since then we have only had sex a handful of times i have tried romantic baths etc. Have spoke to her and dont really get a response as to why we dont have sex anymore just wondering what else ...

I love him, but is that enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - Hello, My partner of 5 years found God 6 months ago and is now a born again Christian. I did post on here a while ago. It was the only thing that stopped him drinking and I'm happy about that. We have not been living together due to his previ...

How can I tell my strict mom I am pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - I found out last week, after nearly two years of desperatelt trying for a baby, that I am five weeks pregnant. I am thrilled...due to medical problems my partner and I had lost hope. My mother, however, is very old school, and dissapproves of having ...

Our "happy family" is not so happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

12 March 2015 (F) - its been 3 months since i moved in with my fiance. we have been dating for 4 years and i have a 1 and half daughter with him. before we moved in ie me and my daughter, we used to see each other every weekend and it was cool. He was living with ...

How can I improve my social skills so that I can hold on to a job and improve my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

11 March 2015 (F) - I am scared what will happen to me as I have no useful skills and no future. I am a social pariah, so out of 100 desperate job applicants you would not pick me. Lucky for me I have a nice family and my mum lets me live in the house, but at 27 I need ...

How often should adults see their friends ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

10 March 2015 (F) - How often should adults see their friends? Especially people over 35 ? Most people are busy with family, work, hobbies etc , life! Not not everyone has kids, some do,some dont.. I read somewhere to maintntain good mental health a person shou...

Do I just stay quiet or do I say something about my brother in law's visits to his ex, for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

10 March 2015 (M) - My brother in law keeps going over to sleep with his ex. I don't know what to say to get through to him! She is trouble, which is putting it lightly, and he only goes over to her after he's been drinking. He acts as if this is just a booty call, ...