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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Should I just try to play it down, make fun of it, blame it on being drunk and try to keep some of my dignity? Or should I try to be honest and say I put a little more feeling into all this than her, even if that will make things awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - On saturday I went to my best friends place, she's a very attractive woman, she's straight and has a boyfriend, but she knows I'm bisexual and single. We got drunk and I already felt like she was flirting. Then we went to a party and she started to ...

Should I pursue this or drop the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Oh man this is a rough one. I hope someone can steer me in a better way of thinking! My current girlfriend, whom I have been seeing roughly 6 weeks messed up majorly. Now don't get me wrong, I really do love her. It was an instant feeling, and it ...

My man's mega spend on liquor. How can I address this casually while still voicing my concerns?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My husband enjoys drinking beer and will have 3 cans most nights and more on the weekend. I have just discovered the supermarket has an offer on and he has went and bulk bought spending almost £350 on beer. I'm quite alarmed to the point of sic...

How can I get out of this rut? And How can you like someone when you don't really know him, and when you can't speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hiya Im not really sure what answers Im looking for but Ill try and make some sense! Im nearly 21 and Ive never had a boyfriend, kissed a boy etc. I'm also overweight but am in the progress of losing weight :) I feel constantly like I'm...

My partner says I'm too heavy for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - We cannot have sexual intercouse because my female partner has told me that I am too heavy for her. What is the best way to lose weight? Is it a good idea for me to go to the gym? Has this been a common problem for other couples when hav...

What are the best options for me, if I don't want more children? I do want to get back to dating and put my life back together. What if my soul mate wanted children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I thought about getting back into the dating scene but I might meet the guy of my dreams my soul mate but I don't want to have anymore children. I have three and I have experienced a hard time with their fathers. My oldest daughter and son share th...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

Would it be wrong to date my cousin's ex boyfriend?

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30 March 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to date your cousins ex boyfriend? They have 2 children together. I dont feel like its wrong but i am worried about what my family will think... My cousin's ex is doing really good for himself now has a good job and takes really goo...

How do I approach my girlfriend about losing weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - In the 3 years we have been together my GF has been slowly letting herself go physically to the point where I no longer find her attractive. When we met in college, she was more physically active on a daily basis but now she has an office job wh...

If he refuses to give it up his drinking and his abuse, then would I be right to leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend drinks of a weekend...not a problem but when he has a drink he either turns nasty and sometimes violent or the complete opposite...he stinks of beer and i hate it! we are arguing about this issue constantly, his reply to me 'nagging...

How can I get over my insecurities regarding my body weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - How can I get over my self-consciousness? I'm 20 years old, have dated a few guys in the past, but things didn't work for various reasons, most being that I just didn't "click" with them. Now, I'm overweight. In person, I have thick thighs and ...

Is boyfriend's behavior common for a depressed person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Okay so it's been a while since I last posted but just a quick back ground on my relationship. I've been with my bf/ fiancee for two years 3 months ( we got engaged about a year ago) we have a one yr old daughter and I'm currently 8 1/2 months ...

Life is short! Enjoy it and don't have regrets!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - My uncle was recently diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. It wasn't until this enormous wake up call that I realized how valuable life truly is. So many people, including myself, are merely existing on this Earth...just doing everything they can to ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

What can I do to attract girls and still be fun to be around despite my life choices?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I don't drink, smoke nor enjoy going out, this makes me boring to a lot of girls. I have no desire to do any of those activities. So what can a guy like me do to attract girls and still be fun to be around despite my life choices? ...

How can I help my boyfriend and get him to open up about what is troubling him? Or does he need some more support than I can offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Well I'm back together with my long distance boyfriend and everything was great, or so I thought. Lately he's been slowly going back into his old habits we talk less almost not at all and when I do talk to him his responses would be "i don't know" ...

I feel like I have no other choice. He's unwilling to change. What can I do to salvage this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I dont know what I can do to salvage our relationship. I have been in this relationship for 6 years now. At the beginning everything was great. Then we took the next step and I moved 5 hours away to live with him and his 5yr old daughter. Things...

Completely hung up on my ex, how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - So for the last few years I've been pretty hung up on my ex (let's call her Kate). I haven't spoken to her since we broke up over 3 years ago, but I can't get her out of my head, even now. I have a girl I'm seeing now (let's call her Amy) and she...

I confessed to my fiancee about cheating before our engagement, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - Hello everyone. First off I just want to start off with that I suffer and have been diagnosed with Pure-O (Purely Obsessional OCD). I am currently engaged to the love of life and we are about to get married in a few months. However, just less than ...

I'm 20 and I've never had a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - I know that this is the really long, depressing kind of question which has been asked hundreds of times, but I'm feeling pretty crap and i'd really like some advice. I'm 20 years old and I have never had a girlfriend, i've been on one date with thr...

I keep pushing men away. I don't know why!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hello! Please help me. I keep pushing men away. I don't know why.... It's stressing me out. Every guy I meet I look for reasons why they are not right. I date them but don't let myself sleep with them. I constantly look for reasons why they are not ...

Fiance not into me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship ...

I've gone from being madly in love with her to wishing our relationship were over. Break up or stay? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - I'm in a long term relationship with my girlfriend (4 1/2 years). I have two kids (13/12) from a previous marriage. The kids live with me. About one year ago my girlfriend moved in with us. We had some problems during these 4 1/2 years. She woul...

Should I leave my alcoholic boyfriend? At times he blacked out and acted evil.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend Max and I have dated for seven months. I thought he was the "one." He was always very attentive, we have wonderful fun together and we spend lots of itme together. As the relationship progressed I noticed that each time we went out to ...

I'm worried that my partner may have ADHD so how can I address this? Should I ask him or get him to see a Doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - modnote: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_deficit_hyperactivity_disorder Hi there, I hope you can help!! My boyfriend and I have only been together a few months, but I have noticed a few things which are already starting to put pressure...

My Mom only wanted to help. Now my Dad has been diagnosed with sleep apnoea she feels she's ruined his life. What can be done to make this better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Help my dad has been diagnosed with border line sleep apnoea. My mom made him get checked out as he would stop breathing in the night. Now he has to wear a mask in bed for the rest of his life. My mom is upset and feels my dad hates her for it....

Why am I stalling about moving to his country? Could it be that I have some resentment about the fact he gave me three STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in limbo and need your help. I've been dating my man for almost 2 years and we have an incredible connection, love each other deeply and have developed an open and trusting relationship. However, it wasn't always that...

I loved the first brother, but he disappeared and has just now returned. Meanwhile I fell in love with his brother. Should I walk away from both of them?

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24 March 2013 (F) - I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance...

Why would my man choose to have fake Facebook pages? He gets angry with me. I'm troubled by why he does this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I just got married last year but we had a long relationship before that. We are expecting our first child and everything seems to be great. The only thing I just can’t understand about him is that he keeps having fake Facebook acc...

This is my story of our relationship with NO love, only hate but no divorce/separation ? WHAT can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

23 March 2013 (M) - She doesn't love her husband anymore. She has two children in their early teens. Children at that age, sense that something is wrong. Their mother knows that and won't agree to separation and/or divorce as it may affect the children, emotionally,...

Has my well endowed ex left me less appealing to the next man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have been in a relationship with this guy for many years until we broke it off in 2003. I haven't had sex since, he was very endowed and I was wondering has my 'gift' lost its shape. I want to start dating and I want be be nice and...

Am I asking too much of people? I want to stay the way I am but I want to be valued as myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - This is the most craziest question to ever find on a love advice column... Right... I’ve loved Bollywood, bindis, mendhi tattoos, especially the jewellery and fashion and I love the karma sutra and their beliefs since I was a small girl. I try...

Should I leave him? I can't get the bad memories out of my head!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I don't know if I should leave my boyfriend of almost 4 years over this... (This is going to be long but please bear with me!!!) When we first started dating I was struggling very much with a deep depression and self-esteem issues brought on by my...

Are online conception date calendars accurate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - Conception date. Are online conception date calendars accurate? I want to be sure. Can anyone help pls. I had a dating scan and a due date of 26th Sept 2013. With this info i got a conception date of somewhere between 31 Dec - 2nd Jan 2013. Would th...

My boyfriend told me he isn't himself around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I know this is long, but please take the time to read! :) My boyfriend of 3 years and I are both 18. We both put everything into our relationship and have always had respect for each other. Anyways, he hasn't been getting very good sleep latel...

Pre-occupied with the fear that I might have HPV

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Hi there, Hmm I don’t know how to start this off it is probably going to sound crazy, but anyway when I was younger I went off of the rails I suppose and was incredibly naïve, so much so I ended up having unprotected sex with two rather questiona...

Am I her last option? Am I making a wise decision to marry her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

21 March 2013 (M) - This is going to be a long one. Please take time to read and help me. I recently started dating my best friend's sister. She had two past relationship, I was a virgin and she is my first. She told most of her past, hearing it all made me cringe a...

I'm uncomfortable with people looking at me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Why do they keep looking at me? I don't understand? So I signed up for the gym a few months ago and diet to help with my self confidence and I've lost a lot weight, toned. Uk size 10 but still curvy with big boobs. I've noticed that the guy...

His snoring is keeping me from enjoying our bed with him and he has given up on his appearance. How do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - Hi, am 5 yrs into marraige and my husband started balding 2 yeses after our marraige. He also snores badly tht its difficult for me to sleep next to him. And fr so many years I have been trying to tell him tht he should do something about it. But he ...

How do I get someone I care about to stop smoking?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - I need some serious help. I feel like such a terrible person because I can't control my own emotions. Recently my friend started smoking and its crushed me, I've cried everyday since, just knowing he does it upsets me and I'd give anything in...

How do you break up when you live together? How could I try and make our relationship better? Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, but I have been not very happy in our relationship for a few months. I suffer from depression and feel very angry and sad a lot of the time, and my partner is the one who has to deal with it. ...

My mom has been talking about wanting to see me happy with someone and have a child, which makes me feel conflicted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - Lately I've started to wonder if something is wrong with me. I'm 25 and I've never had a boyfriend. From the way things are looking now I'll probably never have any kids either. As a child and a teen I was bullied a lot, which made me very wary of ...

I'm unhappy with the lack of support from my g/f. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

19 March 2013 (M) - Hey guys, My father is suffering from some serious medical issues that came up suddenly and there is a chance that he may not ever come out the same again. He is in the hospital and has been for a month, and we're not sure how long he'll be th...

Is our relationship breaking apart? I am questioning whether he loves me anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been with my fiance for almost 3 years now and things have been very bad for almost 2 years. The first year of our relationship was amazing but now it is nearly 2 years of him not treating me right and then apologising and ...

Am I slow to develop? Because I have no desire to sleep around and l would much rather have a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

18 March 2013 (M) - I am maturing at a very slow pace. I have never kissed a girl and i don't drink or go out. I know people younger than me who are engaging in sexual behaviour and it makes me feel like a child despite being older. I know who I am and I am working...

Guys, would it be selfish to get in touch with him to apologize for the things I'm sorry I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - I would really be interested if any guys could answer this one, I was seeing a man on and off for a few months, and he made it clear he was unable to commit any further than a casual relationship. I have children, he does not, and he continua...

My best friend, who has a long history of mental health problems and low self-esteem/anorexia, is claiming to be in love with a guy in his 40s who she hardly knows (who has a girlfriend) although she can't explain what she likes about him when I ask

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4246 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - My best friend, who has a long history of mental health problems and low self-esteem/anorexia, is claiming to be in love with a guy in his 40s who she hardly knows (who has a girlfriend) although she can't explain what she likes about him when I ask ...

How to deal with being completely alone...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - That's basically my situation. I feel like I pretty much have nobody. I'm sure it's partly my fault, but there are other factors that make it difficult for me to really get out there and socialize. For one, I don't even have a car right now (and ...

After birth complications and a c section, my wife has problems enjoying sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - I am 24 and my wife is 26 we have a baby 5 months ago ( Tried normal delivery but she had to have a c section). She had a few complications with pregnancy like high blood pressure, high blood sugar and several uti but the baby was. Healthy. He was ...