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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

GF has mood swings. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Okay well im 18 and me and my last gf dated 2 years and my current gf and me have been dating around 2 years...so its not my first rodeo....but to my question..my gf and me are generally very happy with each other but lately there are days were she ...

I feel so empty and lost. Has anyone ever felt this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I feel so numb lately, I spent the last 25 years of my life i am twenty, pleasing people, and living up to other peoples expectations. After i got out of my emotionally abusive relationship of five years, and finished my masters I FEEL worse.. ...

My shoes smell badlyy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I'm embarrassed to ask this on a public website but at the same time, I'm thankful for the anonymity of the Internet. This isn't a relationship question, by the way, but it's REALLY bothering me. I'm not cochina (dirty), and I try to keep clea...

No one knows how unhappy I am. I'd appreciate some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have been feeling very lonely and upset lately. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and everything is fine with him, but in the last while I have become really self conscious about how I look and I feel really awkward around people. I think that people ...

I think I have an eating disorder. It's making me miserable. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hi, i know this site is mainly about advice on relationships but mine is slightly different and i would really appreciate the help on this... ok, so i am worried in case i have an eating disorder. I am constantly thinking about my weight as in an...

Women--ever had an orgasm when you needed to relieve yourself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Women of all ages.. have you ever had... an orgasm while your bladder was desparate for you to relieve itself? (and your man, was right inside you at the time)? it seems to me that you couldnt relax to orgasm, while you are holding back the...

Embarrassing birthmarks.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - does anyone happen to have a birthmark at certain part of their body where they wouldn't want it to be? i have a strawberry red birthmark on my upper chest, bit lower the neck, and people always mistook it as a hickey. because of the location, it's ...

My girlfriend wont go to the doctor about a potential STD! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - my gf about 6 months ago had sex with another man during our break up and just now she notced red bumps on her breast where this other guy had licked before and she thinks it could be an STD the bumps are itchy and no pain and she won't go to the ...

My depression ruins all my relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi ,I've had anxiety and depression ,my entire life... Every relationship I've ever been in ,I've pushed the guy away with my worrying, flip outs and not feeling good enough... And right now the best guy I was ever with just broke up with me ...

I'm so confused and I feel so stuck. I need any advice I can get!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently got out of an abusive relationship. As soon as it turned abusive I left for the safety of myself AND our 1yr old son. For about 6 months I have been seeing someone else. The guy is actually one of my best friends. I've known him for ye...

My boyfriend masturbates while I'm sleeping!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Recently i have been waking up to my boyfriend masturbating beside me in bed, he obviously thinks im asleep, and if i move he quickly stops and waits, checks to see if im still sleeping then carries on, and at the end im not sure if he is completely ...

This LDR makes me feel terrible about myself, but I can't quit it. Why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi This is continuation of question "LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"" I begged my bf not to choose a call girl over me and my love, which he refused. I feel really disgusted...

She doesn't want me. I don't know how to cope with this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - I love her a lot. But she's not trying to understand me. I was the one who proposed to her first. But she told me that, she can't see me like that. She was in love with a another guy. But it broke up due to some reasons. I can't forget her. Her ...

The thought of having sex scares me. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old and I am pretty sure I could live without sex. I am a bit concerned as to whether it is normal that I don't want to have sex, or do anything sexual pretty much. I've had a very good upbringing, liberal parents and I'm studying well ...

My G/f has fallen for a much younger man,lies to me about meeting him and she has an alcohol problem. I don't know how much more of this I can take....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 March 2011 (?) - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I love her very much and she says she loves me too. She has a bit of an alcohol problem, not an alcoholic, she just gets pretty weird after a few glasses of wine, bit mad really. Times have bee...

I don't want to overeact and ruin this relationship, but I am having a hard time trusting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. The last time I slept with my boyfriend he gave me a yeast infection and now I am finding my self getting tested for all std's. I am finding so many inscurities rising to the surface as I think he also has given ...

Preventing razor burn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - So I can't shave my vagina without it getting bumps or razor burn. It's not like I'm having sex or anything I just don't like the razor burn. Is there anyway to help it? (And i have tried soap and shaving cream already)...

How am I ever going to have sex if fingering hurts so much?

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29 March 2011 (F) - I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. However, I have been sort of getting together with this guy who is attracted to me and I'm attracted to him, even though we aren't dating. It's not a big deal to me. It's just for the fun of it. Anyw...

Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl who is a virgin, but last week I was fingered by a guy I actually really like. He was gentle and he understood that I was a Virgin and that I really had no idea about what it was I was supposed to do, but the weird thing is - ...

Help with premature ejaculation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - WHILE HAVING SEX MINE EJACULATES WITHIN 2 SECONDS AND I CANNOT SATISFY MY WIFE. PLEASE ADVISE ME FOR IMPROVEMENT...

Is HPV a major cause for concern?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a few questions regarding HPV... Obviously any sort of virus is a cause for concern, but it seems recently HPV has been talked about heavily, especially for and by women. I recently saw an ad on the TV for some drug for women a...

I'm having pain after sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a rather embarassing question to ask. On friday night my husband and I had sex that seemed to last a long time, maybe over an hour or more. We did have foreplay so when we went to have intercourse I would be ready. Well anyw...

Does anyone know if hypnosis, or any other sort of alternative therapy works for self acceptance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - How can I accept myself? It seems so difficult. I like my personality, my brains... I just don't like my looks. And sadly, appearance is the most obvious part of a person. I feel like I'm never thin, despite being at a normal weight, I still get ...

Would any boyfriend stand seeing his girlfriend with facial hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I'm 22 now and i've had this problem since I was 14. Unfortunately, when the hair started to grow very light, i didn't know that tweazing and waxing it would make it worst. Now, i'm at the point where i shave almost everyday (and if i skip a day,...

I'm only 31, but I feel too old to attract a man. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Yesterday, someone commented that I appear to be five years older than I really am, and I've been feeling depressed ever since. It might seem like I'm overreacting but there are underlying feelings and this just made me feel even worse. An ...

Please help me with my shyness before I scare another girl away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I have a very common but big problem. What I wonder is How do I get a girlfriend? I know it's a bit hard to answer but here's the thing; around girls I like I get nervous. So nervous I can barely talk. I get very annoying and silly which then ...

I don't know how to overcome my fear of giving presentations.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I've recently posted questions on here about doing presentations and some people gave some advice saying that I need to make sure that I am prepared and everything however I don't think this is the problem. Weeks before the presentation I get real...

My best friend and I have had sex with the same guys, she tested positive for an STD but I didnt, how does this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My best friend and I have sex with the same guys (threesome). She recently was tested positive for chlmydia. I freaked out and got tested too but my results were negative. How can this be? Has anyone ever had an std and been through a similiar ...

Why do I look smaller when I'm the same size?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am a petite girl with a large chest. I've always thought I was a 32DD but when I got measured the other day I was told that I'm a 30FF. Why is it that other women who are a 34FF or 36FF have really huge breasts but mine aren't as huge as theirs ...

I like a boy that seems depressed. Should I keep after him, or is that not a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Okay so I have been texting this boy and we have never spoken in person but a little wave in the halls of my high school. He wants to hang out with me but it never ends up happening. He's very flirty with me on text but he's very very shy. We were ...

I can't have sex for a month, but my husband is desperate. How can I satisfy him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - recently i got a surgery but my doctor told me I cannot have sex for a month, but my husband is desperate for sex, so any recomend that he can reduce his sexual desire, or any pill or herb that he can take it while I am Okay again. thanks for any ...

I hate my body! He says I'm beautiful, but I don't believe him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I hate my body? I despise it that I find I am crying over it now! This guy says he is falling in love with me, and he hasn't even seen my body and says he doesn't mind my curves and that he thinks I am beautiful and never met anyone like me...

Should I shave my pubic hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - [Mod note: Combined two questions] i was talking to my male friend who said that girls should only have hair on their head, arms and eyes/brows. the problem is i have pubic hair, i am 13 nearly 14, should i be shaving ? i am really scared to shave...

He has a perfect body and I'm insecure about mine.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I think it would be best if I just ... got straight into it. I am a virgin, and nothing is changing that anytime soon - not even my boyfriend (regardless of how he stands on the subject). However, I do believe that considering my m...

I've not had sex, but I think I have an STI! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

26 March 2011 (M) - I am only 13 years old, I have never had sex or done anything sexual apart from masturbating but I have an sti! I don't know what to do and I'm to embarrassed to tell my parents what should I do?...

Was the orgasm a one-off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I'm wondering if I had my 1st orgasm . During intercourse last night I became really flushed and a tingling sensation in my vagina spread up my body.It was so pleasurable I had to release quite a long moan. Although I've heard you'll know if you h...

Do I have Postnatal depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - About 1month before i gave birth to my daughter who is now 10months old i havent been feeling the happyest just feeling down and the smallest things like dropping a glass will get me really worked up and ill just break down in tears, so my question ...

Boyfriend so depressed, I'm worried

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Hey, I have a peculiar situation. I am doing long distance for now. We've been together for almost three years now (not all of it ong distance) but recently, everytime I go back home, or he goes back home, my boyfriend gets extremley upset. H...

Still feel drawn toward a bad-news ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - I cannot stop loveing her its consumeing me. Ive posted about this before but things have changed and i need some more help. To anyone reading this i thank you just for takeing the time. Five years ago i began a relationship with a girl three y...

My father died of AIDS and now I'm terrified of being in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Dear response, since losing my father back in 2006, to AIDS, I fear engaging myself into any relationship, and this has killed all my feelings deep within my soul, and I end up thinking that may be I may catch the disease which I so much dread, ...

What are top tried and tested ways to tell our families that I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 3 years. He lived 2+ hrs away but he moved in with him aunt and her husband when were positive we wanted to be together. We have know each other since I was born since I'm 17 and he's 20. I'm grad...

Getting over an ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - 1. First, put yourself in the opposite position: If YOU didn't want to be with someone, and let him or her know it, what would you expect the other person to do? Hopefully let go, and move on with dignity. 2. The biggest "cure all" every time ...

My agressive partner ran away with my mother, now they have split up I miss him loads.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - My ex was aggresive and suffered with depression and alchol problems! we had a very on off relationship and have a daughter together! Our relationship was fine until i was about 6 months preganant. Then he started smashing up the house, shouting at ...

Frequent erections.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

24 March 2011 (M) - Hi i have frequent erections. when alone ,talking to a lady or when sleepy.ma dick is not that big and long.pls do i have a problem? ...

Will my body issues turn my fling off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - So I'm kinda worried right now. I have this fling ( we were on a no commitment zone) and we were planning to get into the sack after his vacation next month. Although we've seen each other in person, this will be our first sexual experience. The...

Would I freak my friends out if I asked them this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

24 March 2011 (M) - Well i am guy and ive recently gotten in interest in getting in shape. I have friends who are ripped and have six packs and everything and ive always wondered how it feels like to have one. Im not gay or anything but I just want to know what having ...

I will always love my ex. But should I try to move on now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I met the most amazing guy three years ago and fell hard for him. He was my soulmate if there is such a thing. I felt like I knew him all my life and he was everything I ever wanted. We broke up because of his drug problem two years ago. We sti...

He's gone back to his country. I am pregnant. Should I tell off my abusive ex or stay a lady ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hi I am a 27 year old female. My abusive boyfriend has just ended our relationship. I don't know why he left me I guess I blame myself because I was jealous, but he lied about the computer and talking to other women on porn sites. He hurt me, then...

I am always angry and depressed and need help controlling this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - needing help My stress levels are increasing i am really agitated and get angry at the slightest thing going wrong i dont know what to do as i dont want it harming my health and my relationship with my boyfriend as i am taking my anger and depres...

Do all girls shave, down there? what bits need shaving? What styles are there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, Apparently girls should shave their pubic hair, so I did, however I'm not sure where you actually shave. Say you stood naked infront of a mirror, all the hair you can see - that's what I shaved. Is that right or do you need to shav...