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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad ...

My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them ...

Once I was accused of rape and it proved to be a lie! I am afraid it can happen again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - I just need some reassurance because i am worrying really. When i was 11 in school, we went on a week long residential trip to wales, half way through the week, a person i thought was a friend, she was also 11 accused me of raping her. it got found ...

Anyone know what could be wrong with my jaw?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - ive not been able to get an appointment at the doctors recently so i wondered if any1 on here could help on giving advice about what they think about my problem.. its more of a health problem so apologies for the wrong context being used on the ...

Health question! Do you know what could be wrong with my knees?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - hey all. this isnt a relationship question but i just wondered if anyone can help me... as i have been trying to get a doctors appointment for over a week now without any luck. with my doctors you can only make an appointment on the morning of the ...

Are my braces to blame for me not getting dates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Are guys afraid of braces? Seriously, I have never dated and I want to know if it's something to do with me or if guys are afraid to date me just because I have braces. ...

I want to lose weight and not put it back on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - hey, Im sixe 16/18 with lots of flab everywhere and im really looking to drop down to a size 12 but i really want to do it HEALTHILY. Ive looked on loads of different websites but I cant find one that not about taking some pills or doing somethin...

Long Read - My boyfriend's drug problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I don't like feeling so torn, and I tried to mentally prepare for this to not happen, but it happened. My ex was in a bad place in his life when we met. He tried to make it seem like he was not, but it soon became obvious to me that he had not ...

Sex is not as much fun for me as it is for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really ...

Smelly vagina. How can I keep this smell away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Why does my Flower smell badly sometimes like something is rotten inside. Im 25 Years old. But then other days it doesnt have a smell at all? Could it be if i use tampons that is making the smell? Because 2weeks ago when my period started the first ...

I have had an accident long ago that has scarred my face and can now not get guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a very sensitive issue for me to discuss with you. I have had an accident long ago that has scarred my face, I still have good features, but it's not the same. Because of this, I cannot get the guys I want and deserve. And to be honest...

Can use of the pill make me skip my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Hi - I've just been given microgynon 30 by my doctor and was told I could start taking it straight away... (I'm on day 8 of my cycle). The only thing is that I'm off on holiday in 3 weeks and don't want a my period to come while I'm away... can i ...

My labia is uneven. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My labia is uneven, as in one side is pretty large, and the other side is small and tight. Is this a huge turn off for guys? Is there something very wrong with me?...

How important is having hair to being attractive to women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

28 January 2010 (?) - After all these years of having sex I finally got to where penis size is not an issue. It's actually very funny to me now. Now I have a whole new body image issue. I'm losing my hair. I'm getting the sex I just dreamed of when I was 18 because ...

I'm thinking of using hair removal cream for my pubic area.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - im thinking of using hair removal cream for my pubic area. any advice? any brand suggestions? should i use it on my scrotum also?...

We have unprotected sex a lot, but I don't fall pregnant

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have sex a lot and he doesn't pull out. He never does. But I still don't get pregnant. and I don't take birth control or anything. Is this something I should worry about?...

My boyfriend has told me many things that have made me feel so bad about my body.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - What can I do? My boyfriend has told me many things that have made me feel so bad about my body. In his mind, he's just being honest and blunt, but in the end "it doesn't matter, because I LOVE you!" - like it was a magical phrase to make me feel ...

I feel ashamed of my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone i need advice and i would really appreciate it even though this is not a relationship qustion ...... I need advice on how to lose about 7 seven inches off of my waistline right now my measurements are 40ddd 36waist 44 bottom ive been ...

Can high blood pressure medication change someone's personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Can high blood pressure medication change someone's personality? When my boyfriend doesn't takes his, he is awful! His combative personality almost destroyed our relationship early on, then his doctor switched his BP meds and magically he mellowed ...

My good friend is sick and is taking out her mood on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I think i have done the wrong thing with a friend and am afraid of how she thinks of me now. sorry its long.. My good friend ( friend only!) is sick at the moment with headaches and back pain, she sleeps a lot and isnt able to work much,...

I have been having sex for a couple months now and now she's been having stomach problems.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Hi my girlfriend and I have been having sex for a couple months now and now she's been having stomach problems that she's never experienced before, but she doesn't have any of the other pregnantcy symptoms and I was just hoping someone could he...

I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...

My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me. How can I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating this girl since August, but recently she built up the courage to call me and tell me how back in November, she got very drunk and accidentally slept with this guy. She was all in tears about it, and she truly seemed like she was ...

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...

I was raped and need advice on what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...

Are these symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - First im 39 years old. 2nd I have my days at the first week of this month. It last 3 days and it look's like normal days like other womens. Now! The end of month is soon to come. Since a week ago my nipple is a bit pain specially when i touch it? Im ...

Something I can take to make my period end faster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm on period, and well, I'm on birth control. However up until a couple of weeks ago I was working long shifts which meant I had to take my pills on different times each day. So the thing is, I started spotting like a week before my actual period ...

Mothers medical conditions! need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I'm asking this for my mum,(aged 57) she wants to know why she is getting 'hot suddenly' she's had her menopause 7 years ago ...the heat comes up suddenly and lasts for about an hour, makes her sweat and only slighty cools when ...

I want plastic surgery to 'fix' my breasts, but I'm lacking in funds! Do I have to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm 19 years old and I've been struggling with having underdeveloped breasts since i was 12. I've researched it a little bit and I'm pretty sure that i have hypo-plastic breasts. I really just want to be normal like every other teenage girl. I know ...

Have any of you ladies out there been pregnant while on an SSRI (anti-depressant)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hello everyone - I am hoping some of the folks here can give me some good advice. I am in my mid thirties and my husband is in his early forties. We have a great relationship and are like best friends. Of course, there is a problem or I wouldn't ...

Sometimes I just feel that I want to escape from everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hey. I'd like to know if anyone else feels this way. I wouldn't say I'm depressed but I definately get moments where I feel pretty down. There's nothing bad about my life. I just go through rough patches like everyone does. I don't like change a...

My boyfriend of two years is an alcoholic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of two years is an alcoholic. he use to smoke pot on a daily basis. after we started dating he quit because i didn't approve. i have accepted his drinking because he doesn't do the pot anymore. he has been clean of it for over a ...

She blames me for having HPV.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - So this is kind of a unique situation...My ex girlfriend who I love with all my heart had cancer a few years back and it was very intense for her life and overall emotional state. It is something she would never want to go through again. Initially ...

I'm feeling confused about our relationship: I like having him around but I cant deal with his mood swings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi I have been seeing my b/f for around 15 months. In that time he has been moody at times (as most people can be). Last week though, after booking a short break abroad he rang the next day to say cancel as he was feeling unhappy in himse...

Obsessed with my wife's past...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

26 January 2010 (?) - I have been married to my wife for 14 years,we have three children and on the whole we are happy. I was 19 when i met my wife and she was 23 and we got married two years later. Before i met her i'd only slept with one other woman and my wife tells ...

I took the doctor's advise but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were young,and started to have sex in August last year, I'm on the pill and for medical reasons the doctor told me to miss my 7 day break last month, although this month I can go on my 7 day break, I ...

I need tips on IUDs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - My college offers free IUD placement (paraguard) for students. I've been wanting an IUD for awhile now, but I'm terrified it will hurt a lot. Does anyone have any tips for when to go so it will hurt less, or how much it hurt or anything? I feel like ...

How do I get my reputation back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I went back to a guys house, something I never do. I was so unbelieveably drunk and just out of a really bad relationship that lasted 4 years and was so intoxicated. I blanked out for 6 hours. He is 15 years older than me. It was akward after we ...

Until what age can a woman elarge her breasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi friends of Forum, My interest lies on finding out until when (age) can a woman enlarge her breast with hormonal treatments ? A joyous reply is forehanded for the best and truthful answer !...

Foreskin doesn't pull back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Hello everyone :) i need sum advice. The problem is when i get hard my foreskin doesnt pull all the way back and am worried there is sumthin wrong with me. I havent lost my virginity yet and am 18 so i just need to be told whether i have a problem ...

Is it normal to feel like peeing during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) - While having sex, i have this great urge of peeing.. is it normal? Never had orgasm before, so was wonderin if tat might hinder it.. thanks...

Have a rocky relationship with my girlfriend who does heroin and I don't want to lose her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My question is most likely a little to big for this forum... My girlfriend and I love eachother very much. We have been dating for a little over a 3 years. We took a break about a year and a half ago for the summer because we were just getting ...

Still bleeding after having sex 3 times and bleeding lasts 1/2 a day! whats going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I am just wondering if it is normal for a girl to still be bleeding after the 3rd time you've had sex with a guy? This is the 2nd guy I have been with. The 1st guy I was with for 2years and I didn't bleed my first time. Now he (the 1st...

I never want to kiss my hubby anymore, could this be because of the pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi guyz,i hav a problem;since i got married(3 months ago),my urge 4 kissing has completely gone,i never want 2 kiss my hubby anymore for no aparent reason.am confused since before we got maried i used 2 love his kisses.could it be the contraceptives ...

My hubby treats me like dirt, is his behaviour right, doesn't he love me anymore??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hello everybody. i ill apriciate it, if Men and Women answerd me please . im very confused well see my husband tells me im sick and tired of you i need my space i have no privacy i want to be single i can afford to live on my own. a couple of hears ...

The boy I love has to have an operation with only a 50% chance of survival, have I just said goodbye to him forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I`ve been a bit upset and worried, the boy i love has to have an operation on his head and the doctors said that there is a 50% chance he will live and a 50% chance he will die. He is beginning to say goodbye to me and he asked me to marry him. He ...

I've got itchy balls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - what does it mean if my balls itch but theres no spots there is it herpes?...

Can low testosterone/depression make you think you no longer love your partner?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Following extensive cancer treatment (testicular) including chemo and surgery my H (age 39) has now been told he has low testosterone althouygh his last reading was 10 and his LH levels were up. 10 apparantly was considered normal even though he has ...

I had my navel pierced, can I have sex during the healing procedures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - i just had my navel pierced an was wondering if i could have sex during healin proceedures and if i should put something on it if i do have sex like a plaster or something ...

I don't want to hurt this lovely girl who is crazy about me...but I cant forget my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - a few years ago i broke up with the love of my life, and meet a lovely girl within weeks. i chased my ex for over a year and finally we got back together. during this time i was seriusly ill and told my ex to leave me cause she was too young to deal ...