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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

19, I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I am now 19 years and I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. I also consulted a doctor who checked my hormone that appeared to be normal. Whats my problem and how can I solve it? ...

I am still not comfortable with anyone touching me or any sexual contact after a teacher's harassement! What to do to get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 13 and when i was 12 there were about 6 or 7 boys who liked me and kept asking if i'd wanted to go out with or sometimes they asked if i would be their girlfriend but everytime i refused cause i wasn't ready for that kind of thing, at times ...

What if I forget to take the Pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

30 January 2008 (?) - okay stupid question really but i need to know. Okay so if you forget to take the pill for a couple of days, you're not protected for 7 days yeah? soo you're supposed to take a pregnancy test, what 4 days before your period is due? but what...

I'd like to find that special person, but paradoxically... I'm scared, after my last relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - This is the third question I've posted. I was in a four year relationship which ended nearly 2 years ago. I'm basically over it...but it's taken me THAT long. I believe I've really grown. The only thing is, I've noticed something really strange ...

How do I let my girlfriend know I'm not comfortable with her smoking Marijuana?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Personally I choose not to smoke marijuana, but my girlfriend does it and she knows i wont do it so she does it behind my back. She does it once every couple of weeks, and although most argue there is nothing wrong with the substance itself, i just ...

Should I grow my hair long?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I am thinking of growing my hair long. i am a ginger 13 YR old boy and have been told by my classmates that i would not suit long hair. i still want to grow it though. they say that gingers cant have long hair. i am also wondering what style i ...

Mothers.. When should I stop breastfeeding my child?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - At what age should I stop breast feeding my child? I'm about to be a new mom, and some have told me 3 months, others have told me 3 years. I just want some honest opinions from women who have already had children and weaned them. Thanks for any...

I'll be devastated if I lose her. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My wife of 3.5 years has just left after a fight and said she needed some time and space. I have been fighting depression for some few years now and did not know it until last week when I saw a psychiatrist. I have been verbally abusive to her and ...

Can I go on and off the Pill, and still be safe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Ok, I have a problem!! I am in a long distances relationship. and I only get 2 see him like every 2 or 3 weeks maybe longer! We don't have sex every time we see each other, but most of the time we do! We use condoms EVERY TIME! But, I wanna go on ...

What is a good diet to loose weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hey My Boyfriend And I Have An 'Intimate' Relationship... However I Feel Self Consious About My Tummy. I Am Not OverWeight Like Loads But I Am Not A Szie 6 Either :( I Have Been Thinking About Going On A Diet Of Rice Crackers (( You Know The...

Info about birth contol pills, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - If I take a pregnancy test while on the pill, does it come back positive because of the hormones in your blood from the pill?? Or, can I take one and get an accurate reading?...

My vagina is too tight, sex is painful. How can I fix that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - My ex recently told all my friends how "tight" I was. unfortunatly he's right. What can I do to stop being so tight? Sex is really painful, and its really starting to make me depressed....

An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...

Does pregnancy cause a smelly vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant, and my vagina smells really bad every day, it sweats a lot more than it used to (I don't remember it ever sweating before). I will shower daily, and wash and rinse 3 different times with soap and hot water. But by that ...

Happily married with a future in front of us...but I feel like I'm stuck in a rut.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I feel like I'm stuck in a rut. I'm happily married to a great man with our whole future ahead of us...or so you'd think. I hate my job. I hate it so much its stressing me out and making me ill. I've been ill all year so far and I know its my job t...

I need some major help... to deal with all the troubles.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Everything seems to just be going completly wrong and i cant seem to just be happy. I'm usually an EXTREMELY outgoing person, can talk to anyone, make anyone laugh, but that part of me is just being eaten up. My parents are going to be divorced, my ...

What happens when you take the pill?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 January 2008 (?) - I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, an...

Penis problems, I need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hey, about a year ago, I came to the conclusion that my foreskin on my penis was tight. I now have realised its partially true, because the real reason is of the smegma on my penis head. The sperm and whatever else caught under the foreskin, has ...

What are my chances of getting pregnant and some advice on Triphasil.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi Please can someone give me some light on this situation: I started taking the birth control "Triphasil". I started it on the 15th January 08 (the same day that i got my period). When is it safe for me to have sex without any other protection...

I want to go on the "Pill", how do I go about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - need advice on the pill really, i really want to go on it but ive never had sex and never had really bad periods really, thing is i dont fully understand it any advice on the pill plz ...

Do I need circumsized?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - im 12 turning 13, i could never pull my foreskin back as it hurt to and now i see everyone saying i have to do it while having sex? when i get erected, the skin stays where it is and stretches a little, it doesnt move down at all, please tell me...

He says it's tobacco, but is he really smoking weed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend smokes using a shottie bottle because he doesn't want his fingers to turn yellow from rolling cigarettes. The problem is, this method means he gets the whole hit of nicotine at once so when he doesn't smoke he goes absolutely insane. ...

Ok, what do guys really prefer in the way of hair, down there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - hi i was just wondering do guys really care about how much hair we have down there? and if so what do u prefer? brazilian?trimmed?etc.....

Is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) - Write now I am having a problem with my girlfriend drinking while she is studying abroad in England.I don't understand why she is doing it. She did drink her before when her boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend, pressured her into drinking. She didn't like ...

Any time I get a call from a number I don't reccognize, I don't answer. Does this make me paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - Any time anyone calls me, if I don't know the number, I won't answer it, and I feel guilty too as if whoever's calling knows I am unintentionally anwering to avoid them. Is this normal, or am I paranoid? I feel bad a lot, like that everyone hates me ...

What is my problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I need to know if this is normal and what i should do about it? Im 28 and live with my dad and up until about 6 months ago my pretty serious boyfriend of like 5+ years lived 1.5 miles away. I would spend the night there every night. Then he got a ...

Can birth control pills impede breast development

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - Hiya i'm 16. Kind of an embarrassing question but would the pill have stopped my breats from growing. I'm not very big, a 32A and although they aren't totally flat theres nothing on top so they r moe pointy. Thing is i was on the pill at the age of ...

Are my pubic hairs normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - Ok, so i have this question. I've always wondered why but now i want to find out why. My situation is i have different coloured pubic hairs around my penis. Literally there are some hairs that are black on the top half and white on the bottom ha...

Whats the best way to handle pain? How can you deal with more than one serious painful subject?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - What is the best way to handle pain? How can yu deal,with more than one serious painful subject ,if your life seems to go that way?What should You say to yourself if all doors seem to close and you feel so alone with your pain. I feel ,i want to ...

Should I run away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old. I've been going through depression and a hard time in life. I'm really shy at school, but I've been like that like my whole life. But ever since grade 7 started I've been really sad and lonely. I think all of my ...

For 4 years...I have white discharge problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - hello plz help me, i have white discharge problem from past 4 years, please tell me how to control this problem and i m getting lot's of gelli kind of discharge every day, kindly give me the useful information......

I have a problem down there..will the doctor do the exam or will I go to a clinic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Just a quick question so i know what to expect... Im going to see my GP next week, i made the appointment because i think ive got a problem down there. What i want to know is, is he going to examine me or is this not part of his job? Will i...

Bad cramping after going off the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I was on the pill for a little over a year for many reasons... My boyfriend (now fiancee) were sexually active, and I wanted to make sure my cycle was regular. Since my fiancee works overseas now, and I won't be seeing him for a while, I thought...

Why won't he touch me? Am I being selfish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - The trouble is im in a long distance relationship and only get to see my BF for about 4 days a month or even 2 months. So when i'm home i cant keep my hands off him i want to kiss him and hold him and be intimate with tell him how much i miss him ...

Did he cheat on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 4mnths, i was a virgin b4 i met him but he's had quite a few partners b4 me. Recently i have found out that ive got chlamydia. He told me b4 we had sex that he was clean, and he got tested for STIs in december b4 i got ...

Should I worry about my weight and general health in these conditions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I recently became ill with the flu and a chest infection. Over a week, I've lost half a stone in weight. I actually think I look loads better, my stomach is like totally flat now, but I checked my BMI (body mass index) and its 18.1 which is ...

He doesn't want to see me because of my depression but if he isn't interested then why spend so long on the phone with me???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Where to start. Started talking to someone on line October 06, we were supposed to meet 22nd October, never happened, had a huge online argument instead on a public forum. Started talking again Jan 07, he lived 280 miles away. He moved to within ...

Is 'micropenis' a real disease??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

25 January 2008 (?) - I was talking to a boy online that I have been chatting to for a few months, and he just told me that he had a disease called 'micropenis.' He says his penis is only 1/2 inch long when erect, and it is all red and itchy. It doesn't really sound be...

Could he epidural have anything to do with the pain she gets after I finger her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - Hello everybody, my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and everything has been going amazing. At about six months we started to mess around more. I have always respected her and she is the person who always tells me when she...

What can I do about erection problems?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - I have erectal and low libido problems, more than two years ago, and my wife is very upset about it, as she thinks, its because I don't love her anymore. I don't know what is wrong with me,I went t the doctors and they say there is no indication ...

About stopping bulimia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Recently i have become bulimic, and have told my best friend and my boyfriend. they tell me that i am skinny enough, wich i now am but it is addictive, how do i stop...

I am thinking about going on anti-depressants...any advice??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have been depressed off and on for some years and am thinking about going on an anti-depressant. What have you heard? Any suggestions? I know that most of them have the same side-effects. I was on Prozac before and it didn't work out. I know this ...

Are these signs indicators of my period? When should I expect it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I'm really worried about when my periods start and ive been having like a white discharge for about 1 year and I also have bad cramps any Idea when my periods will start?...

How can I get over this anxiety and depression?

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22 January 2008 (?) - hi im 16 and have depression and am taking medication for it. ive been taking fluroxtine for about 2 months and i have felt no difference. i have had this anxiety well that is what i think it is. im in love with my teacher and i think that is partl...

I'm loney, sad and bitter! How can I find happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Im so god damn stressed and depressed. I feel like my life is a load of crap and it will never get better. At work, i feel like im not good enough for them, im just to common, I girl that likes to have a good time, im not stuck up my own arse! M...

I need help in seeing the reality of my own pain! What the most painful thing that has happened in your lives?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - What are the most painful things happened to you,,in your lifetime so far? I'm curious, what are the most hurtful things, what happened t others, and how they deal with it, as I feel, my life is full of pain, and everybody else seem to have smooth ...

I am disabled and can't walk! Is this fair to my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - i fall in love with someone and he also loves me but i have a big proplem i can't walk and i dun know if i could live with him in a normal life or i will injustice him??...

I'm calm one minute and then I snap at people! What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - hi im always snapping at people and i dont no why and it upsets me but then i can suddaly be hyper then calm it really upsets me dose any1 no why this might be? thanks bye...

My friends say I am pretty but when I see myself-I see an ugly freak! Whatis wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - i am 14 years old and i think there is somthing wrong with me. my friend said i am one of the prettiest girls in the year but when i look at my self i see a ugly baby faced freak i hate everything about my self my lips my nose my eyes everythi...

Her allergies are getting to me and it's affecting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has recently been diagnosed as being allergic . . . to nearly everything. In fact, when she asked the doctor for a list of everything she is allergic too, his answer was it would be easier to give her a list of what she isnt allergic ...