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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

Did I mess things up by not sleeping with her in the midst of all these mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

30 September 2016 (M) - So, i am kind of sort of seeing a coworker but not really, we both agreed it would be horrible to date while coworkers. She is ten years older than me, kids are out he house and i have no kids. We have gone out a few times, but nothing serious....

Was this barman interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - I went to an afternoon bar to catch up with a friend. I helped myself to some water as the queues were too long at the bar. Then this waiter came over quickly and filled a bottle of water and came over to my table and said "I have got you some water ...

At 19 I kissed another guy. What is the kindest way to tell my husband the truth? I can't forgive my indiscretion.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - So I've been with my husband ten years, married for two years. We have always had our ups and downs but now we are very strong and we have two children. However, when I was nineteen I made a terrible mistake. I kissed another man in a club while ...

Do I back off and hope he'll approach me? Or do I make a move and tell him how I feel? Eight year age difference.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - I have posted about this before so some of you may be familiar with my story. Just need a bit more advice. I met a guy, he is a PT at my gym. Cutting a long story short. There seems to be an attraction due to the way he looked at me. I did not li...

Should I back off and forget about him or am I being a bit dramatic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I really fancy this guy at work, the other girls have been trying to set us up for months but we're both a bit shy so nothing's ever happened. We were out with everyone from work a couple of weeks ago and he told one of the girls he was inte...

I don't want to cut all contact with him. But he has been distant with me ever since I asked if he was interested in anything serious. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

23 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I hope someone can shed some light on my situation. Recently, due to a change in jobs, my weekends are free, giving me more time to go out and socialise. Back in April, I went out to a local pub with my best friend where I bump...

Am I mad for wanting to be with a guy that much older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2960 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So as you pretty much know I'm 17. I've always had the problem of falling for older guys that I obviously can't have because of the age difference. I guess it's because I'm quite mature for my age, as I've also been told, so I'm rarely attracte...

How should I approach asking this cute girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - There's a girl in class that I've got feelings for. She's super cute and we talk a lot, as we share many interests. I know that she is bisexual, as I've asked a while back. But she is extremley shy... It's easy for me to talk to her usually,...

What can I do to make my Bf chase me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - As short as possible: my boyfriend of two months seems to be too relaxed in our relationship. What can i do to make him chase me again? I need him to start working for this relationship because i feel like he doesn't take me seriously anymore....

Broke up with friends. What was my former friend trying to say? should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I had friends who i just broke up with because they were beginning to be close friends with someone I know very well. She can't be trusted. I explained to them why i don't trust her and since we live in the same commune i know her better than they ...

I'm married. Should I be trying to contact my school crush from many years ago?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

18 September 2016 (M) - Hi I'm about to reach my 30. I'm married and have a child. Living life happily with lovable wife. Recently, I got the contact of a girl who was my classmate in middle school. I had a crush on her but it was untold as my family moved out of tow...

Some advice please on how to ensure that things do not go any further and do not lead to sex? Because I don't want that until I'm older

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I am 13 years old, female and is currently in a relationship of 4 months. My boyfriend and I haven't gone any further than straddling and French kissing until yesterday. No clothes were removed but there was grinding involved. And to be complete...

I'm feeling hurt after finding a photo of my Gf giving a kiss to an older guy at an outing with work colleagues. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

18 September 2016 (M) - i found a picture of my girlfriend kissing an older guy at a bar. My girlfriend an i have been dating for almost 6 years now and i always let her know that i do not mind her going out to hang with co-workers or friends. She never goes anywhere so...

I feel sad that he lost all interest. What can I do to avoid this happening again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - I need some advice! A few months ago I started a relationship with my housemate but it didn't work out, and I'm worried it's because I freaked him out and made him pull away. I'd love to know how best to move on and learn from this. So we were onl...

Please advise!!! What should I do about this situation with my girlfriend??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

14 September 2016 (M) - Okay, so this is my first time posting any sort of question online. I've been on and off this site for years just browsing never thinking I would ever need to post anything on here, but here I am. So here's the issue, me and my girlfriend have bee...

He's ten years younger. Should I wait for him to make the first move ? He did give me his number.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I've been single for over a year so now ready to date again. I noticed a guy who works at my gym but he never smiles. I noticed little things that he made me wonder if he fancied me. I would catch him staring or often feel him staring. He woul...

Does he now not want to see me any more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I hooked up with this guy i have been meaning to hook up with months ago So i went to his place and things were going on but midway just before the intercourse i stopped and asked him to stop and just left quickly I haven't heard from him yet. ...

Why go through the trouble of introducing me to friends if it was just a fling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I dated this guy for about 3 weeks. In that last week, we had sex. This is something I've never, ever done before (ever!) so I can't believe I slept with him so quickly. But I did, and things kind of fizzled out after that. We haven't seen each oth...

I'm extremely insecure about my boyfriend's lesbian friend who seems so accomplished compared to me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - My partner of 3 years and I are engaged, I am feeling so down about myself and insecure over something I have noticed ever since I first got with him. He tells me he loves me very much and wants to spend the rest of his life with me and everyone ...

I believe my husband’s client was flirting with him! She shared way too much personal information!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

7 September 2016 (F) - My husband is a building contractor and recently met with a woman to give an estimate for repairs at her residence. I accompanied him as we were on our way to dinner after this as it was in the early evening hours however, I remained in the vehicle ...

Could this lead to more than a friendship? Do I talk to him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - I need advice on a confusing situation I'm currently in. I have been friends with a guy for over a year and a half now. We hangout pretty often with our common group of friends as well as just the two of us (Theater, diner, movies at either of our...

Do I tell some white lies? Or compromise and invite my Bf to visit me and meet my Dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - Hello! a few basic info first: I'm currently a 19 y/o college student and living with my dad and brother. I'm unemployed as for now but I'm also thinking about getting a part-time job somewhere. I have a boyfriend who's 27 y/o currently and he's got ...

Am I just the side chick? How can I go forward when he treats me as just a friend, never his GF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - It has been a while that I have written on this. So, there is this guy I've known for the last three years of high school and we've kept contact streaming into the life of college. Throughout the years I 've known him since high school we've man...

Is this relationship over? My Gf and I were caught trying to make out and her cousins told her parents.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - Ok long story short i was over at my girlfriend's house for a labor day cookout and we were trying to try to find a place to make out in private and we got caught sneaking around by her cousins. They told her parents and now i can't go over to her p...

Do I break up with L and choose an untested but potentially amazing relationship with S ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

5 September 2016 (M) - Three years ago I met S., and we dated for a little while before he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship because he was getting over a recent breakup. Over the next year, he kept changing his mind between wanting to be friends and wanting ...

Does he care? Or am I crazy? Am I obsessed with him? Or am I just in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - It's taken me a Few moments to figure out how I should ask my question, but the Fact is The question Is just as confusing as the story..... A couple Of months ago I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship Three months prior to the ...

How do I go forward? He often lied to me. Why did he hurt me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - I left my boyfriend after a six year turbulent relationship. I gave him everything, I saved him from losing his house and bailed him out on numerous occasions. The final straw was finding out he was online sexting with his ex, I walked away. ...

He doesn't want to rush. I really like him and want this to go somewhere. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - I've been talking to this guy since December 2015. We have been on two date and speak pretty much every day. He works away offshore so it's hard to meet up with his as he is often away. Part of me wants to ask him what are we? As it has been s...

Is she in to me and how do I approach her? What can I say to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

4 September 2016 (M) - Hey. So I'm back again because I got some good advice the last 2 times I posted on here so I'm hoping for more. So as I first said I'm a African American age 19. In one of my college classes, one of my college classes, there's a girl who on the firs...

Having trouble reading the signs. Help. Does he really like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have a basic question to ask you guys, do you think he likes me? I usually wouldn't ask something like this but I cannot read this guy at all, so thank you all for your help in advanced. Anyways I have known this guy for almost two ...

My volunteer group organizer keeps flirting with me, but I'm not interested. How do I turn him down nicely but stay part of the group?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - I am in a very awkward situation at the moment. I am part of a voluntary organisation that I enjoy very much, being a part of, however, I feel that one of the organizers of the group has taken a particular interest in me, he is the main organize...

How do I seduce my female college professor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - I honestly think this is fate. I'm a college freshman, I was dreading my 4hr class with a professor I heard was tough and moody. I get to class and it's this young beautiful short girl with big curly hair. I immediately raise my hand and tell her ...

Should I ask about that kiss from years ago, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Years ago, I was engaged when I met this guy, he was one of my brother's friends. He knew I was engaged and I was simply enjoying talking to him but after that, at the club, I let him hold my hand (probably a bad idea looking back now) but after se...

Why would he do this? I've been faithful while he's been cheating. What do I need to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - This is not my first time on this site. Finally I made the decision to end a long term relationship that was awful. I had discovered my ex had been having online sexual chats with his ex, I left. After many ''I'm sorry's and she means nothing, I...

Has my teacher got a thing for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Let's call him Mr. Jones. Well, Jones started teaching at my school when I was a freshman. (I'm 16, he is 23) I am now a junior and this is my first year taking his class. Every girl thinks he is gorgeous, which he is, and I would notice him always ...

He has photos of other women on his phone. He forbids me to do some things. Surely he is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - my husband always speak of his past with his ex,s. Holidays, food,ext. And recently i found a photo of a girl hidden in a bible. With love letter cards. He is always on his phone. Dont say who it was. In the past i found out he was chattin...

Attracted to an older guy, how do I encourage him to be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - Hello. I need help with this guy.. So im attracted to an older guy. Im 21 and he is 35. We ironically have the same birthday so we are exactly 14 years apart. Since ive met him, ive always felt like there was an attraction between us.. ...

My Zumba instructor boyfriend was joking with a participant to stop looking at his butt! Did he cross a line?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is a Zumba instructor. Classes are all women. The other day in his class he told a participant jokingly to stop looking at his butt. He said this was harmless flirting. Part of the job. Hmmmm. I am not so sure about that. ...

Trust and cheating. How can I win back my partner's love and trust after all the has happened over the years ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for over 20 years and I very much love him with all my heart. Yet I found myself at 43 entering into an affair with a younger guy. Didn't take me long to realize this was a big mistake and I returned to my husband, con...

He's married. Wondering why he acted like that? Was he testing me, or was he seeing me as a potential client?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to hear others opinion about this scenario. I'm single mom, professional and attractive as others say. I am not dating and not interested in dating even after 3 years of my divorce. I always get attention and I don't care about...

Now he wants to now "start over and fresh"? what's happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - So I asked almost the same question before, but some things have changed and I don't know what to do. Im a freshman in high school and there is this guy who is a sophomore. When i was in middle school and he was a freshman, we dated 2 times fo...