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Archived questions from: July, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Am I asking for too much? Should I just settle down with her? How do I know she's the one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1553 days ago

29 July 2020 (M) - I (38 M) dated this girl (26) a few years back. I was infatuated with her at the beginning. As time progressed, our cultural and age difference began to emerge (I'm originally from Asia but lived in the west for 12 years; while she is a native ...

He got a text from someone on a gay site do I bring it up? Or just ghost him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1554 days ago

29 July 2020 (F) - So I went on a date today having chatted to this guy for over a year. He had told me he’d meet up several times but he was very busy so it kept being put off. I was really surprised when at the weekend he asked “ so ok when we doing drinks?” Anyway ...

How do I stop going after unavailable partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1555 days ago

28 July 2020 (F) - I have a continual habit of pursuing unavailable men. I just broke up with my boyfriend, who fit the unavailable mold. We were friends for 2 years. I told him I had feelings for him twice, to which he rejected me twice but wanted to stay friends....

Two men in my life I don't wish to lose either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1555 days ago

27 July 2020 (F) - I'll get right into it. My story is a little convoluted and long, and I don't expect many agony aunts to manage it all. I'm 26 years old, and a very inexperienced dater (grew up in a Mormon denomination - I am now an atheist). Up until 2 months a...

I just feel like I'm not as important to him as his drinking buddies and alcohol nights out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1558 days ago

25 July 2020 (F) - My boyfriend is rude to me when he is drunk. Last night he came home at 3am and lay down on the bed fully clothed, lying across my arm and woke me up. I asked him to please move over and he got angry and had a go at me. I had to be up early to go to ...

I've never had a girlfriend should I just give up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1550 days ago

24 July 2020 (M) - I'm 27 and never had a girlfriend or date before should i just give up?...

Do you think his jokes are actually jokes or is he testing me to see how I respond before asking me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1561 days ago

21 July 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles!! I have a guy friend that I have known for many years. I haven’t seen him for 1 year due to him working away. Although now that he’s back, I need help deciphering if he likes me as more than a friend or not. We have alwa...

I know I need to end things and kick my boyfriend out but I don't do it

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1560 days ago

19 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, I'm just looking for some relationship advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years. We're both 32. Here is just some background info - 2 and a half years ago, my wonderful grandparents moved into a bungalow as ...

He has my number but he hasn't texted me yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1565 days ago

18 July 2020 (F) - I met a guy online and we hit it off pretty well (in my opinion). I was teasing him by calling him Mr. John, then he started to call me Rossie as a way of teasing me back. He started asking me questions about myself, like where I was from and would ...

Would it be a good idea to give this relationship another chance, or am I just the rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1565 days ago

18 July 2020 (F) - I dated a guy for 1 year. During that time, we never had sex because I was unsure about his intentions, even though he told me that he loved me, so I do realize that some of this is my problem! Towards the end of our year, he began showing interest ...

How do I talk to women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1559 days ago

17 July 2020 (M) - Hello, I was hoping to get some advice on how to talk to girls. I'm a 28 year old man, unfortunately I've been single all my life. This is probably due to the fact that I have Aspergers. Although it's only 'mild' Aspergers, I've always struggled...

Does Covid stops men having intimacy with you and especially if you(Men) tested positive before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

16 July 2020 (F) - My boyfriend who had virus at the end of march, and he had it for a month, doesn’t seem like he wants to have a sex. After 28 days quarantine, we started to see each other and giving peck while wearing mask. Then I asked him when the second phase ...

I think we might break up. How do I cancel on boyfriend's birthday

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

15 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, I need advice! How should I cancel on my boyfriend. His birthday is on Friday. He is divorced and moved back in with his parents he has a son with his ex. She text him last week saying she wanted to get back with him! Since then he’s...

He's shy should I wait for him to ask me out? Or ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

15 July 2020 (?) - Hi guys. This may come across quite silly and people will probably laugh at a 32 year old asking these sort of questions. I have been single for almost 2 years now after a really bad situation with my ex. I gave myself time to heal and haven't...

He's 8 years younger than me and his grandmother told me to tell him to go away

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1566 days ago

14 July 2020 (F) - hello my name is Ashley and I really need your help. I am 29 years old with 2 kids and single mom. I met a guy two weeks ago and he is 21. I met him when I went to drop off my kids so his grama can watch them for me and she is the manager to the ...

I haven't heard from my boyfriend in over a month I'm worried

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

14 July 2020 (F) - Hi my boyfriend when out of the country last March due to his dad being in COVID-19 we agree to email each other while he is away the recent email I received from him is May 26 which he told he will let me know first when he is coming back and then ...

I’ve split up with my ex of 5 years but think I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1567 days ago

13 July 2020 (F) - I’m in a really tough situation. I’ve split up with my ex of 5 years but think I still love him. When we were together he suffered a really traumatic death in his family which has affected him badly. His whole personality and behaviour has changed, ...

I love him but can't let him hold me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

13 July 2020 (F) - Well I’m not too sure how to start but here goes nothing.... I’ve been with my partner for coming on a year now, we’re both the same ages (24). We are exactly the same person in some ways, it’s great we’re like best friends but some days we do ...

How Do I Become Consistent w/ Communicating With My Boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

13 July 2020 (F) - Hello, I need advice on communicating better with my partner. Recently, because of the pandemic, I have been seeing my boyfriend less. We stopped visiting each other and going out. Now, all we do is text. He also still works daily, but I don't. I ...

Is it normal to spend every minute of every day together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1571 days ago

11 July 2020 (F) - Hello. I hope all is well. I’ve been dating this guy I met at school for five months and this is my first real relationship. I just have a question since I don’t have much relationship / dating / experience. Is it normal to spend every minute of ...

We are dating but he hasn't moved on from his last relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1573 days ago

9 July 2020 (F) - Sorry in advance for how long this is about to be...I really really appreciate any perspectives any of you are able to offer. So about two years ago I got out of a borderline abusive relationship with a man who, while I actually think his intent...

The man I am dating told me he still loves his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

9 July 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve just started a new relationship I really like him I split with my partner a year ago he split with his 4 months ago we were in bed last night and he told me he still loves his ex so obviously now I am confused as to what to do I know I ...

We dated, I wasn't ready, we became friends, she got a boyfriend and now I love her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1575 days ago

8 July 2020 (M) - I’m struggling with my feelings for one of my female friends. Two years ago I met her and we started dating. However, it only lasted a month. I had just got out of a relationship a few months before and although I initially thought I was ov...

My boyfriend's ogling other girls makes me insecure.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1575 days ago

8 July 2020 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and we have a mostly stable relationship. I enjoy being with him and feel very comfortable in being myself around him, something I have struggled with in the past. Our one problem is how he makes me ...

Is this the golden rule for dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1575 days ago

8 July 2020 (M) - I’ve always heard that one of the golden rules of first dates is to never talk about exes. But often on first dates (or during online dating app pre-date talking), I'm asked about past relationships like how long did it last? why did it end? etc. ...

I have issues I need to discuss with my boyfriend, please help me clarify them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1576 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - I've been known my "boyfriend" (we're not official, at least he hasn't communicated that to me, but we act as if we are) since December of last year and finally met in person for the first time this June since COVID-19 sent me back home as I go to ...

I thought it was a golden rule, so why do so many people break it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1576 days ago

7 July 2020 (M) - I’ve always heard that one of the golden rules of first dates is to never talk about exes. But often on first dates (or during online dating app pre-date talking), I'm asked about past relationships like how long did it last? why did it end? etc. ...

On and off ex just married somebody else.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1576 days ago

6 July 2020 (F) - ex and i were doing the on/off thing for YEARS. it went on too long, i still had feelings, he apparently didn't because he was always hesitent to get back together. he had a cycle of hoovering and discarding me over and over again. i foolishly ...

My boyfriend was aggressive to my son over football

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

5 July 2020 (F) - Hi. Today there was an incident with my son and Bf in front of my family whom we are down to viait for a few days. My Bf is an avid football supporter and my family support the rival team but they are not really into football they just have a few ...

How do I get this girl to not be mad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1578 days ago

3 July 2020 (M) - I'm 18 and I have a problem apparently where I laugh when I'm embarrassed or surprised or even when I get hurt. I don't know why I do it I always have. So I was making out with this girl I really like. We've done that a bunch of times before and...

My boyfriend of seven months has anger issues.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

3 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, hoping for some advice: I’m divorced, in my 40s, and have recently moved country. Shortly after moving, I met my now boyfriend (of 7 months) For some time now, I have not been able to make sense of my his anger issues. He is highly-edu...

Sex in my new relationship is awful, maybe I need therapy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

2 July 2020 (F) - Hey Aunts and uncles I have been seeing this man for 3 months now. He is kind, considerate and good to me. We have had sex a couple of times now but only recently. I made him wait until I was ready, which he was fine with. My problem.... the s...

How do I handle this? A co-worker likes me but I am dating his friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1579 days ago

1 July 2020 (F) - Dear aunts and uncle, Last October I got promoted to a senior IT tech at my company and with the promotion i was assigned to a whole new team. Within a week of me being there one of my new coworkers ,lets call him Michael, started flirting with me ...