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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Did my boyfriend lie to me about spending time with his son? What's going on here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend's son is over on a visit. He has been here for a week. He lives in the Florida and we are in Canada. Now, I am having some trouble figuring something out. Can everyone help me? Before I go insane? My boyfriend was supposed to sp...

My boyfriend cheated and I have all the proof but he keeps denying it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - This is probably a no brainer but I'm asking anyway, found out my boyfriend has been texting and chatting with his ex, I confronted him and he promised to stop because he didn't want to lose me the problem is he hasn't I checked his phone and have ...

I (F) upset my boyfriend and he's now being so cold with me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I need advice on what to do about my boyfriend. Whenever we have an argument and I am slightly to blame, he gives me the silent treatment the next day and sometimes for a few days. He has mental health problems and I will admit that he is very ...

What can I do? My ex ghosted me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend whom I've been sleeping with, ghosted me for someone else a month ago. I found this out from mutual friends. I feel absolutely horrible. I feel strung along, used, worthless, hopeless, "not good enough".. Its pretty pathetic. why no...

Seeking your opinions, please! Is he covering up dating another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I have been seeing this man for quite awhile now. Recently there were some pics of him on Instagram with another girl. I questioned him about if he was seeing anyone and his reply was no. I then sent the pic to him and he still says this is not h...

I like this guy at work. But he is dating someone else at work. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I like somebody at work, however it is a bit complicated as he is seeing someone else at work. A few months ago they had broken up (although I didn't know at the time) and at the pub he and I were getting on really well, enough for some of my work ...

He still lives with his ex. What can I do. ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys thanks for reading, I am open to all the advise you can give me. I have been dating this guy for a few weeks, but I barely get to spend time with him because he has a son. I haven't met his son yet I would like to but not till we are in a...

My Bf ignores me and neglects me. Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - If my boyfriend has neglected me for over 3 months and counting, should I break up with him? He might be working on something, or studying for finals, but that might not be it. I have also found another man but I haven't met him in real life, and I ...

How can we come to some agreement? We have different views about my past sexual history.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm hoping you can help! I'm in a relationship with this new lovely guy, but there is one main problem; we have very different ideas about sex and relationships etc. Basically he's very traditional and believes that sex is only wh...

My words initiated the break-up. But he broke up as if I never meant anything to him. How can I get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I am very unhappy i need advice I have been dating this man for ten months now and he has a habit of ignoring my calls and texts even for days so we have been urguing about it he says he is busy but he will go even for a week unless i contact ...

My boyfriend's behaviour has left me feeling confused. How do I make sense of this? Help !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I am so confused about my boyfriend's behaviour lately. We've been together for nearly six months and everything has been great. He's really sweet and loving. He always makes an effort and plans dates. He's a proper gentleman, always pays. For Va...

What can I do? My Bf has now become just taciturn and grumpy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - When we first met my boyfriend loved talking with me but now he is just taciturn and grumpy.He bites back every conversation i start and complains about everything connected to me. It's driving me crazy and i cant see why he could imagine i want a ma...

He is not the ideal choice, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hello aunts! I broke up with my bf a year ago. People who love me dont like him anymore because he could have cheated on me (not sure, however proofs led to break up). Though we broke up for the public, we have been meeting and talking. The relation...

How can I get my man to kiss and cuddle me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend/partner dislikes kissing and cuddling me.He has had a troubled past; We have sex most days,which we both love,but no kissing and not close to my body during sex.But he caresses and strokes my arms and back which I find very loving a...

She's engaged but my boyfriend checks out her facebook page every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My bf n I have been dating for about 4 yrs now. We r both college grads n about to start professional schools. We have a solid relationship but one thing has always bothered me. My bf either has a crush or really really likes one of his friends from ...

Will I ever measure up to his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I've been dating a nice guy for 4 months now. I really have a lot of feelings for him and we have a great connection. There is a big issue though. He got out of a serious 7 year relationship about 6 months before we met. I knew about this from ...

He's sending me mixed signals. How should I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

29 May 2016 (?) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I am 25 and never been in a long term committed relationship. I always just focused on school and college and then my career, so i've been quite comfortable with being single, that is up until recently. My close friends hav...

We me on an online site. Should I assume we are still in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - Dear Auntz. Ive fallen inlove so fast within a period of a month with a guy 9 years older than me from a dating site. He asked me to help him do a website for him because i told him my brother does that so at fast my brother wanted to do it for f...

Why does my heart warm up when I see my ex? What's up with my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I am now into my third year of a wonderful relationship. We got together about 6 months after breaking up with my daughters father, which was a very turbulent time. Some his fault, but I admit, I never made things easy by cheating several times(he...

I have anxiety and trust issues. What can I do to trust my BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - Is it normal to worry that anytime your boyfriend is out of your sight, that he is cheating on you? I worry constantly. And it is affecting my peace of mind as it is eating away at me and causing me great anxiety and stress all of the time. I h...

When my BF was younger, before he knew me, he slept with some women who, then, were in their 40s. Why didn't he tell me earlier? I'm disgusted and very upset

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is older than I am. It seems like he loves me very much but yesterday, I found out that he slept with a couple of some who were in their forties when he was about twenty years old ( he slept with them at different times). This really h...

Dating problems. Where does one find the nice, genuine, yet good looking guys out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - It seems that every descent looking guy I come across ends up being a total a^^^ole! They turn out to be liars and cheaters and users and abusers and honestly I'm sick of it. They think that just because they are good looking they can step al...

Age differences? Is this even worth continuing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

28 May 2016 (M) - I met an amazing woman the other day. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and we've even had sex. The only thing is that she's 35 and I'm 22. She also has a 12 year old boy. I've tried to talk myself out of this a million times, b...

Is my friend is being passive-aggressive, or am I being sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - I've known my friend (we'll call him Ron) for almost 4 years. We met during the first year of university. I met a wonderful man (we'll call him Thomas) during my summer exchange program in another country. Over the past 1.5 years, I've been in a l...

Do I tell the woman I'm dating that I had an affair with a married co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

28 May 2016 (M) - I need help, this has been driving me crazy recently, giving me endless sleepless nights. Ill set the context. Last August/September not other way of saying this other than I started having an affair with a married woman. Now im 26 and was free and...

I think I've found my soul mate too early

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - I want experience in the world. I'm just turned 18 and have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, the first boyfriend I ever had. He's had a couple of relationships before me and is now wanting to settle down and I don't know what to ...

What is your story about your first boyfriend or girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I'll be 17 soon and have never had a boyfriend. Probably because I'm less confident around guys I like and I struggle with expressing my feelings in any situation. I mean I've been somewhat intimate with a guy (without going too far luckily - im ...

Is this cheating type behavior? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3079 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend, I've been very unhappy and paranoid lately. I hate to jump to conclusions and sound crazy but I have a gut feeling my boyfriend is cheating, or at the very least spending time and talking to another girl. Th...

Should I stop cooking for my Bf after what he did? Any suggestions on how to get him to appreciate me more?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 1 year. He can be super sweet, loyal and sensitive and we have a lot in common... but sometimes he can just 'lose it.' Though he would never be violent he has lost his temper over ...

The age issue bothers me. How do I learn to accept what my sister has done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hello, My sister is 32 with a 9 year old child. Until recently, she was with a man, W, for a majority of her child's life. He is not the real father, but my nephew believes him to be. W has stepped up and taken care of both of them. He has pro...

At what age, of a particular person who has never dated, are others likely to form an opinion that the particular person is gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

26 May 2016 (M) - I've heard a lot of people say that people close to you often guess your sexuality before you actually come out. That has got me wondering. I'm 26, I have never dated, don't talk about who I'm attracted to and have never so much as held someone'...

I suffer social anxiety. How can I break the news to my parents that I've met a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, just looking for some advice and I guess some moral support :-) Brief background story: I've always been shy and introverted, and have been in abusive relationships in the past. After my last long term relationship I moved...

I feel as if I am just the girl he made pregnant. Does he really love me? I feel as if I'm second best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years and together have two babies. We have 2 kids each to previous partners. All up we have 6 kids whom we raise together. He was with his ex for about 5 years. They were not married but were...

She is wonderful, fulfills all my needs in life, but I'm not in love with her. Should I reconnect with an ex, instead, despite problems likely to result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

25 May 2016 (M) - 5 years ago me and my partner that I have children with went through a very rough patch and I ended up cheating on her. Me and her friend ended up falling for each other but in the end I couldn't deal with the guilt and told her what has been go...

My boyfriend is touchy feely with other girls.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. The problem is that he's extremely touchy and always tickles and teases other girls, even in front of me. I talked to him about it but it seems that it's pointless. I've never told him not to hang out with ...

Age gap. Is our relationship destined to fail or can we make it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - Is me and my boyfriend's relationship destined to fail or can we make it work? I'm an 18 year old girl dating a 39 year old man. We have been dating for 3 months now and it has been amazing he is the best relationship I've had so far. He really...

Why do people want strippers at celebration parties just before they marry?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - Hi this is a weird question because its a hypothetical. I think its very strange that before two people get married they are encouraged to have strippers at their bachelor/ bachelorette parties. I've never been to a strip club even though it w...

Don't want this to feel like a parent child relationship. how to make him see where I'm coming from?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for three years now and its been lovely. He cares about me a lot, we have our own separate lives and we don't live together but we are moving in together in a few months. I've really excited about this but w...

How do I stop saying the wrong thing and convince H that I love her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - I've been dating H for five months and it's just gotten weird... With like all these things where she gets mad at me. First time, my friends said I could have been nicer about it but I think she was over sensitive. She got her braces adjusted ...

I don't mind paying but resent being asked to

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid: I was on an on-line dating site. A man sent me messages saying he would like to meet me. We met at a place he picked, I told him I was good with just a drink (no food). I had one beer (it was happy hour), he picked up the tab which wa...

I am about to have sex with my new partner, and don't want to scare him off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I've been seeing a great guy for some time now and we're about to start having sex. I'm in my late thirties (he's of my age), divorced after 15 years. Almost half of my marriage the sex was... well just going through the motions before becoming...

I thought there were mutual feelings but that the timing was off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Definitely needs some advice here, So my boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time now, (3+ years). While I do care for him, we are opposites and have been on and off. 2 years ago, I went on a trip with my school and met a guy (al...

Has anyone dated fathers with shared or full custody?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - I am trying internet dating. I recently met a lovely man who lives 40 miles from me and has shared care of four children. He is adamant he can find time for me despite commuting each day for work. He has an au pair. He seems really keen and has ...

His friends don't make me feel welcome. How can I deal with this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Hi All, I'm having this uneasy feeling about a situation, theres nothing I can do about it but wait for it to pass. And then hopefully it'll just be a forgotten memory. The situation is that my boyfriend (of 5 years, of which 2 years living t...

He chooses the couch every time. Why doesn't my boyfriend want to sleep in the bed with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - I am 18 years old and I started dating this 39 year old guy 3 months ago and every time I sleep over at his house he sleeps on the couch while I'm in his bed. The first time this happened I didn't pay much attention to it because I had fallen a...

Is wanting a relationship normal, even if you don't even know what it's like to be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys! So I haven't been on this site in years but I find myself needing advice again. My birthday is in a couple of days and im just feeling so lonely, just another year passing without any change. I've never been in love or had a boyfriend ...

What is the best way to tell our family about our relationship and our plans? Should we mention how long we've dated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

22 May 2016 (M) - Modnote added: for those who want to understand the relationship:http://lifehacker.com/second-cousins-once-removed-and-more-explained-in-1661572056 (c)Copyright Alice J Ramsay Jan 1987 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I am a 31 years old ma...

Uncles who lost your virginity at a later stage, how did you do it? Aunts what will really help me lose my virginity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

21 May 2016 (M) - How do you shake off being a virgin? While I have kissed a couple girls and have been sexual with some, I feel down on myself for not having had intercourse. I've read articles on this site, other sites about not feeling bad about it but it ...

I like him and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - So for this I'm going to use the letters K and W. Alright so I've liked this guy, W, since freshman year (of high school) he's a grade above me but he's also one of my really good friends. Well W also had a huge crush on my best friend. So while I ...

What causes my GF to go from hot to cold towards me? Could it be depression or a mental health issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - I'm a gay female. I have a dilemma I need some advice about. I have been sleeping with a good friend of mine for about six months now. The problem is she blows very hot and cold on me regularly, and I don't know how to deal with it. For a mon...