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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do I stop feeling so alone when every single friend is coupled up and I have no family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - I have two different friendship groups who I socialise with regularly plus a few friends who I see individually on a regular basis rather than as part of any group. I have known all of them for between 4 and 10 years. They are all aged between ...

What are signs a girl wants me to move the conversation to asking her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - How do you know if a woman is into you? I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have had one girlfriend only. It lasted two years. Shyness/lack of confidence gets in my way. Whether I think I'm too short/not good looking/charismatic enough. When...

Does he want a relationship or does he just want to fool around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - Been on 2 dates with this guy. Date one: we went to the cinema. He didn't wait long into the movie before he made a move and kissed me. After the film, we took a small walk to a roof garden. He kissed me a lot there. Then he messaged me after th...

He demonstrated flakiness in the past. Yet now he's given me his number? Can I trust him, this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - The first time he was supposed to call me after he gets off work at 3pm to finalize our plans but I didn't hear from him untill 10:00pm, something had came up on his end. He apologize profusely and asked how he can make it up to me. Subsquently,he...

Is it fair that I don't want my boyfriend to go drinking with his female colleagues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - Hey guys :) so I've boyfriend for 6 years now, we are usually very happy, and we've been living together for 1 year. Neither of us go out drinking a lot (we are both very homely). Well recently boyfriend started a new office job, and his team has...

Why do so many men believe they have a right to sex without a condom?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I'm sorry if this comes across as a rant but I'm really annoyed at the moment and looking to hear opinions around whether I've been unlucky or if what I'm experiencing is the norm. Why do the men I meet seem to think it's their right to get to ...

How can I stop my trust issues from a past breakup from ending my new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I had a really bad break up with my ex, and I'm worried the damage it caused me will end in me sabotaging my new relationship. The relationship ended by my then boyfriend of 6 years bringing home a girl he managed at work. I found them curle...

They say nice things but they won't date me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

30 July 2016 (M) - I'm a 19 year old African American in college. I've been single my whole life because no girl will give me a chance. They'd rather date some idiot who'd cheat on them in the next 2 minutes over a guy who would actually care for them. Multiple times ...

Its come down to my parents or her...whom do I chose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

28 July 2016 (M) - I have been betrayed by people around me all the time. There haven't been many people who supported me. My mother was sometimes abusive towards me (hitting mainly) during my childhood. I was always scared to be in a relationship due to my trust ...

My boyfriend struggles with lusting after other women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

28 July 2016 (F) - My boyfriend struggles a lot with lusting after other women. He sees beautiful women and wants to be with them and gets jealous of their partners if these women are with someone else. He then ends up feeling really terrible about lusting after other ...

His ex got engaged just yesterday. Since they were still on social media together, is her engagemet likely to bother him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi Ive been with my boyfriend 2 years, when we first got together, he had only recently broken up with his ex, they were together 10 months. They still have each other added on social media but as far as i know they dont talk. She got enga...

I got rejected but I still like him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I met a guy on tinder in May and I fell for him and I thought it was mutual because when we see (which is not very often due to his job) we always make out and stuff, plus he once asked me if I would like to fall in love with him. A few days ago, I ...

Major trust issues. I feel that if I like someone, that I'll get disappointed. How should I address these trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi there. I am in my early 20s. I have this bad fear of men and a fear of liking someone, more of an attachment. Before, I'd thought that it was a phase that I was going through and I'll get it over with but nothing seems to change as I grew int...

Will a man automatically fancy a younger women than once closer to his age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Hello, I'm 37 years old and I fancy a guy of 45 who I suspect fancies me too. However, there is a pretty girl of 26 that also likes him. Will he automatically fancy her more because she is younger? When I found out she liked him I have been avoiding...

I feel guilty that I got involved with him when all he wanted was to sleep with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I met a guy over a dating site and it was my first ever date , I always wanted a serious relationship and he said he wished for the same...he was really good to me and it was love at first sight for me, I was really serious about him,,as days ...

Why do men act the way they do ? Not replying? Changing plans at last minute?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Im hoping a few men will reply to this. I want to know why men do and say things the way they do . If a woman asks a basic question like how you doing fancy meeting up next week ? and the man has seen the message but doesnt reply and its been 5 d...

Porn and masturbation and the ex. How can I raise these issues with him with it escalating to his usual angry response of, none of your business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - My bf have been together for 4 years on and on, mostly just seeing each other on the weekends. With in those 4 years I have been on my edge with him knowing he Jacks off every morning watching porn or some sort activities with porn on his computer...

Does my obliging nature cause women to think I'm too boring a guy, for them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

25 July 2016 (M) - Am I boring in relationships, I like going out dancing to live bands, taking walks in parks, going shopping,going to movies, holding hands, nice places to go eat, I like cooking, if a woman needs help at her place, I can do a lot when it comes to ...

I dislike my boyfriend because he's low-income and I have to keep providing for him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - Is it wrong for me to dislike my boyfriend because he is low income? I live with both parents who have good jobs and I get allowance. I should be getting a job at the age of 20 but I am in college. My boyfriend is 23 and in college as well but ...

I'm new to the US...What should I expect if I want to date am American guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi all. I'm new and just moved to the US 3 months ago. I am single and want to start dating here. I am not familiar with the culture so I don't want to look odd. Can someone help me and give me some tips that what should I expect if I want to date ...

My boyfriend has many female friends and I am jealous!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - I am extremely jealous when it comes to my boyfriend that it scares me! We don't live together but, I end up stalking him on social media. Seeing if he is liking other girls pictures on Instagram etc. He's French so, I end up translating every ...

Boyfriend of 10 years didn't bring me back a gift from his Usa vacation. Am I spoiled?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - NB Previous question didn't go through I don't think. Boyfriend of ten yes ten years standing has just returned from USA and didn't bring me a single thing back! Don't get me wrong I wasn't expecting a side of American beef but just a tiny slice of ...

I was swept off my feet, then devalued and then discarded with no emotions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Was I targeted by a sociopath? I met a 45 yr old guy online. It turned out we had many mutual fb friends. One of my exs was actually a friend of his. On our 2 nd date he'd told me he told him he'd met me. By our 3rd date he'd said he wanted more tha...

Did he really want to date me? Or is it the cable that he wanted to watch? How do I hint that I want to go out with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Help .... I'm dating a guy who only wants to sit on my sofa and watch tv... How do I hint to him that I want to go out ??? We have been dating a month I have known him for years he is a friend of a cousin , in one month we have only gone out 3 ...

Why am I undecided about the sort of guy I'd like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, I really need your help. I'm about to be a sophomore in college and I'm so unsure about what I want when it comes to guys. I feel as if all of my friends have had hookups and seem so sure of themselves when it comes to sexual ...

Has his interest in me lessened? Or has he just become used to dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, Just need some dating advice please. (Backstory) I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months.. Everything was going well, he texted me daily and we go on a date usually every Friday night. So after 2 months we had sex and everything w...

Men's opinons needed on this man's behavior

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - If a Shy guy who has a crush on me asks me why don't I come to buy my meals when he is working at the cashier desk of a coffee shop of our company. He then nervously changed the topic even before i could say something. Even when he was asking me the ...

I want to date him but I don't want to rush things. Do I tell him now or give it time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - Opinions please!!! So I am newly out of a long term relationship, and after it was over, but before I was moved out a met a guy. I was attracted to him physically but that was about it. Anyways long story short we ended up hanging out, talking, ...

I only attract men who focus on my physical appearance. How do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - I've never dated, and it makes me insecure that I might not be good enough for dating. I'm a very attractive girl, and everyone loves my looks, I had 3 guys purposed for me this year, and it's just because of my looks. Don't get me wrong but, I hate ...

Cheating. How do I respond to this? I really loved this girl, and was going to propose to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - Well me and my gf are both 26 years old and have been with each other for the past 4 years. Met her in my last year of College and have been with her since. We started living together about 3 months of getting together and everything was lovely, ...

How should I tell my boyfriend about this kiss with a girl while I was drunk?? I feel so guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I am seeing someone for the past year(my boyfriend)but yesterday I stupidly got drunk and kissed a girl nothing more than a kiss and she was cool about it said it's not a big deal and it was obvious that we are both straight cuz I felt nothing ...

How can I stop these obsessive thoughts about men 24/7

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - I'm a 30 year old woman that has on the outside everything going for her 1.hearh 2. A family especially a love sister and a sown what great materialistic things such as looks- money- and a great job. Even though my life seems structured and great ...

How many times can I keep bringing this to his attention before he gets that he's hurting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I've been going out with my b/f for 3 years. He makes plans to do things with me then changes the plans if something else comes up. He'll say I don't do it on purpose but I feel like i'm only good enough if something else doesn't come up. When I ...

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's comment to his female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Should I be worried about my boyfriend's comment to his female friend?. They work in the same place. He did a shift before she started work. He had done something wrong and she had to sort the problem out. It was some mistake he made while working....

Should I ask him what's happening, and if it's just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I started seeing a guy in September last year. We do work together and have done for a few years and always get on. Another colleague told me that this guy quite liked me so we started talking and went on a couple of dates and started seeing e...

How I get back to enjoying my favourite activity of fellatio, because currently, I gag when I try it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Ok first is I have been with my fiance for going on 5 yrs, will get married in 2018. I have been previously married, and the reason I say this is I love the taste of cum. My previous husband was very sweet and tasted so good I can handle swallowi...

Haven't integrated into this new area. Should I move back home or stick it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I moved to from one county to another to be with my boyfriend 9 months ago and I'm feeling a little lost. Since being here, i've found it hard to make freinds, mostly becuase I don't feel there's a great deal here that I want to get invol...

All my life I've considered myself unlucky! How do I change my negative mindset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - I'm sorry for sounding depressive or if a lot of you simply can't answer me, I understand that I'm probably going to say a lot of stuff that can't be answered so all I can say is thank you for your time. All of my life I have considered mysel...

How long to wait for a declaration of love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 8 months and as I'm no spring chicken I've got to be economical with time. I've wasted too much in the past with an emotionally unavailable man. This one looked promising as we get on well and enjoy each other's ...

I'm hurt he doesn't want to get engaged! How do I sort this out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - hi i recently seen a post about someones boyfriend will only get engaged cos she wants to i am in the same situation ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years now we have no children we went out for a meal last week with family and they asked us if we ...

Does he really not realize he was wrong to take off without coming over my house ? Does he believe his own lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a month and 1/2 who told me right from the start he is bipolar. At least once a week he will do something such as make plans with me and then just go off with somebody else and not even call me to let me know. He wil...

Recently found out about a fling my Bf had. Is it wrong to want to know these things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I recently found out my boyfriend had a fling with a girl on holiday not long after we started going out. We had been together for a couple of months, and we were still in the early stages of our relationship. We have been together for 3 y...

My boyfriend has ignored me for 3 days and blocked me from contacting him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - First of all a bit of background information. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years and our relationship is pretty serious. Recently we've both been happier and better than ever, and have even spoken about marriage. Overall our ...

My boyfriend is on a hook up site while I am away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts, So I'm on a 6 week family holiday away from my boyfriend and I noticed that he had several emails from a hookup site called localblack^^^^s.com Before anyone asks, I wasn't snooping. His email inbox is on my phone along with ...

Previously I messed up. What should I do differently this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

19 July 2016 (M) - Hello. My story is pretty simple. I messed up. Bad. I was with my woman for 6+ years, since we were sophomores in high school. Truth be told I cheated on her. Why? For the longest time I felt like I didn't matter. Like even the littlest things ...

What needs to be done? I am so ashamed. Should I hold back from going into detail about all the online sites I visited?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

19 July 2016 (M) - Hello! so I have this problem. I've been with my girlfriend for going on 6 months, I really and truly care for her. I've gotten close to not only her but her family! She left for Costa Rica a month ago and since then we are alright but my t...

Were his family opposed to me? Or did he just want me for one thing? We broke up but he said we could still be FWB.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I met this guy nearly 2 years ago, we were really good friends. He then became flirty with me and I had an attraction to him, but then he said we could just be fwb I guess I couldn't go through with this idea and we agreed to continue being fr...

We bicker. He says he'll change but never does. How can I get him to communicate effectively?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hello, So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we have a beautiful 10 month old daughter together. She wasn't planned but she is the best thing to happen to us. So when we were about 6 months into the pregnancy we moved in toget...

FWB but getting emotionally attached

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hi, i have a male best friend of 12 years who iv recently started sleeping with. We both don't want a relationship but i have found myself getting upset at the thought of him getting a girlfriend. I can't be with him because i know it wouldn't work ...

Is it bad to enjoy no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - I've been a goody two shoes my whole life. This has been partly out of my fear about making mistakes (I'm a perfectionist) and just a big worrier. I've always hated that I come across as such a square. I've been in a few serious relationships bu...